About us
You've done the work. So why does this keep happening?
You're self-aware. You've healed. You know your worth.
And you still somehow end up in the same dynamic, wondering how you got here again.
Mindful Dating is a global community for emotionally aware adults who are done repeating painful patterns and ready to date from clarity, self-trust, and peace — without losing themselves in the process.
This is not a group for dating tips, app hacks, or generic relationship advice. It's for people who want to understand the pattern underneath their choices — and change it.
What makes this different:
Every Mindful Dating session is hosted by Shane — Relationship Behaviorist and founder of Mindful Dating — and includes a live Relationship Pattern Analysis. A real-time process that identifies your specific pattern, what it's costing you, and what your clearest next step is. Not a quiz. A live read, in the room, with immediate insight.
Shane has spent the last year studying the dating patterns of nearly 900 people — what they're repeating, what it's costing them, and what finally breaks the cycle. This community is built on that research.
Who this is for:
Professionals, founders, creatives, executives, and high-awareness singles between 35 and 65 who are tired of paying for connection in tears, heartbreak, and wasted time — and ready to date from peace, discernment, and aligned standards.
Why this matters:
Pew Research found that 52% of online daters have encountered someone they believed was trying to scam them. The FTC reported $1.14 billion in romance scam losses in 2023.
This community exists because dating deserves more protection, more awareness, and more intention.
Ready to start?
Join the next free webinar and complete your Relationship Pattern Analysis live. RSVP for the next session →
Learn more about the Mindful Dating ecosystem. Here →
Sources: Pew Research & FTC
Upcoming events
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Stop Giving Yourself Away & Start Choosing From Wholeness
·OnlineOnlineThis free women-only live session is built for women navigating self-abandonment in dating, people-pleasing patterns, toxic relationship cycles, emotional unavailability, anxious attachment, losing yourself in relationships, ignoring red flags, dating burnout, and the pattern of giving more than you receive while waiting to be chosen. If you know the pattern and you’re still doing it, this is the room.
This isn't a dating tips session. No scripts. No red flag checklists. No advice about your situationship.
This is a live interactive session built around the pattern most self-aware women know they have and still can't stop. We'll move through it together in real time, and by the end you'll know exactly where yours lives and what it's been costing you.
Hosted by Shane Campbell, Relationship Behaviorist and creator of Mindful Dating™ and the researcher behind 9 months of data from 882 real people who told us exactly why this keeps happening.
This is for you if:
- You know what you want but keep ending up somewhere smaller
- You've adjusted, softened, and stayed longer than you should have more than once
- You're tired of watching yourself do the thing you promised you'd stop doing
- You're done being easy to be with and hard to find
- You're ready to look at your pattern honestly, not just understand it
This is not for you if:
- You want tips, scripts, or a quick fix
- You're not ready to look at what you do once you've chosen someone
- You think the problem is just the people you've been meeting
This is a women-only space. What's said here stays here.
At the end there's an optional paid next step for anyone ready to go deeper. No pressure.
Free. Live. Limited size so it stays real.
RSVP now. Come ready to tell the truth.
Learn more about Shane and the work at mindfuldating.co
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You Want Connection & Depth. Here's Why You're Not Getting It.
·OnlineOnlineThis free live session is a real-time Connection and Depth Pattern Analysis for singles tired of surface-level connections, half-baked relationships, emotional unavailability, mixed signals, forced chemistry, and the frustrating gap between what they say they want in a relationship and what they keep accepting instead. Built for both men and women. If you’ve been settling for the almost-version of connection, this session names exactly why.
The frustrating part? You already know it. You just can't figure out why you keep ending up there.
This isn't a dating tips session. No scripts, no green flag checklists, no advice about your situationship.
This is a live interactive session built around one question you've probably never actually answered — what does connection and depth really mean to you, beyond the words? Because until you define it, you'll keep accepting the half-baked version.
Hosted by Shane Campbell, Relationship Behaviorist & Architect of Mindful Dating™ and the Mindful Dating Journey™ — and the researcher behind 9 months of data from 882 real people who told us exactly why this keeps happening.
This is for you if:
- You keep ending up with the wrong people and can't explain why
- You know what you want — you just can't seem to find it or keep it
- Connections feel close but never actually land
- You've done the work and you're still here asking the same questions
- You're ready to look honestly at what you've been choosing
This is not for you if:
- You want dating tips, scripts, or a quick fix
- You're not ready to be honest about your own patterns
- You're looking for someone to tell you it's all their fault
At the end there's an optional next step for anyone ready to go deeper. No pressure.
Free. Live. Limited size so it stays personal.
RSVP now. Come ready to tell the truth.
Learn more about Shane and the work at mindfuldating.co5 attendees
Past events
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