Tacoma Discussion: Building Trust

Welcome to this week’s women’s circle! Tonight, we’ll focus on connection and self-discovery. We’ll begin with a fun icebreaker to set the tone and get to know one another better. From there, we’ll explore the evening’s topic, 'Building Trust,' through open discussion, sharing our thoughts, and reflecting on personal experiences. This gathering is a space to connect, grow, and be inspired by one another’s journeys. We’ll close with a moment to set intentions, leaving with fresh perspectives and a sense of support. Let’s dive in and make this time meaningful together!

Below is the "Mindful Musing" for the week which includes our Main Topic and some questions for us to explore together!

Trust—it’s the magical glue that holds our relationships together. It’s like that sturdy bridge over the river of skepticism, enabling us to traverse the sometimes murky waters of human connection without falling into the depths of doubt. But let’s be honest: building trust can feel a bit like trying to assemble IKEA furniture without the instructions—confusing, frustrating, and maybe even a little hilarious when you realize you’ve put the shelves on backward.

In a world where ghosting is an Olympic sport and “sorry, I can’t, I have plans” often means “I’d rather binge-watch Netflix alone,” trust can seem harder to come by than a decent avocado at the grocery store. But fear not! Building trust isn’t just about grand gestures or sharing deep, dark secrets; it can also be about those little moments of vulnerability, reliability, and, yes, sometimes even shared laughter over a ridiculous meme that brings us closer together.

So tonight, let’s explore the beautiful yet sometimes bumpy journey of trust-building in our friendships, families, and romantic relationships. With a little humor and some heartfelt sharing, we’ll uncover the nuances of trust, how it shapes our lives, and why it’s worth the effort.

Discussion Questions:

1. What’s a memorable moment when you felt someone completely trusted you, and how did that impact your relationship?
2. Have you ever faced a trust crisis (like realizing your best friend has been eating the last piece of cake without telling you)? How did you navigate it?
3. What are some small, everyday actions that help build trust in your relationships?
4. How do you approach rebuilding trust after it has been broken? Is it like trying to fix a vase, or more like starting fresh with clay?
5. What’s one trust-building technique you’ve found effective, whether it’s in friendships, family, or romantic relationships?
6. Do you think trust is built faster with humor? Have you ever laughed your way into someone’s heart?
7. What’s your trust “deal-breaker”? (You know, those things that make you say, “Nope, I’m out!”)
8. How does social media influence your perception of trust in relationships? Is it a helpful tool or a trust-destroyer?
9. Have you ever had a situation where you had to trust your gut over what someone was saying? What happened?
10. What advice would you give to someone who is struggling to trust others due to past experiences? (And yes, it can include “Watch more rom-coms” if you want!)