Kick off the New Year with our Nurturing, Sensual Cuddle! ON SATURDAY.

Happy New Year to all our cuddly men out there!
Let's try out a new night for a while -- Saturdays instead of Sundays. I hope you're all enjoying the holiday break, as am I. I've been leading Men Cuddling Men for nine years and it still surprises me the rejuvenating power of a cuddle or even a good hug. Recently a friend of mine gave me a cozy, unrushed hug and I was overwhelmed by how powerful it was! It made me a believer again in the importance of human touch and the uniqueness of MCM's mission to serve the community,

Early Bird Discount
We're bringing back the early discount. It's available for about the first two weeks after I post an event. For the Jan event, get your discount Dec 1-14 and cuddle for just $22. After that it's the regular $28.

How to Secure Your Spot at the event
Step 1. Go to Meetup event page and select RSVP button.
Step 2. Send email to Dwight at DwightOkita@gmail indicating: Member Name, Actual Name, Event Date. Failure to do so can delay matching money with member! Or you could lose your spot.
Step 3. Go to Zelle (thru your bank or app) and send the correct amount. Remember the early bird gets the discount. We no longer accept cash, Paypal or venmo.

While we encourage folks to be open to cuddling all -- we also understand that sometimes two guys are not compatible. So cuddle accordingly. The event is cuddle-optional as well as clothing-optional.

We have room for no more than ten. Late responders will likely be disappointed. Come on up to Dwight's cozy penthouse studio on the 29th floor overlooking the city. Get away from the hustle and bustle -- and join us for two hours of cuddles and/or sensual touch.
* Clothing-Optional is available, as well as nip play. * Ask your partner for what you want. Take responsibilty for setting boundaries.

Welcome Packet
For those who've rsvpd/paid, I will send out a Welcome Packet the week of the event. This includes the address of the event, pre-partnered list for first cuddle, new and improved Cuddle Menu, more detailed Do's & Don'ts guidelines, etc. Please make sure you let me know if you have or haven't received this important email.

We are the only male cuddle meetup group in the country. Minimum number of cuddlers needed for this event to happen is 6. (In the event that we have to cancel due to low rsvps -- I will refund your fees.) Events all take place on the north side near Montrose and the lake. (If you don't get my notices, please be responsible for reaching out to me to get critical info.)

What are the benefits of cuddling? It's been proven by science that nurturing touch/cuddling boosts one's feeling of being cared for, and decreases depression/stress. There's lots of science of this -- lowering blood pressure, increasing resistance, the release of oxytocin which is a neurotransmitter that makes you feel nurtured and safe. Babies who are not touched have been known to die of skin hunger. People who cuddle live longer!

First Hour we are on our feet
-- We start with a WELCOME CIRCLE where each person introduces themselves. Shades are drawn, room is darkened. Please share if you are seeking a Therapeutic Cuddle or a Sensual Cuddle.
-- About half an hour is for HELLO HUGS where one gets to embrace most of the others in the room for 5 minutes each (hugging, body exploration, caressing, also clothing-optional can start now). Often this is where newbies start to relax.

Second Hour we are lying down
-- We do 3 cuddle sessions about 20 minutes each. You can use the bed, futon, or foam mats. You can do Two-way Cuddle or Three-way Cuddles. For some events we watch movies while we snuggle.

THERE ARE NO REFUNDS (unless organizer must cancel). No date changes. Most members are gay men. Open to bi men and trans men and those exploring. Sorry, not open to women.

Guidelines
* Cuddling can be nurturing or sensual -- spooning, face to face, massaging, etc. When in doubt, ask for permission.

* This is not sexual. It relaxing, soothing, therapeutic, sensual. PLEASE come with your body and beards freshly showered, and fresh breath. Candy or fresh mints are good. Body odor and food smells are a turn off when cuddling up close! Freshen your deodorant before leaving the house.

Always speak up if something comes up that you are uncomfortable with. And to speak up if there is something you'd like to ask for. Also this is communal cuddling. It's based less on physical attraction and more on knowing we all need to be touched. On the other hand, everyone has the right to say yes or no to a cuddle. Not everyone may be comfortable with everyone and that's ok. If driving, it's best to park on the street. There is limited guest parking below my building that's $21. No attendant. Some say it's user-unfriendly.

Diversity of body types, ages, backgrounds welcome. Drama will not be tolerated. Be mindful to check for my emails/direct messages and Meetup site notices to avoid disappointment/changes. Touch is so iimportant and rejuvenating. Let's get our needs met.
Dwight