What we’re about
Remake The Rules is a space for thoughtful people navigating modern decision-making in a world full of noise, tools, systems, and overwhelm. Led by Emily Pabst, ChoiceTech Consultant and Coach, these gatherings explore how we make decisions—big and small—when we’re inundated with input, options, and outdated advice.
This space is for slowing down, thinking clearly, and exploring new ways forward.
If you're:
-Tired of burnout cycles and app fatigue
-Stuck between too many options and not enough movement
-Doing everything "right" but still feeling off
-Curious about decision-making, tech design, or systemic pressure
…you’ll feel at home here.
We cover topics like choicetech, decision fatigue, app dysfunction, information overwhelm, choice overload, hybrid human-tech systems, choice inflation, and more—through real talk and simple frameworks that meet you where you are.
Learn more at remaketherules.com.
Upcoming events (3)
See all- Pre-Apocalyptic Optimism: Dating Apps and the Search for Something RealEdgewater Public Market , Edgewater, CO
Why do we keep swiping—even when it feels pointless?
Why do we reinstall the apps—even after swearing them off?
Why do so many of us keep trying—in a system that rarely seems to work?This isn’t a doomscrolling session.
It’s a compassionate look at what modern dating apps represent: a strange blend of technological promise, emotional exhaustion, and quiet hope.Led by Emily Pabst, strategist and founder of Remake The Rules, this talk explores:
- Why dating apps feel both addictive and defeating
- How default thinking and false signals shape our swiping
- What this persistence says about our deeper desires—and how to honor them differently
We’ll also dig into ChoiceTech (technology that structures human decision-making) and the growing impact of choice inflation—how having more options can lead to more doubt, not more satisfaction.
If you're caught between disillusionment and optimism, come sit with that tension—and leave with a smarter lens and a more human approach to trying again.
- What Is This World? A Social for Optimistic Overthinkers & Burned-Out IdealistsEdgewater Public Market, Edgewater, CO
Come meet your fellow modern humans—people who are doing their best to navigate decision-making and digital life without losing their minds.
This isn’t a pitch, a panel, or a performance. It’s a chill, curiosity-friendly meetup for anyone who’s:
- Tired of swiping but still hopeful
- Running a business or a life while drowning in options
- Wondering if anyone else is this overwhelmed by apps, advice, and expectations
Hosted by Emily Pabst, ChoiceTech Consultant and founder of Remake The Rules, this gathering is designed for thoughtful people who want deeper conversations, sharper insights, and a new kind of connection.
There’ll be structure (light prompts to guide conversation) but zero pressure. Come solo or with friends. Leave feeling less alone—and maybe a little more clear.
Ideal for:
Online daters, entrepreneurs, burnt-out creatives, systems thinkers, recovering perfectionists, and curious humans in the messy middle of life
