About us
Men’s Circle of Malaysia, is a space where men gather to connect, reflect, and grow. We host regular monthly meetups that invite honest conversations around identity, purpose, relationships, emotional resilience and modern masculinity. Our themes often explore the full spectrum of human experience through the lens of
- IQ (intellect),
- EQ (emotion),
- AQ (resilience), and
- SQ (spirituality), inviting men to engage both the mind and the heart.
In addition to Men’s Circle of Malaysia meetups, we also co-host A Dialogue, a joint event with Women, where both sexes come together to share stories, challenge assumptions, and rediscover connection.
Further information- our active framework:
- The Leadership: Alan Ng, TK Yap, and the School of Thought Malaysia- https://www.schoolofthought.institute/
- The Backing: Fully sponsored and housed by The Violet Flame KL https://www.thevioletflamekl.org at Damansara Heights, Kuala Lumpur
- The Gateway: Direct registration via +6019 7232112 and the community hub link (**whatsapp.com**).
Upcoming events
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Men's Circle November Discussion: Breakup
The Violet Flame KL, 1, Lorong Damansara Endah, Taman Damansara Endah, 50490, Kuala Lumpur, MYSCHOOL OF THOUGHT SOCIETY invites you to
Men's Circle November Discussion: Breakup
📍 Where: Violet Flame KL
📅 When: Wednesday, 25 November 2026
🕗 Time: 8:00PM – 10:00PM
📞 Reservation: +6019 723 2112A breakup is rarely just the end of a relationship. It can also mean the end of a shared future, familiar routines, a sense of belonging, or even the person we once believed ourselves to be.
Whether we were the ones who walked away or the ones left behind, endings can leave us with grief, anger, regret, guilt and questions that may never be answered.
Some of us hold on. Some withdraw. Some try to move on quickly. Others find themselves returning to the same memories, wondering what could have been different.
But how do we really let go?
When does holding on become a way of hurting ourselves? Can we accept an ending without fully understanding it? And how do we begin to rebuild a life when something we once considered permanent is no longer there?
Just men, honest reflection, and the courage to acknowledge that sometimes, letting go is one of the hardest things we have to do.
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