About us
Every Monday since 2009, 20‑40 men gather as a friendly, diverse, welcoming community to meditate, unwind and meet friends in a warm, cosy room near Leicester Square.
“The connection I found here is transformative – stress‑free, supportive, and genuinely inclusive.”
No experience? No problem – we guide you step‑by‑step. Chairs and cushions are provided. Experienced meditators are welcome too.
Upcoming events
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London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation Group
Westminster Meeting House, 52 St Martin's Ln, London WC2N 4EA, London, GBSince 2009, 15‑40 men meet in a warm, inclusive space near Leicester Square to meditate, relax and make friends. No experience needed – we guide you step‑by‑step, and seasoned meditators are welcome.
Why gay‑men choose this space
- Safety & belonging – a private, affirming environment where you can be yourself without judgment, the core need identified by LGBTQ‑focused mindfulness programmes .
- Minority‑stress relief – mindfulness reduces the chronic stress that many gay, bi and queer men face, boosting self‑acceptance and emotional regulation .
- Community‑driven growth – connecting with others who share similar experiences lowers isolation and fosters resilience.
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.
What you’ll get
- Breath‑work & gratitude tools – instant stress relief and mood lift.
- Guided meditations that develop emotional intelligence, self‑compassion and resilience.
- Trauma‑informed compassion practices – self‑compassion exercises and body‑scan work to ease reactivity and promote safety.
- A supportive peer community – improve social skills and build lasting friendships.
Evening flow (7 pm‑9 pm)
1️⃣ Grounding movement & body‑scan
2️⃣ First guided meditation (focused attention or self‑compassion)
3️⃣ 20‑minute tea break for informal chat
4️⃣ The second meditation changes week by week and follows a rotating weekly theme (loving‑kindness, self‑compassion, gratitude, etc.)Practical details
- When: Every Monday (doors 6:45 pm, meditation 7 pm) – we run the session even if there are no Meetup RSVP. No booking required - just turn up.
- Where: 52 Saint Martins Lane, WC2N 4EA (near Leicester Square/Charing Cross)
- Seating: Chairs provided; mats & cushions available for floor sitting.
Teacher
Nick – 30 years of practice and 7 years as a Buddhist monk, teaching from a non‑reactive, freedom‑focused perspective.Fees
- First‑timer: £10
- Regular: £16 per session
- Concessions: £13 (students, low‑income, refugees, disability support – ask on arrival)
Join us
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.“The connection here is transformative – stress‑free, supportive, genuinely inclusive.” – member testimonial.
1 attendee - £69.00
Erotic Touch and sensual play - massage and Tantra for men
East India DLR station, Blackwall Way, London, E14 8GB, GBA safe, supportive space to explore touch, connection and sensuality with peers.
What you’ll get
- Playful, erotic, shame‑free bonding in a heart‑centered, sober environment.
- Hands‑on massage & intimacy skills you can bring to partners, lovers, and the wider gay community.
- Paired & group activities (including nudity and genital touch) that teach consent, touch negotiation and clear communication.
- Erotic mindfulness – slow foreplay, breathwork and energy practices that revitalize sexual energy without rushing to orgasm.
- Confidence to ask for and set boundaries with ease, building presence‑based intimacy rather than performance‑based pressure.
Who’s welcome
- Single gay men or couples open to working with a diverse group.
- No prior massage or Tantra experience required – beginners are warmly invited.
Event details
- Date & time: Saturday 25th April, 2:00 – 7:30 pm (doors 1:45 pm)
- Location: Canary Wharf, London (nearest tube: Jubilee/Elizabeth line, 15‑min walk; DLR East India, 8‑min walk)
- Facilitator: Nick Kientsch – trauma‑informed practitioner, 20+ years massage, former Buddhist monk with Tibetan & Neo‑Tantra training.
- Tickets: £69 (full price) | £39 (students/unwaged) – reserve now
Why attend?
- Learn practical, embodied techniques to deepen connection with other men.
- Join a caring, queer‑affirming community where you can be nervous, curious or “stuck” without judgment.
- Walk away with a toolkit for sensual foreplay, breath‑based energy work and confident consent‑talk.
What past participants say
- “Nick creates a safe and positive space for exploring human connection through touch. I felt uplifted, seen, and valued.”
- “A glorious affirmation of our bodies and sexuality – gentle, open, and encouraging.” – Chris
- “I left feeling blissful and connected to myself and others.” – Sam
We usually host 10‑14 men per workshop. To secure your place please click the link below - a Meetup RSVP does not book you on.
👉 Reserve your spot – click here
📹 Watch a short video overview – click here1 attendee - £10.00
London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation Group
Westminster Meeting House, 52 St Martin's Ln, London WC2N 4EA, London, GBSince 2009, 15‑40 men meet in a warm, inclusive space near Leicester Square to meditate, relax and make friends. No experience needed – we guide you step‑by‑step, and seasoned meditators are welcome.
Why gay‑men choose this space
- Safety & belonging – a private, affirming environment where you can be yourself without judgment, the core need identified by LGBTQ‑focused mindfulness programmes .
- Minority‑stress relief – mindfulness reduces the chronic stress that many gay, bi and queer men face, boosting self‑acceptance and emotional regulation .
- Community‑driven growth – connecting with others who share similar experiences lowers isolation and fosters resilience.
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.
What you’ll get
- Breath‑work & gratitude tools – instant stress relief and mood lift.
- Guided meditations that develop emotional intelligence, self‑compassion and resilience.
- Trauma‑informed compassion practices – self‑compassion exercises and body‑scan work to ease reactivity and promote safety.
- A supportive peer community – improve social skills and build lasting friendships.
Evening flow (7 pm‑9 pm)
1️⃣ Grounding movement & body‑scan
2️⃣ First guided meditation (focused attention or self‑compassion)
3️⃣ 20‑minute tea break for informal chat
4️⃣ The second meditation changes week by week and follows a rotating weekly theme (loving‑kindness, self‑compassion, gratitude, etc.)Practical details
- When: Every Monday (doors 6:45 pm, meditation 7 pm) – we run the session even if there are no Meetup RSVP. No booking required - just turn up.
- Where: 52 Saint Martins Lane, WC2N 4EA (near Leicester Square/Charing Cross)
- Seating: Chairs provided; mats & cushions available for floor sitting.
Teacher
Nick – 30 years of practice and 7 years as a Buddhist monk, teaching from a non‑reactive, freedom‑focused perspective.Fees
- First‑timer: £10
- Regular: £16 per session
- Concessions: £13 (students, low‑income, refugees, disability support – ask on arrival)
Join us
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.“The connection here is transformative – stress‑free, supportive, genuinely inclusive.” – member testimonial.
1 attendee
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