Soothing Cuddles + Sensual NipPlay in a safe space. (Unpaid RSVPs deleted)

Our Unique Men's Group offers both cuddle encounters + nip play!

Men Cuddling Men (MCM) cuddle events are different from other cuddle events in the country. Unlike the also great Cuddle Parties that launched the movement twenty years ago, MCM is uniquely designed for GBT men and those who identify as men. We explore therapeutic touch thru cuddle positions, but do not shy away from sensual touch thru nip play. RSVP + pay by Zelle ASAP to hold your spot and avoid deletion. The ingredients in a two-hour session?

Hello Hugs -- We start with 30-40 minutes where each man gets to hug the other men in the group for five minutes each. People are free to be clothed, unclothed, or anywhere in between. Embracing and nip exploration encouraged. This can help you choose who you'd like to partner with for the longer cuddles.

One-on-One Cuddles -- There are three 20-minute cuddles. The first one is assigned (pairing newbies with regulars) and the last two are your Free Choice. You could cuddle with one man -- or do a three-man cuddle or encourage a cuddle puddle! Snuggle spaces include a queen-sized bed, a roomy futon, or foam mats with pillows on the wood floor. Recently a friend of mine gave me a cozy, unrushed hug and I was overwhelmed by how powerful it was! It made me a believer again in the importance of human touch.

* * * For the event, you must send me $28 to complete the registration process! RSVPs without payment are deleted after a few days.

How to Secure Your Spot at the event

Step 1. Go to Meetup event page and select RSVP button. However know that you are not registered until you submit Zelle payment. It's best if you RSVP and pay at the same time.

Step 2. Send email to Dwight at DwightOkita@gmail indicating: Member Name, Actual Name, Event Date. Failure to do so can delay matching money with member! Or you could lose your spot.

Step 3. Go to Zelle (thru your bank or app) and send the correct amount ($28). To zelle to me, send to DWIGHT OKITA. For account identifier, use dwightokita@gmail.com We no longer accept cash, Paypal or venmo. *RSVPs that are Unpaid by Feb 16 will be removed and you won't be able to attend.

While we encourage folks to be open to cuddling all -- we also understand that sometimes two guys are not compatible. So cuddle accordingly. Clothing-optional means you can wear as much or as little as your wish. Or somewhere in between!

We have room for no more than ten, but no less than five. Late responders will likely be disappointed. Come on up to Dwight's cozy penthouse studio on the 29th floor overlooking the city. Get away from the hustle and bustle -- and join us for two hours of cuddles and/or sensual touch. * Ask your partner for what you want. Take responsibilty for setting boundaries.
Note: Please allow enough time for public trans or street parking, to change into cuddle clothes or use washroom if needed, and to join the introductions. Please let Dwight know in advance if you can't attend to make room for others. Thanks.

Welcome Packet
For those who've rsvpd/paid, I will send out a Welcome Packet the week of the event. This includes the address of the event, pre-partnered list for first cuddle, new awesome Cuddle/Nip Menu, more detailed Do's & Don'ts guidelines, etc. Please make sure you let me know if you have or haven't received this important email.

In the event that we have to cancel due to low rsvps -- I will refund your fees. Events all take place on the north side near Montrose and the lake. (If you don't get my notices, PLEASE be responsible for reaching out to me to get critical info, so I don't have to chase you down. Make sure you check whatever email you signed up to meetup with, even if it's an alternate rarely used. Also check your trash and spam.)

It's been proven by science that nurturing touch/cuddling boosts one's feeling of being cared for, helps lessen political stress, decreases depression. There's lots of science of this -- lowering blood pressure, increasing resistance, the release of oxytocin which is a neurotransmitter that makes you feel nurtured. People who cuddle live longer! And cuddling is fun and sensual.

THERE ARE NO REFUNDS (unless organizer must cancel). No date changes. Most members are gay men. Open to bi men and trans men and those exploring. Sorry, not open to women. We have many happy returning cuddlers, some have come to MCM for all 9 years. If you're less comfy in a group setting, reach out to Dwight who is a trained pro cuddle therapist for one-on-one longer sessions based on your unique needs and wishes.

Guidelines
* Cuddling can be nurturing or sensual -- spooning, face to face, massaging, etc. When in doubt, ask for permission.

* This is not sexual. It relaxing, soothing, therapeutic, sensual. PLEASE come with your body and beards freshly showered, and fresh breath. Candy or fresh mints are good. Body odor and food smells are a turn off when cuddling up close! Freshen your deodorant before leaving the house.

Always speak up if something comes up that you are uncomfortable with. And to speak up if there is something you'd like to ask for. Also this is communal cuddling. It's based less on physical attraction and more on knowing we all need to be touched. On the other hand, everyone has the right to say yes or no to a cuddle. If driving, it's best to park on the street. There is limited guest parking below my building that's about twenty bucks. No attendant. User-unfriendly.

Diversity of body types, ages, backgrounds welcome. Drama will not be tolerated. Be mindful to check for my emails/direct messages and Meetup site notices to avoid disappointment/changes. Touch is so important and rejuvenating. Let's get our needs met.