What we’re about
We live in paradise! Let's get into vay-cay mode, get outside, and enjoy nature - together!
WHO WE ARE
We're a community of women over 50 who love sunshine, love the beach, and love making genuine connections. Whether you're new to the area, rediscovering yourself after life changes, or just looking for more adventure and friendship - you've found your tribe!
WHY THIS MATTERS (Science Says So!)
Living in paradise is good for you - but only if you actually GET OUT and enjoy it!
Research shows that combining social connection with nature (hello, beaches & sunsets!) is one of the most powerful longevity boosters available. We're talking:
🧠 Sharper mind & lower dementia risk
💪 Stronger immune system
❤️ Better heart health
😊 Less depression & anxiety
⏰ Potentially years added to your life!
Studies show strong social ties can reduce mortality risk by up to 50% - that's comparable to quitting smoking! Social isolation is literally as dangerous as obesity.
So this isn't just "fun" - it's medicine. Doctor's orders: get to the beach, make some friends, watch a sunset. 💊🌅
WHAT WE DO
Our gatherings are ACTIVITY-focused, not food or drink-focused!
We meet for:
🏖️ Beach days & sunset watching
☕ Coffee conversations, tea parties!
🚶♀️ Nature walks & photo adventures
🎨 Creative painting & crafting projects
🚢 Boat cruises & local explorations
🎄 Holiday lights & seasonal fun
🌊 Water activities (pool days, boating and kayaking from local docks!)
✨ Whatever sounds fun!
OUR VIBE
🌟 Paradise Found Energy Only - No Drama Mamas! 🌟
We're here for friendship, laughter, and support - NOT gossip, cliques, or pressure.
What we celebrate:
✨ Kindness & direct communication
✨ Lifting each other up
✨ Respecting everyone's journey
✨ Supporting healthy choices
✨ Shy ladies & quiet souls - you're welcome here!
What we don't do:
❌ Gossip or triangulation
❌ Pressure anyone to eat/drink anything
❌ Make anyone feel left out
❌ No Forced Sharing! We don’t force anyone to speak in front of the group
❌ Tolerate drama (one warning, then removal - life's too short!)
FEELING DOWN? COME ANYWAY!
Depressed? Don't feel like getting out? Don't feel like talking? PERFECT - come anyway!
You don't have to be "on" or chatty. You can just sit, soak up sunshine, and be around kind people. No pressure, no performance needed.
We promise: sunshine, gentle companionship, and the sound of waves will lift your spirits. Even just a little bit helps.
You belong here - exactly as you are, wherever you are in your journey. 💛
HOW IT WORKS
🎟️ MEMBERSHIP:
Members who don't RSVP/attend for 90 days are removed (keeps group active! Exceptions for snowbirds - just let me know)
🏠 HOME/POOL EVENTS:
Must attend 2 public events first (beaches, coffee, etc.)
This way we know you're not an ax murderer 😂
Safety first for home gatherings!
📅 RSVP HONESTLY:
If you RSVP "yes," please show up!
Plans change - just update your RSVP
3 no-shows without notice will be removed
💬 STAY ON MEETUP:
All communication & scheduling stays here
No one gets left out or needs other platforms
UPCOMING EVENTS
We have weekly coffee meet-ups, beach days, and special holiday activities planned!
QUESTIONS?
Message Maureen the organizer! I'm excited to meet you and build this community together.
Life's too short for a boring social life! Let's make some fun memories! 🌴☀️💛
Upcoming events
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🚢 HOLIDAY LIGHTS TIKI BOAT CRUISE - Floating Through Winter Wonderland!
Laishley Park Municipal Marina, 120 Laishley Ct, Punta Gorda, FL, USSunset + Christmas lights on "The Oasis" - the most luxurious tiki boat in Charlotte Harbor!
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### WHEN & WHERE
Sunday, November 30, 2025
Meet 5:00, Cruise Time 5:15 PM - Sunset PLUS Holiday Lights (You get both!)
Meet at: Laishley Park Marina, 120 Laishley Ct, Punta Gorda
Duration: About 2 hours***
### WHAT IS THIS?
Imagine: Cruising through the decorated canals of Punta Gorda Isles on a cozy tiki boat, sipping hot cocoa, listening to festive music through surround sound, while multi-million dollar homes sparkle with holiday lights all around you. ✨
"The Oasis" is a 35-foot custom-built tiki boat featuring plush couches, LED lights, 8 surround sound speakers, and a fully enclosed private restroom. You'll cruise Charlotte Harbor for the sunset, then explore every canal to see exquisite lights and holiday decorations.
Some cruises even feature live entertainment, Christmas karaoke, and caroling!***
### TICKETS & COST - Adults: $59
🎟️ BOOK YOUR TICKET: https://puntagordaadventures.com/christmas-lights-cruise-punta-gorda
⚠️ IMPORTANT: This is a PUBLIC cruise (boat holds up to 30 people). Book early - these sell out fast during holiday season!***
### WHAT'S INCLUDED
✨ Hot cocoa, fresh apple cider, and egg nog (complimentary!)
✨ Festive music & holiday atmosphere
✨ 2-hour cruise through decorated canals
✨ Possible dolphin sightings!
✨ Photo opportunities galore
BYOB ALLOWED! (Bring Your Own Beverages and/or snacks - boat provides ice, cups, mixers)
Snacks also available for purchase onboard***
### THE PLAN
We're doing the 5:15 PM SUNSET + LIGHTS CRUISE! (Get both for same price!)
Meet Paradise Pals: 5:00 PM at Laishley Park Marina (floating dock area)
Boarding: 5:15 PM
What happens:- First 30-45 minutes: Watch famous Southwest Florida sunset over Charlotte Harbor
- Next hour+: Explore decorated canals of Punta Gorda Isles
- All while: Lounging on plush couches, sipping cocoa, listening to holiday tunes
Perfect for: ✨ Anyone who loves Christmas lights
✨ People who want to see how the other half lives (multi-million $ homes!)
✨ Photography lovers
✨ kicking off the Christmas vibes!
✨ Cozy holiday magic on the water***
### WHAT TO BRING
📱 Phone/camera (you'll want pics!)
🎫 Your ticket (digital or printed)
🧥 Light jacket or blanket (December evenings can be cool)
🍷 BYOB if you want (wine, beer, cocktails - your choice!)
🍫 Any special snacks you want
The boat has: Cooler with ice, cups, mixers, private restroom***
### FINDING EACH OTHER
Look for Paradise Pals at 5:00 PM near the floating dock at Laishley Park Marina (behind Downtown Bait & Tackle Shop).
Can't find us? Check event comments or message organizer.
First-timer? Just say "Paradise Pals?" and we'll welcome you aboard! (Literally! 😂)***
### CARPOOL?
Punta Gorda Marina is about 15 minutes from Port Charlotte. Want to carpool? Coordinate in the comments!
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### WHY THIS IS MAGICAL
Homeowners along Punta Gorda Isles canals go ALL OUT decorating - but you can only see it from the water! This is THE way locals experience Christmas in Southwest Florida.
Plus: plush couches + hot cocoa + twinkling lights + island music + sunset = pure holiday joy. 🎄🌅🚢
Ready to make some magical holiday memories, Paradise Pals?
RSVP "Yes" and book your ticket ASAP - these cruises sell out!2 attendees
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