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You've done the work. So why does this keep happening?
You're self-aware. You've healed. You know your worth.
And you still somehow end up in the same dynamic, wondering how you got here again.

Mindful Dating is a global community for emotionally aware adults who are done repeating painful patterns and ready to date from clarity, self-trust, and peace — without losing themselves in the process.

This is not a group for dating tips, app hacks, or generic relationship advice. It's for people who want to understand the pattern underneath their choices — and change it.

What makes this different:

Every Mindful Dating session is hosted by Shane — Relationship Behaviorist and founder of Mindful Dating — and includes a live Relationship Pattern Analysis. A real-time process that identifies your specific pattern, what it's costing you, and what your clearest next step is. Not a quiz. A live read, in the room, with immediate insight.

Shane has spent the last year studying the dating patterns of nearly 900 people — what they're repeating, what it's costing them, and what finally breaks the cycle. This community is built on that research.

Who this is for:

Professionals, founders, creatives, executives, and high-awareness singles between 35 and 65 who are tired of paying for connection in tears, heartbreak, and wasted time — and ready to date from peace, discernment, and aligned standards.

Why this matters:

Pew Research found that 52% of online daters have encountered someone they believed was trying to scam them. The FTC reported $1.14 billion in romance scam losses in 2023.

This community exists because dating deserves more protection, more awareness, and more intention.

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Join the next free webinar and complete your Relationship Pattern Analysis live. RSVP for the next session →

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Sources: Pew Research & FTC

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