New Jersey LGBTQ+ Meetups

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Welcome to New Jersey LGBTQ+ Meetups!

We're your go-to source for all things LGBTQ+ happening in New Jersey. We promote and showcase the many events organized by various LGBTQ+ groups in the state. *We are not affiliated with any one organization or group - just facilitator to help you find many of the vibrant LGBTQ+ events in NJ*

Stay tuned for the best happy hours, activities, book clubs and many other exciting happenings nearby! If you have LGBTQ+ events you'd like to advertise, please reach out to us with plenty of notice so we can add them, here.

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Gay Social's Bowling Night (TIX REQ)
Sat, Feb 28 · 6:30 PM EST
Lodi Lanes, 58 Terhune Ave, Lodi, NJ, US
GET YOUR TICKET HERE

This event is organized by Gay Social, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to fostering connections within our LGBTQ+ community through vibrant and inclusive social events. Join us to celebrate diversity, build friendships, and have some fun! Visit www.gaysocialnj.org for more information.

🎳💅 Strike a pose… then strike a pin! 💅🎳
We’re teaming up with Rainbowl NJ again for a night of glitter, gutters, and good vibes at Lodi Lanes! This ain’t your grandma’s bowling league (unless she’s a fierce queen with a killer hook shot). Bowling will start at 7PM but please arrive early to get settled and into teams.

GET YOUR TICKET HERE

Your $30 ticket gets you:
🎳 2hrs of bowling + shoe rental
🍝 Pasta, chicken fingers, sliders, and more
🥤 Soda + a bucket of beer/seltzer per lane (we said what we said)

Please arrive before 7PM to start on time.

GET YOUR TICKET HERE

💸 Please purchase your ticket by Feb 20th so we can plan the food, fun, and flawless frames.
5 attendees
Gay Social's North Jersey Pride Night Out
Tue, Mar 3 · 7:00 PM EST
Moonshine Modern Supper Club, 55 Main Street, Millburn, NJ, US
This event is organized by Gay Social, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to fostering connections within our LGBTQ+ community through vibrant and inclusive social events. Join us to celebrate diversity, build friendships, and have some fun! Visit www.gaysocialnj.org for more information.

Pride Night Out is a monthly LGBTQ community gathering in Millburn designed for catching up with friends and meeting new ones in a welcoming nightlife setting. The evening is social and conversational, with people mingling throughout the space and joining different groups as the night unfolds.

Check in with our Community Managers, Sheldon and Nick, who are there to welcome newcomers, make introductions, and help everyone feel included.

Event details
🍸 First Tuesday of each month
⏰ 7:00 PM to 10:00 PM
📍 Moonshine Modern Supper Club, Millburn
🎟️ Free to attend / No RSVP needed
🅿️ Street parking available
ℹ️ Food and drinks on your own
2 attendees
Gay Social's Mix & Mingle
Wed, Mar 4 · 7:00 PM EST
Clydz, 55 Paterson St,, New Brunswick, NJ, US
This event is organized by Gay Social, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to fostering connections within our LGBTQ+ community through vibrant and inclusive social events. Join us to celebrate diversity, build friendships, and have some fun! Visit www.gaysocialnj.org for more information.

Mix and Mingle is a monthly LGBTQ community gathering in New Brunswick that feels like a friendly happy hour with the community. It is a welcoming space to reconnect with friends, meet new people, and move easily between conversations throughout the evening. Whether you are chatting at the bar or joining a small group, the atmosphere stays open and social.

Check in with our Community Manager, Pat Coyle, who is there to welcome newcomers, help make introductions, and make joining the group feel easy from the start.

Event details
🍸 First Wednesday of each month
⏰ 7:00 PM to 10:00 PM
📍 Clydz, New Brunswick
🎟️ Free to attend / No RSVP needed
🅿️ Paid street and garage parking nearby
ℹ️ Food and drinks on your own
6 attendees
Gay Social's Neat Connections
Fri, Mar 6 · 7:00 PM EST
The Laundromat, 4 Dehart Street, Morristown, NJ, US
This event is organized by Gay Social, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to fostering connections within our LGBTQ+ community through vibrant and inclusive social events. Join us to celebrate diversity, build friendships, and have some fun! Visit www.gaysocialnj.org for more information.

Neat Connections takes place in an underground, speakeasy-style bar in Morristown with live bands and a buzzing crowd. The music sets the tone for the night, and the space has that tucked-away feel where conversations happen naturally between songs and sets.

We gather in the back right side of the venue, where you’ll find a mix of familiar faces and new ones, chatting, laughing, and enjoying the night together. It’s social, welcoming, and a lot of fun to settle into once you find the group.

Look for our Community Manager, Rocky Rinaldi, who will help you find us, introduce you around, and make sure you feel welcome when you arrive.

Event details
🥃 Every other month, first Friday
⏰ 7:00 PM to 10:00 PM
📍 The Laundromat, Morristown
🎟️ Free to attend / No RSVP needed
🅿️ Paid street and garage parking
ℹ️ Drinks on your own
🔞 23+ only event
4 attendees