About us
Men’s Circle of Malaysia is a space where men gather to connect, reflect, and grow. We host regular monthly meetups that invite honest conversations around identity, purpose, relationships, emotional resilience and modern masculinity. Our themes often explore the full spectrum of human experience through the lens of IQ (intellect), EQ (emotion), AQ (resilience), and SQ (spirituality), inviting men to engage both the mind and the heart.
In addition to Men’s Circle of Malaysia meetups, we also co-host A Dialogue, a joint event with Women, where both sexes come together to share stories, challenge assumptions, and rediscover connection.
Upcoming events
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Men's Circle June Discussion: Estranged - Deeper Cuts
The Violet Flame KL, 1, Lorong Damansara Endah, Taman Damansara Endah, 50490, Kuala Lumpur, MYSCHOOL OF THOUGHT SOCIETY invites you to:
Men's Circle June Discussion: Estranged - Deeper Cuts
📍 Where: Violet Flame KL
📅 When: Wednesday, 24 June 2026
🕗 Time: 8:00PM – 10:00PM
📞 Reservation: +6019 723 2112Estrangement is a different kind of pain.
Not quite death. Not quite separation.
A person still exists somewhere in the world and yet emotionally, relationally, spiritually they are gone.Sometimes we are the ones being cut off.
Sometimes we are the ones who walk away.
Rarely is it a sudden decision. More often, it is grief accumulating quietly over time.To be estranged can feel profoundly lonely, shameful, and guilt-ridden.
Like being thrown out of the universe.
Aimlessly wandering with no home left to return to.Modern conversations around “no contact” increasingly frame estrangement not as revenge or punishment, but as an attempt at self-preservation when boundaries, safety, or emotional wellbeing repeatedly fail within a relationship. At the same time, estrangement carries its own grief, ambiguity, and lifelong emotional consequences for everyone involved. [1]
This is not a space to decide who is right or wrong.
Not a place to force forgiveness or reconciliation.
It's about finding your way 'home'.Reference:
3 attendeesMen's Circle July Discussion: Children’s Behaviour and How to Bond with them
The Violet Flame KL, 1, Lorong Damansara Endah, Taman Damansara Endah, 50490, Kuala Lumpur, MYSCHOOL OF THOUGHT SOCIETY invites you to:
Men's Circle July Discussion: Children’s Behaviour and How to Bond with them
📍 Where: Violet Flame KL
📅 When: Wednesday, 29 July 2026
🕗 Time: 8:00PM – 10:00PM
📞 Reservation: +6019 723 2112Many fathers ask:
“Why is my child behaving this way?”
But beneath that question may be another:
“Am I truly connected to my child?”UNICEF highlights that communication with children goes far beyond instructions and discipline. The tone of our voice, body language, eye contact, emotional reactions, and ability to listen all shape how children learn trust, emotional safety, and connection. Active listening, reflective responses, emotional validation, and calm communication help children feel heard rather than controlled. [1]
At the same time, bonding is often built through small and ordinary moments. UNICEF also emphasises that quality time, play, shared activities, laughter, curiosity, and simple presence help strengthen a child’s emotional development and deepen parent-child connection. Children may not always remember what we taught them, but they often remember how they felt around us. [2]
Men’s Circle explores the question of understanding children’s behaviour and the fathers we wish would be. No children are asking for perfection. Just emotional connection.
This is not a parenting seminar.
Not a space for perfect fathers.
Just men reflecting honestly on fatherhood and the quiet responsibility of raising another human being.Reference:
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Past events
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