Pornography & Sexual Integrity Circle for Men

A free, confidential weekly circle for men working to break free from pornography and reclaim honesty, presence, and intimacy in their lives.

Pornography use can become a private struggle that shapes a man's relationships, confidence, physiology, and sense of self — often in silence. This group offers a space to bring that struggle into the open, with other men who understand.

What this is:
An open, drop-in circle facilitated by Tyler White, Men's Relationship & Porn Recovery Coach. Each week, 1–2 volunteers work directly with Tyler in the group — naming what's going on, getting honest about triggers and patterns, and identifying one real shift to work on.

Everyone else witnesses. Watching is not passive — the shame and secrecy at the root of this struggle are common ground, and hearing another man's story loosens their grip on your own.
You don't need to be in "crisis" to come, and you don't need to share more than you're ready to. You just need to show up.

Format:

• Open circle — come any week, no need to attend all sessions or commit to a cohort
• Facilitated by Tyler White, Relationship & Porn Recovery Coach (not peer-led)
• Free — no cost, ever, for this group
• In-person only
• Tuesdays from 5:30pm - 7pm weekly
• Location:
  • Pinon Counseling & Coaching Community
    2021 Pinon St.
    Santa Fe, NM 87505
• Message Tyler beforehand each week so he can let you in
• Come sober, clear, and on time — this work deserves your full presence

Group norms:

• Confidentiality, what's shared here stays here
• Phones away
• You always have permission to pass
• If you're observing, you can ask clarifying questions — hold off on giving advice or feedback unless invited

A typical session:
We open with a check-in round: what brought you tonight, what's the pattern or struggle you're facing right now, what it would look like if this were no longer running your life, and one way you're already showing up with integrity.

From there, Tyler invites volunteers into live coaching — naming the issue, gently exploring what's underneath it (the loneliness, the numbing, the avoidance), and closing with one concrete takeaway, tool, and homework.

We close as a group with reflections and appreciations. We all leave stronger, together.

This isn't therapy and it isn't a 12-step program, though it does compliment those. It's a space to stop hiding and get the support you need.

Questions or want to attend?
Message Tyler White, Men's Relationship & Porn Recovery Coach: (505) 577-5300