About us
Men’s Circle of Malaysia is a space where men gather to connect, reflect, and grow. We host regular monthly meetups that invite honest conversations around identity, purpose, relationships, emotional resilience and modern masculinity. Our themes often explore the full spectrum of human experience through the lens of IQ (intellect), EQ (emotion), AQ (resilience), and SQ (spirituality), inviting men to engage both the mind and the heart.
In addition to Men’s Circle of Malaysia meetups, we also co-host A Dialogue, a joint event with Women, where both sexes come together to share stories, challenge assumptions, and rediscover connection.
Upcoming events
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Men's Circle September Discussion: Stuck!
The Violet Flame KL, 1, Lorong Damansara Endah, Taman Damansara Endah, 50490, Kuala Lumpur, MYSCHOOL OF THOUGHT SOCIETY invites you to:
Men's Circle September Discussion: Stuck!
📍 Where: Violet Flame KL
📅 When: Wednesday, 30 September 2026
🕗 Time: 8:00PM – 10:00PM
📞 Reservation: +6019 723 2112Sometimes we are functioning and fulfilling our responsibilities but feel completely disconnected inside. Sometimes we know something needs to change, yet we remain exactly where we are.
A recent perspective on men feeling lost suggests that what looks like laziness may actually be disconnection from identity, purpose, values and emotions. We can become trapped in survival, distraction and expectations. Moving through life without knowing what we are moving toward.
Being stuck is not necessarily weakness. Sometimes it is a signal that the life we are living no longer aligns with who we are becoming.
Just men, honest reflection and the courage to ask hard questions.
6 attendees
Men's Circle October Discussion: Longing
The Violet Flame KL, 1, Lorong Damansara Endah, Taman Damansara Endah, 50490, Kuala Lumpur, MYSCHOOL OF THOUGHT SOCIETY invites you to:
Men's Circle October Discussion: Longing
📍 Where: Violet Flame KL
📅 When: Wednesday, 28 October 2026
🕗 Time: 8:00PM – 10:00PM
📞 Reservation: +6019 723 2112Sometimes we long for someone. Sometimes for something. A relationship, a family, a person, an opportunity, a different life.
And sometimes, there is nothing more we can do. We cannot persuade someone to change their mind. We cannot force a door to open. We cannot make something happen simply because we desperately want it to.
So what do we do in the meantime?
Practise patience? Hold on? Let go? Move on?
Moving forward can be difficult when there is no closure but uncertainty, unanswered questions and the possibility that what we long for may never come.
This Men’s Circle is a space to sit with that uncertainty. To explore longing without being consumed by it, and to ask what it means to keep living while waiting for an answer that may never come.
Just men, honest reflection, and the courage to stay present with what we cannot control.
3 attendees
Past events
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