Open Relationship: EP#09- trauma bond & toxic relationship

Topic of EP#09 - trauma bond & toxic relationship

Do we really love that person, or are we just choosing what feels familiar?

Why is it so hard to leave a toxic relationship? Could we be addicted to the toxicity without realizing it?

In this episode, we’ll discuss the psychology behind why we choose love that hurts us and why it can be so hard to walk away.

Come with a real-life situation, a question, or simply your curiosity. Sharing is always optional, and you’re welcome to just listen.

Each episode explores a different real-life question about relationships, emotional patterns, and how we connect, using Enneagram archetypes as a lens.

Venue
Dhoby Ghaut area. The exact venue will be shared with RSVP’d attendees only.

Who it’s for
Curious minds who want a safe, open space to talk about relationships.

What to expect

• A small-group conversation with people in their 20s to 50s. We want to hear stories from every stage of life!
• A brief introduction to the Enneagram as a lens for our discussion
• Space to explore real-life situations related to the topic
• Optional, unofficial Enneagram typing with my Q&A card game, or try the free test on my website to get a rough idea of your type

Your host
A psychology and neuroscience nerd, certified Enneagram coach, and creator of a personality retreat, who is always curious about human nature :)
No lectures. No selling. No pressure. Just real conversations.

Ground rules

• Respect is non-negotiable.
• What’s shared in the group stays in the group, and the host may remove anyone who treats other attendees disrespectfully.
• This is a peer discussion, not therapy or crisis support.
• If you’re in an unsafe situation or need more support, please reach out to a mental health professional or support service.