What we’re about
We have now returned to face to face meetings every Monday. Join this friendly and diverse group of men to socialise and learn skills to help improve mental health and well being.
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation GroupWestminster Meeting House, London£10.00
Every Monday since 2009 between 15 - 40 men have come into this oasis of calm in the heart of London to meditate, relax and make new friends.
- We're a diverse and constantly evolving group with a broad age range and many nationalities.
- There's a great balance between long-time regulars and new faces.
- No prior meditation experience is necessary as full instructions are provided.
- Experienced meditators are also welcome if you are looking for a group to meditate with.
- We sit on chairs but if you prefer to sit on the floor there are mats and cushions available.
What You’ll Learn
- Breathwork for stress reduction
- Gratitude practices to enhance your enjoyment of life
- Mindfulness tools for focus and clarity
- Meditations that boost emotional intelligence
- Self-care practices to cultivate kindness in areas where you struggle
- Compassion techniques for processing difficult emotions
- Resilience-building to overcome challenges and adapt to change
- Social skills development through interaction with fellow participants
Meeting Details
- When: Every Monday (the event proceeds regardless of RSVPs)
- Where: 52 Saint Martins Lane, London, WC2N 4EA (near Leicester Square or Charing Cross Tube Station)
- Time: Doors open at 6:45 PM; meditation starts at 7 PM and concludes at 9 PM.
CLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
About the evening
The evening is a combination of meditation, inner exploration and relaxation done in connection with others.- We start with a grounding practice and some movement to release tension from your body, followed by a guided meditation to calm your mind.
- Mid evening there's a 20 minute refreshment break, giving time to chat with others at the class.
- The second half explores a different theme each week which leads into a second guided meditation.
- The room is heated and warm.
CLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
About the Teacher
The sessions are led by Nick, who has over 30 years of meditation experience and lived for 7 years as a Buddhist monk. Central to this monastic training was the principle that our freedom lies in our ability to choose our response to life rather than react to external situations.Fees
- First-Time Attendees: £10 (for newcomers or those returning after a year)
- Standard Rate: £16 per session (book online or pay at the door)
- Silver Membership: £55 for 4 sessions within 3 months (average cost: £13.75/session)
- Gold Membership: £95 for 8 sessions within 3 months (average cost: £11.87/session)
Additional sessions within the 3-month period are also discounted. Memberships are auto-renewed unless canceled.
Concessions for students, retired on a low pension, low income, Universal Credit, refugees and disability support
Concession rates are available for those needing financial support and are available at the door only. If you think you might qualify, just speak to us when you arrive.
CLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
Member Testimonials:
"The connection I found at the London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation Group has been truly transformative. Not only have I learned valuable skills for managing stress, but I’ve also formed meaningful friendships that support my overall well-being. I highly recommend this group to anyone looking for a welcoming and inclusive space."
— A"Meditation has freed me from negative thoughts through increased self-awareness. Nick is an inspiring teacher who has helped me find happiness within myself."
— Daniele"These thoughtful sessions have been invaluable in helping me focus and unwind. Nick has created a friendly space to sort one’s thoughts."
— NeilCLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
- Erotic Foreplay: The Art of Sensual Undressing and Tantric MassageBrixton Station, London£59.00
This workshop is about slowing down so you can fully enjoy your own body and the body of your partner. We’ll explore the art of slow, sensual undressing — not just with fingertips, but also using your body, face and perhaps even beard and breath to heighten erotic enjoyment.
We’ll then move into giving and receiving touch in a way that’s guided by your partner’s desires. This means asking them how they’d like to be touched, so your touch becomes a direct response to their wishes. Each couple in the group will create their own unique flow, as the experience is co-created between partners.
I’ll offer a basic framework for which part of the body we’ll be working on, along with suggestions for massage methods. The receiving partner can then feel into whether they want exactly that, or a variation that better suits their body’s desires.
The session flows through a sequence: starting with massage to the back, then around the glutes and legs, moving to the chest, and finally focusing more directly on the cock and balls. Throughout, we work with Tantric principles of connecting to our prana (life force energy) and circulating it through the body using breath and physical sweeping movements — sending energy up the body, through the arms, and down into the legs. This keeps the massage not only erotic but also deeply energising.
You’ll leave with new approaches you can bring into your lovemaking.
👉 Click HERE to reserve your spot
These workshops are evolving…Rather than following a set massage sequence, we now invite you into a more fluid and personalised journey. We’ll explore how erotic conversation itself can be a form of foreplay—asking your partner how they like to be touched, and discovering together what arouses and delights you both.
Each pairing becomes unique as every couple finds their own rhythm and style.
Rather than rushing toward sex or orgasm, we slow down and expand the space for arousal, teasing, and sensual presence.
🌿 What to Expect
✨ Slow, sensual and erotic touch exchanges
✨ Breathwork and energy circulation for genital massage
✨ Tantric visualisation & prana flow techniques
✨ Erotic communication: asking, listening, expressing
✨ Gentle paired and group activities (nudity and genital touch included)
✨ A safe, caring space – open to all men“Nick creates such a beautiful and welcoming space — I left feeling blissful and connected to myself and others.” – Sam
“Nick holds a safe, affirming space for deep connection. I highly recommend his workshops.” – Paul
💜 Who It’s For
- Men of all ages and backgrounds.
- Whether you're partnered or solo, new to this work or returning, you’re warmly welcome.
- This is a sober, shame-free, heart-centred space.
We meet regardless of Meetup RSVPs.
📅 Event Details
Date: Saturday 30th August
Time: 2–7 PM (doors open 1:45 PM)
Location: Brixton (full address sent on booking)
Nearest tube: Brixton
Venue: Air-conditioned in summer, underfloor heated in winter🎟️ Tickets
Full price: £59
Reduced rate: £29 (students/unwaged)👉 Click HERE to reserve your spot
Can’t make this one? We meet the last Saturday of every month – join us next time.
Led by Nick Kientsch, a trauma-informed practitioner with 20+ years’ experience in bodywork, intimacy and energy work. With a background in Tibetan Buddhist Tantra, Neo-Tantra and 7 years as a Buddhist monk, Nick brings warmth, depth and safety to every session.
- London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation GroupWestminster Meeting House, London£10.00
Every Monday since 2009 between 15 - 40 men have come into this oasis of calm in the heart of London to meditate, relax and make new friends.
- We're a diverse and constantly evolving group with a broad age range and many nationalities.
- There's a great balance between long-time regulars and new faces.
- No prior meditation experience is necessary as full instructions are provided.
- Experienced meditators are also welcome if you are looking for a group to meditate with.
- We sit on chairs but if you prefer to sit on the floor there are mats and cushions available.
What You’ll Learn
- Breathwork for stress reduction
- Gratitude practices to enhance your enjoyment of life
- Mindfulness tools for focus and clarity
- Meditations that boost emotional intelligence
- Self-care practices to cultivate kindness in areas where you struggle
- Compassion techniques for processing difficult emotions
- Resilience-building to overcome challenges and adapt to change
- Social skills development through interaction with fellow participants
Meeting Details
- When: Every Monday (the event proceeds regardless of RSVPs)
- Where: 52 Saint Martins Lane, London, WC2N 4EA (near Leicester Square or Charing Cross Tube Station)
- Time: Doors open at 6:45 PM; meditation starts at 7 PM and concludes at 9 PM.
CLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
About the evening
The evening is a combination of meditation, inner exploration and relaxation done in connection with others.- We start with a grounding practice and some movement to release tension from your body, followed by a guided meditation to calm your mind.
- Mid evening there's a 20 minute refreshment break, giving time to chat with others at the class.
- The second half explores a different theme each week which leads into a second guided meditation.
- The room is heated and warm.
CLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
About the Teacher
The sessions are led by Nick, who has over 30 years of meditation experience and lived for 7 years as a Buddhist monk. Central to this monastic training was the principle that our freedom lies in our ability to choose our response to life rather than react to external situations.Fees
- First-Time Attendees: £10 (for newcomers or those returning after a year)
- Standard Rate: £16 per session (book online or pay at the door)
- Silver Membership: £55 for 4 sessions within 3 months (average cost: £13.75/session)
- Gold Membership: £95 for 8 sessions within 3 months (average cost: £11.87/session)
Additional sessions within the 3-month period are also discounted. Memberships are auto-renewed unless canceled.
Concessions for students, retired on a low pension, low income, Universal Credit, refugees and disability support
Concession rates are available for those needing financial support and are available at the door only. If you think you might qualify, just speak to us when you arrive.
CLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
Member Testimonials:
"The connection I found at the London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation Group has been truly transformative. Not only have I learned valuable skills for managing stress, but I’ve also formed meaningful friendships that support my overall well-being. I highly recommend this group to anyone looking for a welcoming and inclusive space."
— A"Meditation has freed me from negative thoughts through increased self-awareness. Nick is an inspiring teacher who has helped me find happiness within myself."
— Daniele"These thoughtful sessions have been invaluable in helping me focus and unwind. Nick has created a friendly space to sort one’s thoughts."
— NeilCLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
- London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation GroupWestminster Meeting House, London£10.00
Every Monday since 2009 between 15 - 40 men have come into this oasis of calm in the heart of London to meditate, relax and make new friends.
- We're a diverse and constantly evolving group with a broad age range and many nationalities.
- There's a great balance between long-time regulars and new faces.
- No prior meditation experience is necessary as full instructions are provided.
- Experienced meditators are also welcome if you are looking for a group to meditate with.
- We sit on chairs but if you prefer to sit on the floor there are mats and cushions available.
What You’ll Learn
- Breathwork for stress reduction
- Gratitude practices to enhance your enjoyment of life
- Mindfulness tools for focus and clarity
- Meditations that boost emotional intelligence
- Self-care practices to cultivate kindness in areas where you struggle
- Compassion techniques for processing difficult emotions
- Resilience-building to overcome challenges and adapt to change
- Social skills development through interaction with fellow participants
Meeting Details
- When: Every Monday (the event proceeds regardless of RSVPs)
- Where: 52 Saint Martins Lane, London, WC2N 4EA (near Leicester Square or Charing Cross Tube Station)
- Time: Doors open at 6:45 PM; meditation starts at 7 PM and concludes at 9 PM.
CLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
About the evening
The evening is a combination of meditation, inner exploration and relaxation done in connection with others.- We start with a grounding practice and some movement to release tension from your body, followed by a guided meditation to calm your mind.
- Mid evening there's a 20 minute refreshment break, giving time to chat with others at the class.
- The second half explores a different theme each week which leads into a second guided meditation.
- The room is heated and warm.
CLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
About the Teacher
The sessions are led by Nick, who has over 30 years of meditation experience and lived for 7 years as a Buddhist monk. Central to this monastic training was the principle that our freedom lies in our ability to choose our response to life rather than react to external situations.Fees
- First-Time Attendees: £10 (for newcomers or those returning after a year)
- Standard Rate: £16 per session (book online or pay at the door)
- Silver Membership: £55 for 4 sessions within 3 months (average cost: £13.75/session)
- Gold Membership: £95 for 8 sessions within 3 months (average cost: £11.87/session)
Additional sessions within the 3-month period are also discounted. Memberships are auto-renewed unless canceled.
Concessions for students, retired on a low pension, low income, Universal Credit, refugees and disability support
Concession rates are available for those needing financial support and are available at the door only. If you think you might qualify, just speak to us when you arrive.
CLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
Member Testimonials:
"The connection I found at the London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation Group has been truly transformative. Not only have I learned valuable skills for managing stress, but I’ve also formed meaningful friendships that support my overall well-being. I highly recommend this group to anyone looking for a welcoming and inclusive space."
— A"Meditation has freed me from negative thoughts through increased self-awareness. Nick is an inspiring teacher who has helped me find happiness within myself."
— Daniele"These thoughtful sessions have been invaluable in helping me focus and unwind. Nick has created a friendly space to sort one’s thoughts."
— NeilCLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
