[Wednesday] Discussion: Power

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Power is the ability to influence, affect change, or assert control—over ourselves, others, or the world around us. It can be expressed through leadership, voice, knowledge, relationships, or even silence. Power can be constructive or destructive, visible or subtle, shared or abused. We encounter it in personal dynamics, social structures, and internal struggles. In this discussion, we’ll explore what power means to us, how we relate to it, how it’s gained or lost, and what it means to use power responsibly, both in everyday life and in broader society.

1. How do you personally define power, and where do you see it show up in your life?
2. Can you share a time when you felt powerful—or powerless? What made that moment stand out?
3. What’s the difference between personal power and social or institutional power?
4. How do people gain or lose power in relationships, communities, or organizations?
5. What are examples of using power in a healthy, responsible way?
6. What does it mean to misuse or abuse power, and what are the consequences?
7. How do confidence, voice, and boundaries contribute to someone’s sense of power?
8. Can power be shared, or is it always about control?
9. How does your relationship with power affect the way you approach conflict or leadership?
10. How do cultural, social, or gender dynamics shape how power is experienced or expressed?
11. What does it mean to reclaim power after it’s been taken or lost?

These are just some of the questions we will discuss during our meetup. No preparation needed, just bring yourself and a willingness to listen and share your thoughts.

The meetup will be structured in a way to promote small group discussion so everyone has a chance to listen, be heard, and really dive into the discussion.

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Due to the increased group size, we're making a few changes to how our discussions will be structured.

We'll arrange tables of 6 participants each, without a moderator. When you arrive, please gather at the front near the escalator. Once enough people are assembled, I'll escort each group of 6 to their table to begin the discussion, and continue doing this as more participants arrive.

Each table will receive a sheet containing the topic description and discussion questions. Feel free to take a photo or refer to the event page to have your own copy handy.

The official event time is from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm, but some of us stay longer, transitioning into informal conversations beyond the topic. You're welcome to join any other ongoing discussions once your initial group wraps up and members start leaving.

Please do not go directly to a table upon arrival; instead, wait at the front area by the escalator. This approach will help us manage seating smoothly and ensure everyone enjoys an organized and engaging discussion experience.