About us
Every Monday since 2009, 20‑40 men gather as a friendly, diverse, welcoming community to meditate, unwind and meet friends in a warm, cosy room near Leicester Square.
“The connection I found here is transformative – stress‑free, supportive, and genuinely inclusive.”
No experience? No problem – we guide you step‑by‑step. Chairs and cushions are provided. Experienced meditators are welcome too.
Upcoming events
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- £10.00

London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation Group
Westminster Meeting House, 52 St Martin's Ln, London WC2N 4EA, London, GBSince 2009, 15‑40 men meet in a warm, inclusive space near Leicester Square to meditate, relax and make friends. No experience needed – we guide you step‑by‑step, and seasoned meditators are welcome.
Why gay‑men choose this space
- Safety & belonging – a private, affirming environment where you can be yourself without judgment, the core need identified by LGBTQ‑focused mindfulness programmes .
- Minority‑stress relief – mindfulness reduces the chronic stress that many gay, bi and queer men face, boosting self‑acceptance and emotional regulation .
- Community‑driven growth – connecting with others who share similar experiences lowers isolation and fosters resilience.
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.
What you’ll get
- Breath‑work & gratitude tools – instant stress relief and mood lift.
- Guided meditations that develop emotional intelligence, self‑compassion and resilience.
- Trauma‑informed compassion practices – self‑compassion exercises and body‑scan work to ease reactivity and promote safety.
- A supportive peer community – improve social skills and build lasting friendships.
Evening flow (7 pm‑9 pm)
1️⃣ Grounding movement & body‑scan
2️⃣ First guided meditation (focused attention or self‑compassion)
3️⃣ 20‑minute tea break for informal chat
4️⃣ The second meditation changes week by week and follows a rotating weekly theme (loving‑kindness, self‑compassion, gratitude, etc.)Practical details
- When: Every Monday (doors 6:45 pm, meditation 7 pm) – we run the session even if there are no Meetup RSVP. No booking required - just turn up.
- Where: 52 Saint Martins Lane, WC2N 4EA (near Leicester Square/Charing Cross)
- Seating: Chairs provided; mats & cushions available for floor sitting.
Teacher
Nick – 30 years of practice and 7 years as a Buddhist monk, teaching from a non‑reactive, freedom‑focused perspective.Fees
- First‑timer: £10
- Regular: £16 per session
- Concessions: £13 (students, low‑income, refugees, disability support – ask on arrival)
Join us
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.“The connection here is transformative – stress‑free, supportive, genuinely inclusive.” – member testimonial.
1 attendee - £69.00

Tantra, Touch & Connection - massage workshop for gay men
Canary Wharf, E14 9PJ, London, GBIn a world of hurried and often unfulfilling app hook-ups, these sessions offer an opportunity to discover a different way of connecting — from the heart, with another man.
In Tantra, sensual desire can become a doorway into a deeper experience of pleasure: not simply the pursuit of desire or orgasm, but the discovery of warmth, satisfaction and fulfilment within the nervous system.
It’s about bringing together deep care and shame-free sensuality — slowing down, becoming present and discovering what can emerge when we stop rushing towards an outcome.
👉 Click HERE to reserve your spot
These sessions are for you if you want to:
- Explore how spirituality and sensuality can enrich one another.
- Move beyond chasing pleasure and discover the pleasure already present in this moment, this touch, this embrace.
- Experience connection grounded in consent, presence, care and mutual trust.
- Discover how sensuality can become a doorway into deeper awareness and connection.
We’re so used to rushing towards an erection, penetration or orgasm that we can forget the pleasure of simply being present. Tantra invites us to slow down and meet sensuality without grasping — allowing touch, pleasure and connection to unfold naturally.
Rather than trying to get somewhere, we explore what happens when we simply become more aware of what is already here.Join us and explore this for yourself — in a space held with connection, consent, curiosity and care.
What previous participants have said
✨ “Nick creates a safe and positive space for exploring human connection through touch. I felt uplifted, seen, and valued.”
✨ “Nick's workshops are a glorious affirmation and celebration of our bodies, sexuality, and the importance of caring touch. His facilitation is gentle, open, and encouraging.” — Chris
✨ “Nick holds a safe, affirming space for deep connection. I highly recommend his workshops.” — PaulWant to know more?
Click to watch a short video overview: 👉 CLICK HERE📅 Event Details
- September 26th, October 31st and November 28th - open to all ages
- September 12th - 18 - 35 years old for those wanting to work with peers with shared experiences.
Time: 2–7.30 PM (doors open 1:45 PM)
Location: Canary Wharf
Nearest Tube: Jubilee or Elizabeth line (15-min walk)
DLR: East India (8-min walk)🎟️ Tickets
Full price: £69
Reduced rate (students/unwaged): £39👉 Click HERE to reserve your spot
Newcomers warmly welcome.
We meet regardless of Meetup RSVPs.Facilitator
Nick Kientsch — trauma-informed practitioner with 20+ years’ massage experience and a background in Tibetan Buddhist Tantra and Neo-Tantra.
A former Buddhist monk, Nick brings depth, compassion, warmth, and safety to every session.2 attendees - £10.00

London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation Group
Westminster Meeting House, 52 St Martin's Ln, London WC2N 4EA, London, GBSince 2009, 15‑40 men meet in a warm, inclusive space near Leicester Square to meditate, relax and make friends. No experience needed – we guide you step‑by‑step, and seasoned meditators are welcome.
Why gay‑men choose this space
- Safety & belonging – a private, affirming environment where you can be yourself without judgment, the core need identified by LGBTQ‑focused mindfulness programmes .
- Minority‑stress relief – mindfulness reduces the chronic stress that many gay, bi and queer men face, boosting self‑acceptance and emotional regulation .
- Community‑driven growth – connecting with others who share similar experiences lowers isolation and fosters resilience.
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.
What you’ll get
- Breath‑work & gratitude tools – instant stress relief and mood lift.
- Guided meditations that develop emotional intelligence, self‑compassion and resilience.
- Trauma‑informed compassion practices – self‑compassion exercises and body‑scan work to ease reactivity and promote safety.
- A supportive peer community – improve social skills and build lasting friendships.
Evening flow (7 pm‑9 pm)
1️⃣ Grounding movement & body‑scan
2️⃣ First guided meditation (focused attention or self‑compassion)
3️⃣ 20‑minute tea break for informal chat
4️⃣ The second meditation changes week by week and follows a rotating weekly theme (loving‑kindness, self‑compassion, gratitude, etc.)Practical details
- When: Every Monday (doors 6:45 pm, meditation 7 pm) – we run the session even if there are no Meetup RSVP. No booking required - just turn up.
- Where: 52 Saint Martins Lane, WC2N 4EA (near Leicester Square/Charing Cross)
- Seating: Chairs provided; mats & cushions available for floor sitting.
Teacher
Nick – 30 years of practice and 7 years as a Buddhist monk, teaching from a non‑reactive, freedom‑focused perspective.Fees
- First‑timer: £10
- Regular: £16 per session
- Concessions: £13 (students, low‑income, refugees, disability support – ask on arrival)
Join us
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.“The connection here is transformative – stress‑free, supportive, genuinely inclusive.” – member testimonial.
1 attendee - £10.00

London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation Group
Westminster Meeting House, 52 St Martin's Ln, London WC2N 4EA, London, GBSince 2009, 15‑40 men meet in a warm, inclusive space near Leicester Square to meditate, relax and make friends. No experience needed – we guide you step‑by‑step, and seasoned meditators are welcome.
Why gay‑men choose this space
- Safety & belonging – a private, affirming environment where you can be yourself without judgment, the core need identified by LGBTQ‑focused mindfulness programmes .
- Minority‑stress relief – mindfulness reduces the chronic stress that many gay, bi and queer men face, boosting self‑acceptance and emotional regulation .
- Community‑driven growth – connecting with others who share similar experiences lowers isolation and fosters resilience.
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.
What you’ll get
- Breath‑work & gratitude tools – instant stress relief and mood lift.
- Guided meditations that develop emotional intelligence, self‑compassion and resilience.
- Trauma‑informed compassion practices – self‑compassion exercises and body‑scan work to ease reactivity and promote safety.
- A supportive peer community – improve social skills and build lasting friendships.
Evening flow (7 pm‑9 pm)
1️⃣ Grounding movement & body‑scan
2️⃣ First guided meditation (focused attention or self‑compassion)
3️⃣ 20‑minute tea break for informal chat
4️⃣ The second meditation changes week by week and follows a rotating weekly theme (loving‑kindness, self‑compassion, gratitude, etc.)Practical details
- When: Every Monday (doors 6:45 pm, meditation 7 pm) – we run the session even if there are no Meetup RSVP. No booking required - just turn up.
- Where: 52 Saint Martins Lane, WC2N 4EA (near Leicester Square/Charing Cross)
- Seating: Chairs provided; mats & cushions available for floor sitting.
Teacher
Nick – 30 years of practice and 7 years as a Buddhist monk, teaching from a non‑reactive, freedom‑focused perspective.Fees
- First‑timer: £10
- Regular: £16 per session
- Concessions: £13 (students, low‑income, refugees, disability support – ask on arrival)
Join us
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.“The connection here is transformative – stress‑free, supportive, genuinely inclusive.” – member testimonial.
1 attendee
Past events
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