About us
This group serves all those in Sacramento County and beyond who practice or are curious about Consensual Non-Monogamy.
Rules (Updated May 7)
1. Consent is Required, Always, All Ways, Ad Nauseum.
2. This group operates on the principle of ongoing and active consent. Before attempting DMs or physically touching another unfamiliar member of this community, enthusiastic and direct consent is required. This group follows the "F.R.I.E.S" model for consent.
3. All involved in consent agreements have freedom in their choices, words, tone, with involved parties within their consent individual consent agreements
4. Violators of consent agreements, rules, and boundaries will incur: correction,
time out, muting, guidance, ignoring, and whatever is needed to deescalate the situation and keep everyone in the community safe and feeling safe and good.
5. All events are Safe Spaces for all Consensually non-monogamous and polyamorous individuals and their chosen families and/or support people.
6. People within this group do pursue various relationships of various structures and orientations. This is encouraged. However, our spaces/events are not yet explicitly a "dating" Spaces. Dates are encouraged! Do NOT attend an event with the sole intention of a hook-up or connection. These are community spaces first.
7. This group IS a Community and Education-purposed group that welcomes: sharing, promoting, and making invitations with engaging topics that posters are passionate about & are safe, vulnerable, and good for Every CNM member.
8. Promotion/Intros: Are encouraged from all parties, events, spaces, groups, and individuals. @Admin requests you make this request to an Admin BEFORE advertising.
9. Polywog and family friendly events will be explicitly as such. Otherwise, events are strictly 18+ spaces.
10. Hate and Bigotry and unsafe actions are not welcome or tolerated in our Events and soaces.
11. TW/CW are required where appropriate. The Community will take action regarding triggers and support each other.
12. Believe Women.
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Upcoming events
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CA Freethought Day - Info Booth
California State Capitol, Sacramento, CA 95814, Sacramento, Ca, USI could really use volunteers for this event to help set up, tear down, and man the table! This is an advertising event for us where we get to share with a large community that we are here and hold in-person community events! I'll be at the booth from set up at 10am to tear down at 5:30 until we're all packed up!
Please reach out to me if you can help out! This is a fantastic event with a lot of great people, vendors, and entertainment!***
California Freethought Day combines the fun and atmosphere of a fair with the education and activism of a conference. It's a festival of freethought.
Our theme this year is “In Facts We Trust: Misinformation and Media Literacy” as we highlight the vital role that reliable information, critical thinking, and media literacy play in a healthy, democratic society.
🎤 Speakers, Live Entertainment, and More
Our 25th year features the following speakers, entertainers, podcasters, authors, and more:- Jonathan Lopez as "Hellen Heels"
- Alex Lee, California State Assemblymember
- Candi Carpenter, Musical Artist
- Austin Archer, Comedian and Actor
- And much more!
🎟 Free Registration
Registration is free, supported by donations and sponsorships. To officially register, click here:
https://givebutter.com/CFD20265 attendees
Call for Advocacy for Ordinance
·OnlineOnlineJoin us to get in on the conversation around passing an Ordinance for protecting Relationship Structure as a protected class.
Join in on the movement that has caused ordinances to be passed in Berkley, Oakland, Olympia, Portland and more!
We will be joining and working close with a representative from OPEN (Non-profit Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Non-Monogamy) on a video call to discuss what needs to be done.
https://meet.google.com/ajy-cvex-fed
Our Goal: Get a discrimination protection ordinance passed in Sacramento and Stockton!
You can help on the ground or from home!
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Past events
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