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This group serves all those in Sacramento County and beyond who practice or are curious about Consensual Non-Monogamy.

Our events are Safe Spaces and welcome to newbies, first-timers, questioners, intrinsic polys, those who've been "in it a while", and all levels of experience or lack thereof. All forms of Consensual Non-Monogamy, all ages 18+, orientations, gender identities and expressions, ethnicities, abilities and neurodivergences, non and religious beliefs and philosophies, politics, body sizes, shapes, and modifications are welcome, heard, given voice, and made space for. Monogamous partners of Non-Monogamous persons are more than welcome.

"Cowboying" is not welcome and will result in a ban.
Cruising for that night's "hook-up" or "play" is not welcome and will result in a ban.
Hate and bigotry will be addressed and individual educated. Refusal to self-correct and brazen direct attacks will result in a ban.
Breaking or not asking for Consent will be addressed and individual educated. Refusal to self-correct or brazen invasion of physical space will result in a ban.

Rules:

  1. Respect individual journeys and do not gatekeep.
  2. No cowboying and no Cruising.
  3. Consent Is Everything Always and must be sought before action is taken. (Example: YES - "May I give you a hug?" NO - "I'm a hugger, bring it in!"

Consent is defined by the F.R.I.E.S. acronym:

  • Freely Given
  • Reversible
  • Informed
  • Enthusiastic
  • Specific

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