Discussion: Home vs Place to Live

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Home vs. Place to Live explores the difference between having a physical space and feeling a sense of emotional belonging. A place to live can provide shelter, routine, and function—it meets basic needs. But a home carries something deeper: comfort, connection, identity, and meaning. It may be shaped by the people in it, memories made there, or how safe and understood we feel. In this discussion, we’ll reflect on what turns a place into a home, how that feeling evolves over time, and what “home” truly means to each of us.

1. How do you personally define the difference between a home and a place to live?
2. Can you recall a time when a space truly felt like home? What made it feel that way?
3. Have you ever lived somewhere that met your needs but didn’t feel like home? Why not?
4. What elements—physical, emotional, or relational—make a place feel like home to you?
5. How do people contribute to the feeling of home in your life?
6. Can a sense of home exist in multiple places or with multiple people?
7. How does your concept of home change depending on your stage of life or circumstances?
8. What role do memories and personal objects play in creating a sense of home?
9. How do culture and upbringing shape what “home” means to us?
10. Can a temporary or unfamiliar place ever become home over time?
11. How do you create a sense of home when you feel unsettled or disconnected?

These are just some of the questions we will discuss during our meetup. No preparation needed, just bring yourself and a willingness to listen and share your thoughts.

The meetup will be structured in a way to promote small group discussion so everyone has a chance to listen, be heard, and really dive into the discussion.

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Due to the increased group size, we're making a few changes to how our discussions will be structured.

We'll arrange tables of 6 participants each, without a moderator. When you arrive, please gather at the front near the escalator. Once enough people are assembled, I'll escort each group of 6 to their table to begin the discussion, and continue doing this as more participants arrive.

Each table will receive a sheet containing the topic description and discussion questions. Feel free to take a photo or refer to the event page to have your own copy handy.

The official event time is from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm, but some of us stay longer, transitioning into informal conversations beyond the topic. You're welcome to join any other ongoing discussions once your initial group wraps up and members start leaving.

Please do not go directly to a table upon arrival; instead, wait at the front area by the escalator. This approach will help us manage seating smoothly and ensure everyone enjoys an organized and engaging discussion experience.