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Speed-DATING for Mid-Life Singles

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Jo B.
Speed-DATING for Mid-Life Singles

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REGISTRATION CLOSED. CHECK OUT THE DEC EVENT ON 12/5 HERE!

Cost: $35

WHAT
Speed-DATING is musical chairs for adult singles!
Pair up for a short conversation, after a few minutes, rotate & repeat. This particular event is for women-seeking-men & men-seeking-women.

WHY
Meeting new people isn't always easy. Work may connect you with a lot of folks, but that’s not true for many gig workers, entrepreneurs, work-from-homers, empty nesters, retirees, & other mid-lifers.

Speed-DATING overcomes many common issues:

  • Asking for a date can be nerve-wracking whether online or off
  • Avoiding strangers for fear of disturbing them--who's to say they're single, let alone interested?
  • Fearful of talking to someone in a group
  • Feeling invisible at large social events
  • Being stuck on a date with someone you're either not attracted to, or who hijacks the conversation

35-45% of PDX's mid-lifers are single & many are looking for less FaceTime & more face-to-face encounters. There are better options & asking can be easy!

WHO
Mid-lifers in their 40s–60s in or near the PDX ‘burbs with a level of self-awareness, who are emotionally available & ready to get to know & commit to the partner right for them.

Are you a career-minded professional, a good ol’ workin’ boy or girl, or happily retired? All who are willing to be kind & respectful are welcome!

If:

  • Now feels like the time to meet new people & explore a relationship, and
  • You’d prefer a purposeful approach, but
  • Aren’t sure how to start, how to go from online chats to meeting in-person, or how to get past small talk once you’re face-to-face,

…then it’s time to try something new!

THIS EVENT IS SPECIAL
It’s been designed specifically for mid-life singles like you to:

  • Make you feel welcome & appreciated
  • Help you find common ground & foster engagement quickly
  • Elevate the dating experience

Tools to help you feel comfortable & deepen connections:

  • Free one-on-one coaching via video conference
  • Ice breakers proven to get folks quickly engaged
  • Conversation starters to keep discussions going
  • Breaktime activity to make mixing & mingling more fun
  • Courting Cards to make “the ask” easier
  • Plus the opportunity to chat with others online post-event

Plus:

  • Exclusive Ladies' Lounge
  • Men-In-Suits raffle

LOWDOWN FOR THE LADIES
I don't recall attending an event where there weren't more women than men & it wasn’t always handled well. I’m embracing it by going out of my way to create a warm, cozy, inviting, high-class vibe for everyone, but especially for you ladies.

Tim & I will prime the fellas to bring their A-Game. And, the evening of, when you're not talking up the guys you can escape to the sanctuary of an exclusive Ladies' Lounge out of sight of the gentlemen & other diners. More here

YOUR HOST
Hi, I’m Jo & like you, I'm in mid-life. I spent the past decade searching for "MyGuy.”

Of all the things I tried, Speed-DATING utterly fascinated me—meeting several prospects in one night can be both efficient & Fun! In fact, you may meet more people than in a month of dating.

Nervous? It’s completely normal! Knowing everyone’s there for the same reason levels the playing field & can ease anxiety.

Let’s bring back romance, courting, & face-to-face connections. We can make the most of fast-track dating, while at the same time easing the pressure.

YOUR COACH
Tim Bray helps singles nationwide navigate the dating world with confidence. He emphasizes face-to-face encounters, champions the return of courtship, & specializes in the "Art of Approach."

Tim’s adept at helping big-hearted men approach women without feeling creepy.

And, for ladies, he offers insight into the mind of today’s dating males, helping them attract quality men.

Tim’s Free Offer:

  • A 30-min video call to identify dating hurdles
  • Tips to help you relax, have fun, & get the most out of the event
  • A recording the day of to help you prep

You'll schedule with Tim after registration.

WHERE
The Hive—a stylish venue in historic downtown Oregon City—is a collection of eateries with free parking & accessible facilities.

The event will be in the basement "Hardware Store”—once a local tool & supply shop it’s been reimagined into a swanky speakeasy style bar.

FAQs
Most have heard of Speed-DATING, but many have never tried it. Learn more here

LET'S GET YOU SIGNED UP
STEP 1. RSVP on MeetUp so you can chat up attendees after the event
STEP 2. After registering on EventBrite ($35), you'll receive details on where to go & when to arrive

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