Open Relationship: EP#10- Letting Go of Them, and Our Old Patterns

Before our new chapters begin in 2027, let’s look back on how far we’ve come in love and relationships, let go of what no longer serves us, and step into the new year with a fresh perspective.

EP#10: Letting Go to Love Better

Can we really let go of someone we still love?
And can we let go of our old patterns to make room for a healthier love?

In this episode, we’ll talk about:

• Why is it so hard to let go of someone, even when we know it’s right?
• What does letting go actually look like, and does it mean we stop caring?
• Why do we keep repeating the same patterns with different people?
• How can we break old patterns and start a new, better kind of love?

Come with a real-life situation, a question, or simply your curiosity.

Each episode explores a different real-life question about relationships, emotional patterns, and how we connect, using Enneagram archetypes as a lens.

Venue
Dhoby Ghaut area. The exact venue will be shared with RSVP’d attendees only.

Who it’s for
Curious minds who want a safe, open space to talk about relationships, whether you’re healing from a breakup, holding on, or ready to start fresh.

What to expect

• A small-group conversation with people in their 20s to 50s. We want to hear stories from every stage of life!
• A brief introduction to the Enneagram as a lens for our discussion
• Space to explore real-life situations related to the topic
• Optional, unofficial Enneagram typing with my Q&A card game, or try the free test on my website to get a rough idea of your type

Your host
A psychology and neuroscience nerd, certified Enneagram coach, and creator of a personality retreat, who is always curious about human nature :)
No lectures. No selling. No pressure. Just real conversations.

Ground rules

• Respect is non-negotiable.
• What’s shared in the group stays in the group, and the host may remove anyone who treats other attendees disrespectfully.
• This is a peer discussion, not therapy or crisis support.
• If you need more support, please reach out to a mental health professional or support service.