About us
Welcome to RGV Singles Circle – a part of The Dating Doc family!
We’re not your typical singles group.
RGV Singles Circle is for local singles who are tired of swiping and ready for something real — or at least something fun. From speed dating and wine mixers to pub runs and social mixers, we curate events that bring good people together without the pressure.
Whether you're in McAllen, Harlingen, Brownsville, or somewhere in between, this group is your passport to meeting other like-minded, quality singles in the Rio Grande Valley.
✅ Real connections
✅ Laid-back, well-hosted events
✅ No cringe, just chemistry
So if you’re down for a laugh, a drink, and maybe even meeting someone special — this is your circle. Let’s make dating fun again.
Join us and come to our next event!
Upcoming events
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RGV Upscale Speed Dating (Ages: Late 20s-Early 40s)
Luma Cocktail Lounge, 7001 N. 10th Street Suite C, McAllen, TX, USJoin The Dating Doc for an amazing night where you can make a lifelong connection or meet someone special in the 956!
Price: $22-32
Grab Ticket Here --> https://bit.ly/451vbli$22 EARLY BIRD SPECIAL – Secure your discounted ticket by July 23rd. Availability limited to the first 5 men and 5 women.
Our last event completely sold out - it takes YOU to make it an event so grab your ticket ASAP!
🥂 All attendees receive their first glass of red wine, white wine, or champagne for FREE! 🥂
✨ Join us for the Most Attended, Balanced, and Top-Ranked Speed Dating in McAllen!🕴️👗 This Upscale Speed Dating night is designed to create a sophisticated yet relaxed ambiance—perfect for making genuine connections. To keep the atmosphere elegant, a dress code is required (see attire guidelines below).
📍 Luma Cocktail Lounge x The Dating Doc
7001 N 10th St Suite C, McAllen, TX 78504
🗓 Thursday, August 6, 2026
⏰ 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm💘 How It Works:
- Arrive by 6:30 pm for check-in and seating.
- At 7:00 pm sharp, speed dating begins! Rotate through mini 5-minute dates, with breaks to jot down your matches.
- After rounds are complete, mingle and enjoy the ambiance.
- Matches will be emailed to you within 72 hours by The Dating Doc team.
- We end the night with a quick event raffle where winners receive free promo codes for upcoming events. Loyalty pays — past attendees who believe in our Vibe Tribe will receive extra raffle tickets at the door to boost their chances of winning. 🎟️✨
👔 Attire (Required)
Gentlemen: Long-sleeved shirts, blazers, ties encouraged.
Ladies: Dresses, skirts, blouses, or elegant tops.🚫 Guests not adhering to the dress code may be asked to adjust before entry and/or banned from future events.
🌟 Why Join?
Forget swiping apps—this is real connection, face-to-face. Speed Dating promotes healthy communication, confidence, and fun. Many of our guests leave feeling energized, and some even find lasting connections.
💬 “This was so much more organized than the other company that does Speed Dating!”
💬 “I’ve been hanging out with one of my matches for weeks now.”📩 Questions? Contact us: admin@thedatingdoc.com
📱 Text/Call: (210) 701-07454 attendees
Conexión RGV Upscale Singles Mixer (Ages: 25+)
Bond Cocktail Lounge, 1200 Auburn Avenue #Suite 220, McAllen, TX, USCome join us for a smooth event like no other where you get to connect, network, and maybe even flirt with quality singles in the RGV.
Conexión RGV’s Premier Social Connection + Networking Experience for Singles
Event Details
Date: Friday, August 21st
Time: 7:00–9:00 PM
Location: Bond Cocktail Lounge, McAllenAdmission
Get your ticket here ➡️ https://bit.ly/4ffuk5e
Age Group: Tickets split between Mid 20s-Young 40s and 40s-50s.
Gentlemen - $25
Ladies - $20Early Bird Special: Men & Women save money on limited discounted tickets - head to ticket purchase to learn more!
Ladies’ 2-for-1 Special: Bring your wingwoman and receive two tickets for the price of one.Welcome to Conexión!
Conexión a stylish social experience created to bring the Rio Grande Valley’s most eligible, accomplished, and quality singles together in one sophisticated space.You do not have to be actively seeking a relationship to attend—but you do have to be connection-ready!
Whether you are open to romance, expanding your social circle, making professional connections, or simply enjoying an elevated night out, Conexión gives you the opportunity to meet interesting people naturally—without the pressure of traditional speed dating or the frustration of dating apps.
This is where RGV singles come to be seen, socialize, and connect.
An Elevated Way to Connect
Conexión is a free-flowing social and networking experience where guests can mingle one-on-one, join group conversations, and allow connections to develop organically.
The Dating Doc team will be present throughout the evening to facilitate introductions and help create meaningful matches. Should someone catch your attention, do not hesitate to let our staff know—we are here to make connections happen.
Guests will also experience one of our signature interactive elements:
21 Questions
Our original 21 Questions experience adds intrigue, personality, and playful conversation to the evening—helping guests move beyond ordinary small talk and discover genuine chemistry.
Conexión is **not speed dating**. There are no timers, forced rotations, or rushed conversations. Move at your own pace, enjoy the atmosphere, and connect with the people who naturally capture your interest.
Dress to Make an Impression
The recommended attire is upscale dressy casual or cocktail chic.Collared shirts, fitted slacks, blazers, stylish dresses, elevated separates, and fashionable evening looks are encouraged. Guests are free to express their personal style, but we ask that everyone reflect the sophisticated ambiance and intention of the event.
First impressions matter!Why Conexión?
Modern dating has become increasingly disconnected. Endless swiping, changing relationship expectations, and overreliance on technology have made authentic introductions more difficult.
Conexión brings people back into the same room.
Our events promote healthy communication, social confidence, genuine chemistry, and the opportunity to build relationships that begin with an actual conversation—not a profile or algorithm.
Come alone, bring a friend, or arrive with your favorite wingwoman or wingman. Grab a cocktail, make eye contact, start a conversation, and remain open to where the evening may lead.
Again, you do not have to be seeking—but you must be connection-ready!
Why Should You Try It:
Modern dating is increasingly becoming difficult due to our dependence on technology, changing behavior norms, and the evolution of defining relationships. Singles mixers are engaging events where you can meet many people in a condensed and organized fashion that leads to a better connection than swiping apps. It promotes healthy communication, social fitness, and improves overall mental health.Though many may see it initially as a huge social undertaking, virtually all in attendance have reported feeling rejuvenated and energized from participating. Have doubts or questions? Feel free to reach us at admin@thedatingdoc.com or text/call (210) 701-0745.
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