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NOTE: THIS MEETUP'S SETTING IS "VISIBLE," WHICH MEANS NON-MEMBERS WILL BE ABLE TO SEE DETAILS ABOUT OUR MEETUPS AND MEMBERSHIP, INCLUDING MEMBERS' ACCOUNTS. IF PRIVACY IS ABSOLUTELY ESSENTIAL, CONSIDER CREATING AN ALTERNATE ACCOUNT OR NOT OFFICIALLY JOINING THIS GROUP. IF YOU OPT NOT TO JOIN HERE, YOU CAN STILL SEE OUR ANNOUNCEMENTS AND COME TO OUR EVENTS. 

***Please don't hesitate to PM Melissa with questions!***

PolyNJ is a polyamory & ethical non-monogamy meetup group, serving central New Jersey, Eastern Pennsylvania and surrounding areas. We welcome all those who are interested in creating or learning about non-exclusive relationships, especially those that focus on love, emotional intimacy and an on going commitment. We strive to create a relaxed and welcoming atmosphere with time for informal chatting and facilitated discussions. We want to bring together experienced polies with newcomers for fun and exchange of ideas. Please be aware that we are striving to provide an opportunity for members to be themselves and participate in open, honest discussions about their unique lifestyle. 

*****While we encourage members to form friendships outside our meetups, PolyNJ munches, discussion groups and workshops themselves are *not* about picking up dating partners. Please do not come to the meetups with the express intentions of picking up potential partners or cruising for sex. Direct sexual advances and come ons are against PolyNJs meetup policy unless the meetup happens at a bar or club and cruising for dates is explicitly encouraged.*******

All in attendance must respect the needs of the group and each individual at all times. Attendees must be at least eighteen years of age. ****please ask politely if it is OK before hugging or touching someone whom you do not know well. Disruptive members may be asked to leave or asked to refrain from coming back.*** We want this to be a place where polyamorous people and people curious about polyamory can relax and speak openly without worrying about inappropriate advances. That being said, people who make connections outside the group that are mutually agreed to is fine.