Dating & Relationship Advice for Men

# Dating & Relationship Advice for Men

Two principles. More options. Better outcomes.
A weekly discussion for men who want to get better at dating and relationships.
The basic framework is simple:
1. Improve your desirability.
2. Don’t be foolish.
Within those two constraints, you have a lot of freedom to decide what you actually want — and a better chance of achieving it.
That might mean:
Sex • Dating • Romance • Relationships • A committed relationship • Marriage and children
There is no single relationship model that every man has to follow.
The question is:
What do you want — and what gives you the best chance of getting there?

## What happens each week?

Each meeting is an open discussion around dating, attraction and relationships.
You can bring a question, a problem, a decision you are facing, a recent dating experience or simply come along and listen.
We might talk about:

• becoming more attractive and desirable
• confidence and social skills
• meeting and approaching women
• dating apps and messaging
• first dates
• attraction and sexual chemistry
• rejection and disappointment
• choosing who to date
• casual versus serious relationships
• boundaries and standards
• red flags and warning signs
• avoiding unnecessary drama
• knowing when to stay and when to walk away
• commitment, marriage and children
• break-ups and starting again
• mistakes men make in dating and relationships

And sometimes we will simply take a real situation someone is facing and ask:
What are your options?
What would improve your chances?
And are you being foolish?

## The aim

This is not about memorising dating techniques or pretending to be somebody you are not.
It is about becoming a man with better options and better judgement.
Improve yourself.
Understand attraction.
Think clearly.
Choose carefully.
Take responsibility for your decisions.
And pursue the kind of dating and relationship life you actually want.
You don't need to agree with everyone in the room.
You just need to be willing to have an intelligent, honest and respectful conversation.
Bring a question. Bring a situation. Or just come along and join the discussion.

***

## Disclaimer

This event is for general education, discussion and peer support only. It is not psychotherapy, counselling, medical, legal, financial or other professional advice, and attendance does not create a therapist–client, counsellor–client or other professional relationship.
Participants are responsible for their own decisions, behaviour and relationships. Views expressed by individual participants are their own and do not necessarily represent the views of the organiser or the group.
Nothing discussed at the event should be interpreted as encouraging harassment, coercion, manipulation, deception, stalking, violence, discrimination, or the violation of another person's consent, privacy, dignity or legal rights.
If you are dealing with abuse, serious mental-health difficulties, risk of harm, or a situation requiring specialist advice, please seek support from an appropriately qualified professional or relevant service.
Men only. Adults 18+ only.

# Dating & Relationship Advice for Men

Two principles. More options. Better outcomes.
A weekly discussion for men who want to get better at dating and relationships.
The basic framework is simple:
1. Improve your desirability.
2. Don’t be foolish.
Within those two constraints, you have a lot of freedom to decide what you actually want — and a better chance of achieving it.
That might mean:
Sex • Dating • Romance • Relationships • A committed relationship • Marriage and children
There is no single relationship model that every man has to follow.
The question is:
What do you want — and what gives you the best chance of getting there?

## What happens each week?

Each meeting is an open discussion around dating, attraction and relationships.
You can bring a question, a problem, a decision you are facing, a recent dating experience or simply come along and listen.
We might talk about:

• becoming more attractive and desirable
• confidence and social skills
• meeting and approaching women
• dating apps and messaging
• first dates
• attraction and sexual chemistry
• rejection and disappointment
• choosing who to date
• casual versus serious relationships
• boundaries and standards
• red flags and warning signs
• avoiding unnecessary drama
• knowing when to stay and when to walk away
• commitment, marriage and children
• break-ups and starting again
• mistakes men make in dating and relationships

And sometimes we will simply take a real situation someone is facing and ask:
What are your options?
What would improve your chances?
And are you being foolish?

## The aim

This is not about memorising dating techniques or pretending to be somebody you are not.
It is about becoming a man with better options and better judgement.
Improve yourself.
Understand attraction.
Think clearly.
Choose carefully.
Take responsibility for your decisions.
And pursue the kind of dating and relationship life you actually want.
You don't need to agree with everyone in the room.
You just need to be willing to have an intelligent, honest and respectful conversation.
Bring a question. Bring a situation. Or just come along and join the discussion.

***

## Disclaimer

This event is for general education, discussion and peer support only. It is not psychotherapy, counselling, medical, legal, financial or other professional advice, and attendance does not create a therapist–client, counsellor–client or other professional relationship.
Participants are responsible for their own decisions, behaviour and relationships. Views expressed by individual participants are their own and do not necessarily represent the views of the organiser or the group.
Nothing discussed at the event should be interpreted as encouraging harassment, coercion, manipulation, deception, stalking, violence, discrimination, or the violation of another person's consent, privacy, dignity or legal rights.
If you are dealing with abuse, serious mental-health difficulties, risk of harm, or a situation requiring specialist advice, please seek support from an appropriately qualified professional or relevant service.
Men only. Adults 18+ only.

# Dating & Relationship Advice for Men

Two principles. More options. Better outcomes.
A weekly discussion for men who want to get better at dating and relationships.
The basic framework is simple:
1. Improve your desirability.
2. Don’t be foolish.
Within those two constraints, you have a lot of freedom to decide what you actually want — and a better chance of achieving it.
That might mean:
Sex • Dating • Romance • Relationships • A committed relationship • Marriage and children
There is no single relationship model that every man has to follow.
The question is:
What do you want — and what gives you the best chance of getting there?

## What happens each week?

Each meeting is an open discussion around dating, attraction and relationships.
You can bring a question, a problem, a decision you are facing, a recent dating experience or simply come along and listen.
We might talk about:

• becoming more attractive and desirable
• confidence and social skills
• meeting and approaching women
• dating apps and messaging
• first dates
• attraction and sexual chemistry
• rejection and disappointment
• choosing who to date
• casual versus serious relationships
• boundaries and standards
• red flags and warning signs
• avoiding unnecessary drama
• knowing when to stay and when to walk away
• commitment, marriage and children
• break-ups and starting again
• mistakes men make in dating and relationships

And sometimes we will simply take a real situation someone is facing and ask:
What are your options?
What would improve your chances?
And are you being foolish?

## The aim

This is not about memorising dating techniques or pretending to be somebody you are not.
It is about becoming a man with better options and better judgement.
Improve yourself.
Understand attraction.
Think clearly.
Choose carefully.
Take responsibility for your decisions.
And pursue the kind of dating and relationship life you actually want.
You don't need to agree with everyone in the room.
You just need to be willing to have an intelligent, honest and respectful conversation.
Bring a question. Bring a situation. Or just come along and join the discussion.

***

## Disclaimer

This event is for general education, discussion and peer support only. It is not psychotherapy, counselling, medical, legal, financial or other professional advice, and attendance does not create a therapist–client, counsellor–client or other professional relationship.
Participants are responsible for their own decisions, behaviour and relationships. Views expressed by individual participants are their own and do not necessarily represent the views of the organiser or the group.
Nothing discussed at the event should be interpreted as encouraging harassment, coercion, manipulation, deception, stalking, violence, discrimination, or the violation of another person's consent, privacy, dignity or legal rights.
If you are dealing with abuse, serious mental-health difficulties, risk of harm, or a situation requiring specialist advice, please seek support from an appropriately qualified professional or relevant service.
Men only. Adults 18+ only.

# Dating & Relationship Advice for Men

Two principles. More options. Better outcomes.
A weekly discussion for men who want to get better at dating and relationships.
The basic framework is simple:
1. Improve your desirability.
2. Don’t be foolish.
Within those two constraints, you have a lot of freedom to decide what you actually want — and a better chance of achieving it.
That might mean:
Sex • Dating • Romance • Relationships • A committed relationship • Marriage and children
There is no single relationship model that every man has to follow.
The question is:
What do you want — and what gives you the best chance of getting there?

## What happens each week?

Each meeting is an open discussion around dating, attraction and relationships.
You can bring a question, a problem, a decision you are facing, a recent dating experience or simply come along and listen.
We might talk about:

• becoming more attractive and desirable
• confidence and social skills
• meeting and approaching women
• dating apps and messaging
• first dates
• attraction and sexual chemistry
• rejection and disappointment
• choosing who to date
• casual versus serious relationships
• boundaries and standards
• red flags and warning signs
• avoiding unnecessary drama
• knowing when to stay and when to walk away
• commitment, marriage and children
• break-ups and starting again
• mistakes men make in dating and relationships

And sometimes we will simply take a real situation someone is facing and ask:
What are your options?
What would improve your chances?
And are you being foolish?

## The aim

This is not about memorising dating techniques or pretending to be somebody you are not.
It is about becoming a man with better options and better judgement.
Improve yourself.
Understand attraction.
Think clearly.
Choose carefully.
Take responsibility for your decisions.
And pursue the kind of dating and relationship life you actually want.
You don't need to agree with everyone in the room.
You just need to be willing to have an intelligent, honest and respectful conversation.
Bring a question. Bring a situation. Or just come along and join the discussion.

***

## Disclaimer

This event is for general education, discussion and peer support only. It is not psychotherapy, counselling, medical, legal, financial or other professional advice, and attendance does not create a therapist–client, counsellor–client or other professional relationship.
Participants are responsible for their own decisions, behaviour and relationships. Views expressed by individual participants are their own and do not necessarily represent the views of the organiser or the group.
Nothing discussed at the event should be interpreted as encouraging harassment, coercion, manipulation, deception, stalking, violence, discrimination, or the violation of another person's consent, privacy, dignity or legal rights.
If you are dealing with abuse, serious mental-health difficulties, risk of harm, or a situation requiring specialist advice, please seek support from an appropriately qualified professional or relevant service.
Men only. Adults 18+ only.