Open Relationship: EP#08: Loving Someone While Losing Ourselves...?

EP#08: Loving Someone While Losing Ourselves...?

Have you ever believed that if you did everything for someone, they would love you back the way you wanted... only to realise you were losing yourself?

When does giving in love become giving yourself away?

In this episode, we’ll talk about:

• Why do some of us lose ourselves when we fall in love?
• What’s the difference between compromise and self-abandonment?
• How do people-pleasing and fear of losing someone shape the way we love?
• How can we stay close to someone without disappearing in the relationship?

Come with a real-life situation, a question, or simply your curiosity.

Each episode explores a different real-life question about relationships, emotional patterns, and how we connect, using Enneagram archetypes as a lens.

A special episode
This time, the conversation will be hosted by four of our regular attendees: Ash, Terry, Sheila and Ernest. They each bring a different perspective, and together they create a warm, balanced space for honest conversation.

Venue
Dhoby Ghaut area. The exact venue will be shared with RSVP’d attendees only.

Who it’s for
Curious minds who want a safe, open space to talk about relationships, whether you’re single, dating, or in a relationship.

What to expect

• A small-group conversation with people in their 20s to 50s. We want to hear stories from every stage of life!
• A brief introduction to the Enneagram as a lens for our discussion
• Space to explore real-life situations related to the topic
• Curious about your type? Try the free test on the Unbound Chapter website to get a rough idea before or after the session

No lectures. No selling. No pressure. Just real conversations.

Ground rules

• Respect is non-negotiable.
• What’s shared in the group stays in the group, and the hosts may remove anyone who treats other attendees disrespectfully.
• This is a peer discussion, not therapy or crisis support.
• If you need more support, please reach out to a mental health professional or support service.