Discussion: Intimacy

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Intimacy is the sense of deep connection and closeness we can share with others, built through vulnerability, trust, and mutual understanding. It’s not limited to romantic or physical relationships—emotional, intellectual, creative, and even spiritual intimacy all offer ways for people to feel truly seen and valued. Intimacy can deepen bonds, but it also exposes us to risk, requiring courage to open ourselves and patience to nurture trust.

1. What does intimacy mean to you, and how has that definition evolved over time?
2. Do you think emotional intimacy can exist without physical intimacy? Why or why not?
3. How does vulnerability contribute to intimacy, and where does it become uncomfortable?
4. Can intimacy be built quickly, or does it require long-term shared experiences?
5. What role does trust play in sustaining intimacy, and how is it rebuilt if broken?
6. How does cultural background influence how we express or value intimacy?
7. Can too much intimacy ever feel overwhelming or suffocating?
8. What’s the difference between intimacy and dependency?
9. In what ways can friendships be more intimate than romantic relationships?
10. How do boundaries protect intimacy rather than diminish it?
11. How do life transitions (moving, career changes, parenthood) affect the level and form of intimacy in relationships?

These are just some of the questions we will discuss during our meetup. No preparation needed, just bring yourself and a willingness to listen and share your thoughts.

The meetup will be structured in a way to promote small group discussion so everyone has a chance to listen, be heard, and really dive into the discussion.

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Due to the increased group size, we're making a few changes to how our discussions will be structured.

We'll arrange tables of 6 participants each, without a moderator. When you arrive, please gather at the front near the escalator. Once enough people are assembled, I'll escort each group of 6 to their table to begin the discussion, and continue doing this as more participants arrive.

Each table will receive a sheet containing the topic description and discussion questions. Feel free to take a photo or refer to the event page to have your own copy handy.

The official event time is from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm, but some of us stay longer, transitioning into informal conversations beyond the topic. You're welcome to join any other ongoing discussions once your initial group wraps up and members start leaving.

Please do not go directly to a table upon arrival; instead, wait at the front area by the escalator. This approach will help us manage seating smoothly and ensure everyone enjoys an organized and engaging discussion experience.