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Join this exciting inclusive Meetup for FREE and enjoy engaging First Friday socials, fun activities and adventurous events. Our members are hard-working gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender, queer or questioning (LGBTQ) professionals and advocates from a variety of disciplines such as military, government, banking, law, medicine, new media, interior or fashion design and communications. We all share the same desire to enjoy the company of like-minded professionals in a relaxed, fun atmosphere.

Build a stronger base of professional contacts. Share ideas and job possibilities, tap expertise, or meet potential clients or business partners. Benefit by making new connections and honing ideas. There are no membership dues to be a part of it. Nor are there referral expectations like BNI's. Just show up, meet new people, and have fun. This group sets an exciting new paradigm. It's a new day, a new era, and this facilitates valuable connections for personal, professional, and business success.

Our group is welcoming and inclusive, respectful of everyone under the gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, queer or questioning (LGBTQ) rainbow and straight allies.

Our signature event is the monthly First Friday social hosted by TJ Flavell. Often we team up with other groups to co-sponsor events, offering more opportunities for mingling and fun.

Better yet, you may join this cosmopolitan group regardless of where you reside, be it NoVA, DC, or Maryland, or wherever, you are welcome. Our events are the rage! Tell your friends and bring them along.

This Meetup is affiliated with the popular Go Gay DC - Metro DC's Inclusive LGBTQ+ Community. You are welcome to join that as well to stay in the know. It's the newest sensation focused on friendship, leadership, and service. It reaches over 10K fabulous people and is growing fast. Visit the new website at https://www.gogaydc.com

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    LGBTQ+ Coffee and Conversation @ as you are.

    LGBTQ+ Coffee and Conversation @ as you are.

    as you are. DC, 500 8th St SE, Washington, DC, US

    Reserve a spot for free on Eventbrite so we have an accurate guest count.

    Make new friends and meaningful new connections. Join us for the coffee shop gathering at as you are, a wonderful safe space in DC!

    Look for the Go Gay DC sign on one of the tables. We will be wearing name tags. This is a good event to attend if you like facilitated conversation.

    When you arrive, obtain a name tag, order on your own from the menu if you wish and gather with about 10 LGBTQ+ folk around the sofa for relaxed conversation.

    Feel free to invite your friends to join you.

    Metro Directions: Be eco-friendly. Metro rides are capped at $2.50 on weekends, regardless of distance travelled. Eastern Market Metro (Blue/Orange/Silver lines) is only a few blocks away. The venue is where the Banana Cafe used to be. The area is generally considered safe.

    There is also free street parking in DC on Sundays. There is a free parking lot underneath the freeway overpass adjacent to the Marine Corps barracks.

    This event is being boosted by Go Gay DC, Metro Washington DC's inclusive LGBTQ+ community focused on friendship, leadership, and service. It reaches over 10K fabulous people and is growing fast. Visit https://www.gogaydc.com

    At this event you'll even get to meet TJ Flavell, Go Gay DC's founder.

    This event is a safe space for everyone under the rainbow.

    Go Gay DC is on social media:

    Join the Facebook Group
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/GoGayDC

    Like the Facebook Page
    https://www.facebook.com/GoGayDC

    Follow on Instagram
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    Search tags: LGBT LGBTQ LGBTQI lesbian gay bisexual transgender queer nonbinary non-binary intersex

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  • Yappy Happy Hour @ Spark Social

    Yappy Happy Hour @ Spark Social

    Spark Social, 2009 14th St NW, Washington, DC 20009, Washington, DC, DC, US

    NEW EVENT!!! Please be sure to RSVP on Eventbrite so we have an accurate guest list.

    Pink Poodle Club is Spark's weekly Yappy Hour — every Monday on the back patio from 5–7pm. $1 Scooby Snacks for hoomans and $1 pup cups for the doggos.

    Come join us for a fun and dog-friendly gathering! It’s the perfect chance to meet new people, share stories, and enjoy a relaxed atmosphere with the LGBTQ+ community. Whether you're looking to make friends or just hang out, everyone’s welcome. Grab your favorite drink and let’s make some great memories together!

    This event is free to attend. We hope to see you there. In addition to coffee selections, the venue offers a good food and drinks menu.

    We encourage you to register your attendance in advance. We hope to see you there.

    When you arrive with your dog, order on your own from the menu. Then meet and mingle with LGBTQ+ folk and their dogs on the back patio.

    Metro Directions: Be eco-friendly. U Street Metro (Yellow/Green line) is only a few blocks away. Take the 13th Street Exit. The venue is adjacent to Crush Bar.
    This event is a safe space for everyone under the rainbow.

    Please feel free to invite all your friends to join you there!

    This event is hosted by Go Gay DC, Washington DC's inclusive LGBTQ+ community focused on friendship, leadership, and service.

    It now reaches over 10K fabulous people and is growing fast. Visit https://www.gogaydc.com . Go Gay DC's founder is TJ Flavell.

    Go Gay DC is on social media:

    Join the Facebook Group
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/GoGayDC

    Like the Facebook Page
    https://www.facebook.com/GoGayDC

    Follow on Instagram
    https://www.instagram.com/GoGayDC

    Follow on Threads
    https://www.threads.com/@GoGayDC

    Follow on Bluesky
    https://gogaydc.bsky.social/

    Follow on X
    https://www.x.com/GoGayDC

    Watch on YouTube
    https://www.youtube.com/GoGayDC

    LinkedIn
    https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/GoGayDC

    Search keywords: LGBT LGBTQ LGBTQI LQBTQIA Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Queer Intersex Straight Allies Two-Spirit

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  • LGBTQ+ Happy Hour Meetup @ Spark Social

    LGBTQ+ Happy Hour Meetup @ Spark Social

    Spark Social, 2009 14th St NW, Washington, DC 20009, Washington, DC, DC, US

    Please be sure to RSVP on Eventbrite so we have an accurate guest list.

    Looking for a way to meet people off the apps but can't commit to joining a kickball team?

    Come join us for a fun and friendly in-person gathering! It’s the perfect chance to meet new people, share stories, and enjoy a relaxed atmosphere with the LGBTQ+ community. Whether you're looking to make friends or just hang out, everyone’s welcome. Grab your favorite drink and let’s make some great memories together!

    When you arrive, ask for the owner of Spark Social, Nick Tsusaki and sit with the Party of Six group. Be sure to let Nick know you are there from Go Gay DC. Order on your own from the menu.

    This event is free to attend. We hope to see you there. In addition to coffee selections, the venue offers a good food and drinks menu. $10 signature cocktails; $7 premium rail; $5 grilled cheese.

    Metro Directions: Be eco-friendly. U Street Metro (Yellow/Green line) is only a few blocks away. Take the 13th Street exit. The venue is adjacent to Crush Bar.
    This event is a safe space for everyone under the rainbow.

    Please feel free to invite all your friends to join you there!
    This event is hosted by Go Gay DC, Washington DC's inclusive LGBTQ+ community focused on friendship, leadership, and service. It now reaches over 10K fabulous people and is growing fast. Visit https://www.gogaydc.com . Go Gay DC's founder is TJ Flavell.

    Go Gay DC is on social media:

    Mingle with fabulous LGBTQ+ folk and allies. Bring your friends and meet new people from all over the world.

    Casual attire is fine.

    You are welcome regardless of where you live. Guests from DC, Maryland, and Virginia often attend.

    This event is a safe, inclusive space for everyone under the rainbow.

    Go Gay DC is on social media:

    Join the Facebook Group
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/GoGayDC

    Like the Facebook Page
    https://www.facebook.com/GoGayDC

    Follow on Instagram
    https://www.instagram.com/GoGayDC

    Follow on Threads
    https://www.threads.com/@GoGayDC

    Follow on Bluesky
    https://gogaydc.bsky.social/

    Follow on X
    https://www.x.com/GoGayDC

    Watch on YouTube
    https://www.youtube.com/GoGayDC

    LinkedIn
    https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/GoGayDC

    Search keywords: LGBT LGBTQ LGBTQI LQBTQIA Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Queer Intersex Two-spirit Straight Allies

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  • Men's Black Tie Club Social Mixer @ Freddie's

    Men's Black Tie Club Social Mixer @ Freddie's

    Freddie's Beach Bar & Restaurant, 555 23rd St S, Arlington, VA, US

    This exciting event is listed on Go Gay DC as a community courtesy by an allied-group and is not run by Go Gay DC; just go and have a blast anyway!

    Register on Eventbrite so there's an accurate guest count. This casual happy hour is open to gentlemen interested in learning more about Black Tie Club; it's not a members-only event.

    Do you want to go to fancy places like country clubs? This happy hour is a chance for you to meet with members of the Washington, DC area chapter of Black Tie Club to learn about upcoming formal events. This fun, happy hour social mixer takes place at Freddie's Beach Bar & Restaurant. Mingle with other gentlemen. Casual attire is perfectly fine.

    Meet with members of the Washington, DC area chapter of Black Tie Club, as well as with invited guests and friends. Happy hour cocktails and gratis hors d’oeuvres will be served. Make meaningful new connections. The event is free to attend; you simply pay for your drinks and/or meal on your own on separate credit card; there's no group tab to worry about.

    Afterwards, consider joining the group as we wander half a block over to Federico's for a no-host fabulous Italian dinner. All are invited!

    At least 20 gentlemen are expected. Enjoy the cash or credit bar drinks. Just ask the bartender what the happy hour specials are.

    Metro Directions: Be eco-friendly. Crystal City Metro is the closest Metro stop. When you arrive, go out the station, walk towards your left to 18th Street and then veer right and walk under the Route 1 overpass to Eads St. Turn left and walk to 23rd Street. Turn right. Freddie's is up 23rd Street just a block. Just look for the rainbow flags on the right side of the street!
    Parking is usually available nearby on the residential side streets.

    Freddie's was voted the Best Virginia Bar by Washington Blade readers. Don't like a smoky bar? You are covered: Freddie's is a smoke-free establishment. (Ashtrays are provided in back of the building if smoking is 'your thing').

    Freddie's is an LGBTQ+, straight-friendly restaurant and bar. It offers Happy Hour daily from 4-7 pm. https://www.freddiesbeachbar.com/

    There's no need to print out and show your Eventbrite ticket.

    Remember to bring your ID, as everyone who wishes to drink alcohol is carded of course.

    Black Tie Club International is a private social club for gay gentlemen. With chapters in over 15 cities, our members enjoy mixing and mingling over cocktails, exquisite dinners, and delicious wines. The events may be formal or casual. Membership is by invitation only although guests are always welcome at events.

    The Metropolitan Washington, District of Columbia Chapter is celebrating its third decade as the premier social organization for accomplished, professional, and distinguished men in the District of Columbia, the Northern Virginia, and the Annapolis and Baltimore, Maryland areas.

    The Metropolitan Washington, D.C. Chapter began with 22 Members in 1998 and has now some 40 Members. The peripatetic nature of Black Tie Club International Members is evidenced by the fact that many D.C. Chapter Members are now found in other Chapters such as Atlanta, Fort Lauderdale, Palm Beach, Palm Springs, and Rehoboth Beach-Lewes. The Metropolitan Washington, D.C. Chapter also has been enhanced by Members from other Chapters, notably, Atlanta, Dallas, Palm Beach, Palm Springs, San Antonio, San Francisco, and Toronto.

    Membership is by invitation only.
    https://www.dcbtci.org | dcbtci.substack.com

    This event is being posted by Go Gay DC as a community service for those who don't know that the Black Tie Club exists. Go Gay DC is Metropolitan Washington DC's inclusive LGBTQ+ community focused on friendship, leadership, and service. It now reaches over 10K fabulous people and is growing fast. Visit http://www.gogaydc.com
    TJ Flavell is Go Gay DC's founder.

    Go Gay DC is on social media:

    Join the Facebook Group
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/GoGayDC

    Like the Facebook Page
    https://www.facebook.com/GoGayDC

    Follow on Instagram
    https://www.instagram.com/GoGayDC/

    Follow on Threads
    https://www.threads.com/@GoGayDC

    Follow on Bluesky
    https://gogaydc.bsky.social

    Follow on X
    https://www.x.com/GoGayDC

    Watch on YouTube
    https://www.youtube.com/GoGayDC

    LinkedIn
    https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/GoGayDC

    Search tags: Gay or Bisexual Men

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