About us
Attract love without losing yourself.
You can recognize the pattern and still struggle to choose differently once you’re emotionally invested.
Mindful Dating™ is a founder-created, research-backed relationship-behavior framework and global community for self-aware adults who want healthy, aligned love but keep repeating patterns that cost them their peace, time, self-trust, or sense of self.
Mindful Dating™ grew from Shane Campbell’s personal healing journey and original relationship-behavior insights. After seeing how deeply the work resonated, she began studying participants’ experiences, needs, and desired outcomes so the solutions could reflect the people they were designed to serve.
Today, our participant-informed approach draws from original research with 882 unique respondents across 20+ countries and insights developed through more than 100 live sessions.
Live Relationship Pattern Analyses
Our guided, interactive analyses help you recognize what’s happening beneath your dating and relationship experiences.
Choose from:
- Repeating Relationship Patterns: See the pattern you keep repeating and where recognition stops becoming action.
- Women’s Self-Abandonment: Identify where you overgive, silence your needs, or move away from yourself to maintain connection.
- Connection & Depth: Examine how you recognize connection and distinguish genuine emotional depth from chemistry, intensity, or premature closeness.
During each Live Pattern Analysis, you’ll complete a guided process and receive your personalized analysis by email. You won’t be required to share intimate details publicly.
This community is for you if:
- You’re self-aware but keep experiencing the same relationship outcomes
- You recognize red flags or inconsistencies but override what you know
- You lose peace, time, self-trust, or parts of yourself once emotionally invested
- You want clarity that helps you choose differently
- You’re ready for healthy, consistent, aligned love
Choose where you want to begin
Attend a Live Relationship Pattern Analysis
Explore the upcoming events below and choose the analysis that reflects where you are.
Understand your complete dating pattern privately
Complete The Dating Diagnostic™ for a comprehensive look at how you date, choose, connect, and relate:
https://thedatingdiagnostic.com/
Explore ways to work with Shane
Review private sessions, programs, and support options:
https://mindfuldating.shop/
About Shane Campbell
Shane Campbell is a Relationship Behaviorist, published author, international speaker, founder of Mindful Dating™, and creator of The Dating Diagnostic™.
Choose your analysis. Align With Love.
Upcoming events
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Repeating Relationship Pattern Analysis: See the Pattern & Align With Love
·OnlineOnlineThis complimentary live Relationship Pattern Analysis is for singles who keep dating emotionally unavailable or inconsistent partners, overlooking red flags, or finding themselves in the same relationship with a different person.
If you know your pattern but keep living it, this session is for you.
You’ve done the self-awareness work. So why do the same relationship patterns keep showing up?
What we'll uncover
Through a guided process, you’ll examine:- The relationship pattern you keep repeating
- The people and dynamics that continue to feel familiar
- The red flags and inconsistencies you override
- Why you stay when something doesn’t feel right
- What the pattern has cost you in time, peace, and self-trust
You’ll complete the analysis during the session and receive your personalized repeating Relationship Pattern Analysis by email after submitting it.
This isn’t a dating-tips webinar. We’re looking at the pattern beneath the person so you can see where your dating decisions and relationship outcomes keep disconnecting.
This is for you if:
- You’re self-aware but still caught in the same dating pattern
- You repeatedly choose emotionally unavailable or inconsistent partners
- You recognize red flags but explain them away
- You want a healthy, consistent relationship but something keeps interfering
- You want honest clarity, not validation or dating hacks
This session is open to adults of all genders and relationship statuses.
What you'll need
This is a live, tech-enabled workshop. You’ll need:- A laptop, tablet, or smartphone
- Access to your email
- The ability to open and complete an online analysis
- A private space where you can focus
You won’t be required to share intimate details publicly.
Go deeper
Complete The Dating Diagnostic™ for a comprehensive look at how you date, choose, connect, and relate:
https://thedatingdiagnostic.com/Explore private sessions and other ways to work with Shane:
https://mindfuldating.shop/Mindful Dating™ is a research-backed relationship-behavior framework and global community founded by Relationship Behaviorist Shane Campbell. Our original research includes responses from 882 people across more than 20 countries.
See the pattern. Align With Love.
3 attendees
Women’s Self-Abandonment Analysis: Choose Yourself & Align With Love
·OnlineOnlineThis complimentary live Women’s Self-Abandonment Analysis is for women who over-give, minimize their needs, accept breadcrumbs, overlook their boundaries, or lose themselves in dating and relationships.
If loving someone keeps costing you your time, peace, self-esteem, or sense of self, this session is for you.
How much of yourself are you giving away to keep someone else close?
What we'll uncover
Through a guided process, you’ll examine:- Where and how you abandon yourself in relationships
- What you give up, silence, or tolerate to maintain connection
- The needs and boundaries you override
- What keeps you invested when your needs aren’t being met
- What choosing yourself would look like in practice
You’ll complete the analysis during the session and receive your personalized, Self-Abandonment Analysis by email after submitting it.
This isn’t about caring less or becoming guarded. It’s about recognizing where you move away from yourself to keep someone else close, so aligned love no longer requires you to disappear.
This is for you if:
- You give more than you receive in relationships
- You shrink your needs to avoid being “too much”
- You settle for breadcrumbs, inconsistency, or potential
- You struggle to maintain boundaries once you’re emotionally invested
- You lose focus on yourself while trying to make a relationship work
- You want to choose yourself without closing yourself off to love
This is a women-only space for women of all relationship statuses.
What you'll need
This is a live, tech-enabled workshop. You’ll need:- A laptop, desktop computer, tablet, or smartphone
- Access to your email
- The ability to open and complete an online analysis
- A private space where you can focus
You won’t be required to share intimate details publicly.
Go deeper
Complete The Dating Diagnostic™ for a comprehensive look at how you date, choose, connect, and relate:
https://thedatingdiagnostic.com/Explore private sessions and other ways to work with Shane:
https://mindfuldating.shop/Mindful Dating™ is a research-backed relationship-behavior framework and global community founded by Relationship Behaviorist Shane Campbell. Our original research includes responses from 882 people across more than 20 countries.
We help emotionally aware adults attract love without losing themselves.
Choose yourself. Align With Love.
2 attendees
Connection & Depth Analysis: Recognize What’s Real & Align With Love
·OnlineOnlineThis complimentary live Connection & Depth Analysis is for singles who want to distinguish emotional depth and authentic connection from chemistry, intensity, attention, mixed signals, or premature closeness.
If you’ve mistaken potential for compatibility or felt deeply connected to someone whose actions didn’t match the feeling, this session is for you.
Is this genuine connection, or does it only feel deep because it happened fast?
What we'll uncover
Through a guided process, you’ll examine:- What creates a sense of connection for you
- How you recognize emotional depth and intimacy
- Whether words, actions, and consistency align
- Where chemistry or intensity may be mistaken for compatibility
- What helps a connection feel genuine, mutual, and emotionally safe
You’ll complete the analysis during the session and receive your personalized Connection & Depth Analysis by email after submitting it.
This isn’t about becoming guarded or questioning every connection. It’s about recognizing what’s real before emotional investment outruns the evidence.
This is for you if:
- You form strong connections quickly
- You’ve experienced chemistry without consistency
- You feel emotionally close but remain unsure where you stand
- You’ve mistaken attention, vulnerability, or potential for genuine intimacy
- You want a deep, healthy relationship grounded in mutual effort
- You want clarity about whether a connection can support the love you desire
This session is open to adults of all genders and relationship statuses.
What you'll need
This is a live, tech-enabled workshop. You’ll need:- A laptop, desktop computer, tablet, or smartphone
- Access to your email
- The ability to open and complete an online analysis
- A private space where you can focus
You won’t be required to share intimate details publicly.
Go deeper
Complete The Dating Diagnostic™ for a comprehensive look at how you date, choose, connect, and relate:
https://thedatingdiagnostic.com/Explore private sessions and other ways to work with Shane:
https://mindfuldating.shop/Mindful Dating™ is a research-backed relationship-behavior framework and global community founded by Relationship Behaviorist Shane Campbell. Our original research includes responses from 882 people across more than 20 countries.
We help emotionally aware adults attract love without losing themselves.
Recognize what’s real. Align With Love.
4 attendees
Repeating Relationship Pattern Analysis: See the Pattern & Align With Love
·OnlineOnlineThis complimentary live Relationship Pattern Analysis is for singles who keep dating emotionally unavailable or inconsistent partners, overlooking red flags, or finding themselves in the same relationship with a different person.
If you know your pattern but keep living it, this session is for you.
You’ve done the self-awareness work. So why do the same relationship patterns keep showing up?
What we'll uncover
Through a guided process, you’ll examine:- The relationship pattern you keep repeating
- The people and dynamics that continue to feel familiar
- The red flags and inconsistencies you override
- Why you stay when something doesn’t feel right
- What the pattern has cost you in time, peace, and self-trust
You’ll complete the analysis during the session and receive your personalized repeating Relationship Pattern Analysis by email after submitting it.
This isn’t a dating-tips webinar. We’re looking at the pattern beneath the person so you can see where your dating decisions and relationship outcomes keep disconnecting.
This is for you if:
- You’re self-aware but still caught in the same dating pattern
- You repeatedly choose emotionally unavailable or inconsistent partners
- You recognize red flags but explain them away
- You want a healthy, consistent relationship but something keeps interfering
- You want honest clarity, not validation or dating hacks
This session is open to adults of all genders and relationship statuses.
What you'll need
This is a live, tech-enabled workshop. You’ll need:- A laptop, tablet, or smartphone
- Access to your email
- The ability to open and complete an online analysis
- A private space where you can focus
You won’t be required to share intimate details publicly.
Go deeper
Complete The Dating Diagnostic™ for a comprehensive look at how you date, choose, connect, and relate:
https://thedatingdiagnostic.com/Explore private sessions and other ways to work with Shane:
https://mindfuldating.shop/Mindful Dating™ is a research-backed relationship-behavior framework and global community founded by Relationship Behaviorist Shane Campbell. Our original research includes responses from 882 people across more than 20 countries.
See the pattern. Align With Love.
2 attendees
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