Un*fucking Sexpectations Online Support Circle: What Do You Actually Want?

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About This Session
Maybe you don’t know what you want yet. Maybe it changes day to day.
Maybe you learned that wanting less makes you “boring,” or wanting more makes you “too much.” Maybe it felt easier to go along than to risk an awkward conversation.

Or maybe you were never asked the question out loud, so you stopped asking it yourself.

This session is about exploring all the feelings, questions, concerns, and discomfort that come up when we ask: “What do you actually want?” Share what you know, share what you don’t — it all belongs here.

How It Works

• Free and confidential – hosted on Totem’s secure platform
• Guided sharing – everyone gets a turn, no pressure to overshare
• Family-friendly – babies, toddlers, and background noise welcome

Meet Your Host
Hello! I'm Vanessa, an LA based artist and recovering hot mess. I'm a co-founder at totem.org where I host free guided Spaces to build online communities where we can feel seen, heard, and reminded that we're not going through these WTF moments alone.