Erotic Foreplay: The Art of Sensual Undressing and Tantric Massage

This workshop is about slowing down so you can fully enjoy your own body and the body of your partner. We’ll explore the art of slow, sensual undressing — not just with fingertips, but also using your body, face and perhaps even beard and breath to heighten erotic enjoyment.

We’ll then move into giving and receiving touch in a way that’s guided by your partner’s desires. This means asking them how they’d like to be touched, so your touch becomes a direct response to their wishes. Each couple in the group will create their own unique flow, as the experience is co-created between partners.

I’ll offer a basic framework for which part of the body we’ll be working on, along with suggestions for massage methods. The receiving partner can then feel into whether they want exactly that, or a variation that better suits their body’s desires.

The session flows through a sequence: starting with massage to the back, then around the glutes and legs, moving to the chest, and finally focusing more directly on the cock and balls. Throughout, we work with Tantric principles of connecting to our prana (life force energy) and circulating it through the body using breath and physical sweeping movements — sending energy up the body, through the arms, and down into the legs. This keeps the massage not only erotic but also deeply energising.

You’ll leave with new approaches you can bring into your lovemaking.

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These workshops are evolving…Rather than following a set massage sequence, we now invite you into a more fluid and personalised journey. We’ll explore how erotic conversation itself can be a form of foreplay—asking your partner how they like to be touched, and discovering together what arouses and delights you both.

Each pairing becomes unique as every couple finds their own rhythm and style.

Rather than rushing toward sex or orgasm, we slow down and expand the space for arousal, teasing, and sensual presence.

🌿 What to Expect

✨ Slow, sensual and erotic touch exchanges
✨ Breathwork and energy circulation for genital massage
✨ Tantric visualisation & prana flow techniques
✨ Erotic communication: asking, listening, expressing
✨ Gentle paired and group activities (nudity and genital touch included)
✨ A safe, caring space – open to all men

“Nick creates such a beautiful and welcoming space — I left feeling blissful and connected to myself and others.” – Sam

“Nick holds a safe, affirming space for deep connection. I highly recommend his workshops.” – Paul

💜 Who It’s For

• Men of all ages and backgrounds.
• Whether you're partnered or solo, new to this work or returning, you’re warmly welcome.
• This is a sober, shame-free, heart-centred space.

We meet regardless of Meetup RSVPs.

📅 Event Details
Date: Saturday 30th August
Time: 2–7 PM (doors open 1:45 PM)
Location: Brixton (full address sent on booking)
Nearest tube: Brixton
Venue: Air-conditioned in summer, underfloor heated in winter

🎟️ Tickets
Full price: £59
Reduced rate: £29 (students/unwaged)

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Can’t make this one? We meet the last Saturday of every month – join us next time.

Led by Nick Kientsch, a trauma-informed practitioner with 20+ years’ experience in bodywork, intimacy and energy work. With a background in Tibetan Buddhist Tantra, Neo-Tantra and 7 years as a Buddhist monk, Nick brings warmth, depth and safety to every session.