Unchosen relationships: Practical Psychology club Stockholm

Dear all,
Have you ever thought about how many people in your life you have consciously chosen and how many of them you never choose, yet still have to relate to or deal with?
In many situations, that can be challenging.
We never chose our parents, siblings, teachers, neighbours, colleagues… the list goes on. Yet these people often shape our experiences, our reactions, and sometimes even our identity.
Let’s explore together:

1. Why do we meet certain people in our lives?
   Is there meaning behind these encounters — or are they simply coincidences?
2. Is “karma” teaching us through others, or are relationships just the result of circumstance and randomness?
3. When we feel something negative toward someone, should we express it openly and directly — or communicate it more gently, wrapped in a pleasing tone?
4. What behaviours are acceptable in relationships (including non-chosen)— and where should we draw the line?
5. If someone treats you poorly — or unexpectedly well — are you obliged to respond?
   If someone helps you, do you owe them something in return?
   What does healthy reciprocity look like?
6. What do you gain — and what might you lose — if you choose to leave a relationship?
7. Do you believe that “what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger”?
   Or do you live by another personal survival principle?

Warm welcome to an open and thoughtful discussion.

See at Källarbyn!
Please swish 50 sek to 0737241879 to cover cost of the meetup.com app (at least once a season).
Thank you and warm welcome!
Vilija and fantastic co-hosts - Massi and Gabor!

General information about the club:

In this club, we share and discuss perspectives on human emotional and existential well-being.
Modern technological development has empowered humanity to conquer the external world and even create artificial intelligence. Yet, when it comes to understanding and mastering our emotions, thoughts, and inner well-being—the inner landscape of the human mind—no technology has truly solved this challenge.
This club is for those who are seeking inner depth, meaning, and balance in an increasingly high-tech and externally driven world.

We decide the specific topic for each upcoming meeting during the latest gathering.

NEW LOCATION Restaurant Källarbyn in Gamla Stan, Old Town,
Stora Nygatan 31, 111 27 Stockholm

I will guide the sessions as a Mind shift mentor, if you are curious, open, and ready to reflect together—welcome to the meeting.

Join us to connect, reflect, and discover how small shifts can make a big difference.