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Speed Dating Events for Lesbian/Bi/Trans Singles and Poly, Kinky, and Queer People of all types

šŸ’ž If you’re frustrated with dating apps and are looking to meet real people in real-time, then speed dating events with Litte Gay Book are for you!

Whether you meet up with us at one of our In-Person events or join us in our Zoom Room for one of our online events we get you face-to-face with like-minded individuals for real conversations, real connections, and real 2nd dates.

Everyone who attends is looking to connect, and there’s the potential for lots of fun, great conversations, date and friend matches. Come check one out!

Lesbian/Bi/Trans Speed Dating events are open to all lesbian, bisexual, nonbinary, and genderqueer folks. They are a trans-welcoming space, and intolerance will not be permitted. No cis-men, please.

Our Poly, Kinky, and Queer events are open to people of all genders and all sexualities.

How Speed Dating works:

You’ll need a smartphone to share what type of matches you’re interested in and for leaving your feedback. Our simple smartphone technology allows us to tailor the event to the age and ā€œtypeā€ of person you’d like to meet. You tell us where your preferred date lies on the masculine-feminine spectrum, along with their age range. The algorithm determines the best matches possible, allowing for a more tailored experience than random, public speed dating.

For Online Speed Dating you’ll meet your matches in intimate break-out rooms, so you’ll need a separate device with the Zoom app. In-Person events are hosted at our favorite neighborhood bars and restaurants.

After getting to know each other during five-minute rounds you’ll use our matching technology to privately share whether you think they’re second date material, a new friend, or a business connection. The next day you’ll receive the contact info of anyone you matched with.

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  • Network event
    $15.00
    West Coast Came Out Later In Life Lesbian/Bi/Trans/Queer Online Speed Dating
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    Online

    West Coast Came Out Later In Life Lesbian/Bi/Trans/Queer Online Speed Dating

    Online
    42 attendees from 6 groups

    Fun, easy, intentional. Online Speed Dating for Lesbian/Bi/Trans/Queer Singles. Real conversations, genuine connections, all from home.

    Tired of endless swiping and ghosting? Craving real conversations and genuine connections? Little Gay Book, the nation’s leading LGBTQ+ matchmaking agency, invites you to an online speed dating event specifically designed just for Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer singles.

    This virtual event combines real-time video interactions with algorithm-driven matching technology, making every connection intentional, personalized, and meaningful.

    šŸŽŸ TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    At West Coast Came Out Later In Life Lesbian/Bi/Trans/Queer Online Speed Dating, you’ll enjoy:
    ♄ Private 5-minute dates in Zoom Breakout Rooms.
    ♄ Algorithm-driven smart matches powered by Dr. Frankie’s 20+ years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking experience.
    ♄ Group mingling between dates to keep the energy high and meet even more people.

    Whether you’re looking for romance, friendship, or just a fun evening with great company, this online speed dating event is your chance to connect with like-minded folks in a safe, structured environment.

    ā° Event Timing for West Coast Came Out Later In Life Lesbian/Bi/Trans/Queer Online Speed Dating:
    Join us on November 5th from 6:00 - 8:00 PM PDT.
    Check-in opens: 5:30 PM PDT
    Check-in closes: 5:55 PM PDT
    Event begins: 6:00 PM PDT sharp

    We encourage arriving early to ensure your technology is working and you don't miss your matches. Please note: late arrivals will not be able to participate.

    Ticket prices increase as the event date approaches.
    Buy your ticket now to lock in the lowest price and guarantee your spot. Join us for fun, easy, intentional online speed dating that actually works. Your next connection is just a click away. Buy now before prices go up!

    šŸŽŸ TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    Frequently Asked Questions
    Q: Why Choose Our Online Speed Dating for Lesbian, Bisexual, Trans, and Queer Singles?
    A: In a world dominated by passive scrolling and endless texting, we make online LGBTQ+ dating intentional again. Meet real people, have real conversations, and build authentic connections. Our events are designed to maximize compatibility, engagement, and second-date potential.

    Q: How does the matching work?
    A: Our speed dating software considers your preferences on age range and where your ideal match falls on the masculine–feminine spectrum, to pair you with individuals most compatible with you. Unlike random pairings or app-based swiping, our algorithm makes dating intentional and personalized. By pairing you based on real preferences and compatibility, the result is more engaging conversations, better connections, and a higher likelihood of second dates.

    Q: How do I follow up with my matches?
    A: After the event, you’ll receive contact details for your matches so you can keep the conversation going.

    Q: Who can attend this Lesbian/Bi/Trans/Queer Speed Dating Event?
    A: Our events are open to Lesbian, Bisexual, Nonbinary, and Gender Queer folks. These events are proudly trans-welcoming, and intolerance is never permitted.

    Q: How do I secure my spot?
    A: Tickets are limited and prices increase as the event date approaches. Buy now to lock in the lowest price!

    Q: Where can I find more LGBTQ events?
    Visit our website to view our upcoming speed dating events:
    https://littlegaybook.com/speed-dating-events

    RSVP'ing for this event on Meetup will NOT reserve a spot for you at this event. You will need to register by clicking the link above to purchase a ticket. Following your ticket purchase, you will receive an email from Eventbrite with your Zoom link to attend the event. See you there!šŸ’•

    šŸ’• PS - The number of RSVPs on Meet Up does NOT indicate the number of people attending the event. We promote our events on many channels, not just this Meet Up Group.

    By RSVPing to this event, you consent to being added to the Little Gay Book email list. This allows us to send you important updates about this event and future communications about related events and services. We take your privacy seriously and will handle your information with care in accordance with our privacy policy. You are free to unsubscribe at any time.

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    6 attendees from this group
  • Network event
    $15.00
    San Diego Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer Speed Dating

    San Diego Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer Speed Dating

    Cork & Stem, 1035 University Ave, San Diego, CA, US
    21 attendees from 3 groups

    Join our San Diego Speed Dating event and meet Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer singles for authentic conversation and fun connections!

    San Diego! Tired of endless swiping and ghosting? Craving real conversations and genuine connections? Little Gay Book, the nation’s leading LGBTQ+ matchmaking agency, invites you to a speed dating event specifically designed just for Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer singles.

    Event Timing for San Diego Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer Speed Dating:
    Join us on November 6th from 6:00 - 8:00pm PDT.
    Check-in begins at 5:30 PM PDT
    Please arrive no later than 5:55 PM PDT
    The event will start promptly at 6:00 PM PDT
    (Late arrivals will not be permitted to participate in speed dating).

    šŸŽŸ TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    Venue:
    Cork & Stem
    1035 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103

    🌈 Immerse Yourself in an Unforgettable Experience:
    Imagine an evening where meeting incredible people is effortless and exhilarating. Our Personalized Speed Dating event uses cutting-edge technology to match you with potential connections. Say goodbye to the ordinary and hello to the extraordinary!

    What Awaits You:

    • A dynamic event filled with laughter, smiles, and captivating conversations.
    • Smartphone magic that tailors each match to your preferences, so you can focus on the fun.
    • The thrill continues after the event - you'll receive contact info for your promising matches, ensuring meaningful connections!

    šŸ„‚ Two drink minimum required
    Don't miss this extraordinary opportunity to forge connections with the vibrant queer community who share your passions. Act quickly before the remaining spots disappear.

    šŸ‘‡ Q: How the matching technology works:
    Our innovative technology, created by Dr. Frankie’s 20+ years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking success, allows you to tailor your event experience. You share your preferences, including age range and where your preferred date falls on the masculine-feminine spectrum. Our algorithm then matches you with like-minded individuals, ensuring a more personalized experience compared to random, public speed dating.

    During the event, you'll engage in exhilarating 5-minute rounds of conversation with potential matches. After each interaction, you can provide valuable feedback on your date, indicating whether they are a friend, a potential for a second date, a valuable business connection, or if there was no immediate connection. Our proprietary smartphone speed-matching technology ensures that your preferences and feedback are carefully considered.

    šŸ“² Connect with Your Matches:
    The excitement doesn't end when the event does! The next day, you'll receive the contact information for your matches, allowing you to take those promising connections to the next level. Whether you find an amazing date match or establish new friendships, this is your chance to forge meaningful connections with others who are also seeking to connect.

    Don't miss out on this fantastic opportunity to meet incredible individuals who share your interests and aspirations. Join us for an evening filled with excitement, laughter, and the potential for meaningful connections. We can't wait to see you there!

    šŸŽŸ TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    If you have any questions or need further assistance, please don't hesitate to reach out to our friendly team at events@littlegaybook.com or (510) 254-9105

    šŸ’• PS - The number of RSVPs on Meet Up does NOT indicate the number of people attending the event. We promote our events on many channels, not just this Meet Up Group.

    RSVP'ing for this event on Meetup will NOT reserve a spot for you at this event. You will need to register by clicking here to purchase a ticket on Eventbrite.

    By RSVPing to this event, you consent to being added to the Little Gay Book email list. This allows us to send you important updates about this event and future communications about related events and services. We take your privacy seriously and will handle your information with care in accordance with our privacy policy. You are free to unsubscribe at any time.

    šŸ’• Visit our website to view our upcoming speed dating events:
    https://littlegaybook.com/speed-dating-events

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    9 attendees from this group
  • Network event
    $15.00
    West Coast Career Minded Lesbian/Bi/Trans/Queer Online Speed Dating
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    Online

    West Coast Career Minded Lesbian/Bi/Trans/Queer Online Speed Dating

    Online
    37 attendees from 6 groups

    Fun, easy, intentional. Online Speed Dating for Lesbian/Bi/Trans/Queer Singles. Real conversations, genuine connections, all from home.

    Tired of endless swiping and ghosting? Craving real conversations and genuine connections? Little Gay Book, the nation’s leading LGBTQ+ matchmaking agency, invites you to an online speed dating event specifically designed just for Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer singles.

    This virtual event combines real-time video interactions with algorithm-driven matching technology, making every connection intentional, personalized, and meaningful.

    šŸŽŸ TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    At West Coast Career Minded Lesbian/Bi/Trans/Queer Online Speed Dating, you’ll enjoy:
    ♄ Private 5-minute dates in Zoom Breakout Rooms.
    ♄ Algorithm-driven smart matches powered by Dr. Frankie’s 20+ years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking experience.
    ♄ Group mingling between dates to keep the energy high and meet even more people.

    Whether you’re looking for romance, friendship, or just a fun evening with great company, this online speed dating event is your chance to connect with like-minded folks in a safe, structured environment.

    ā° Event Timing for West Coast Career Minded Lesbian/Bi/Trans/Queer Online Speed Dating:
    Join us on November 12th from 6:00 - 8:00 PM PDT.
    Check-in opens: 5:30 PM PDT
    Check-in closes: 5:55 PM PDT
    Event begins: 6:00 PM PDT sharp

    We encourage arriving early to ensure your technology is working and you don't miss your matches. Please note: late arrivals will not be able to participate.

    Ticket prices increase as the event date approaches.
    Buy your ticket now to lock in the lowest price and guarantee your spot. Join us for fun, easy, intentional online speed dating that actually works. Your next connection is just a click away. Buy now before prices go up!

    šŸŽŸ TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    Frequently Asked Questions
    Q: Why Choose Our Online Speed Dating for Lesbian, Bisexual, Trans, and Queer Singles?
    A: In a world dominated by passive scrolling and endless texting, we make online LGBTQ+ dating intentional again. Meet real people, have real conversations, and build authentic connections. Our events are designed to maximize compatibility, engagement, and second-date potential.

    Q: How does the matching work?
    A: Our speed dating software considers your preferences on age range and where your ideal match falls on the masculine–feminine spectrum, to pair you with individuals most compatible with you. Unlike random pairings or app-based swiping, our algorithm makes dating intentional and personalized. By pairing you based on real preferences and compatibility, the result is more engaging conversations, better connections, and a higher likelihood of second dates.

    Q: How do I follow up with my matches?
    A: After the event, you’ll receive contact details for your matches so you can keep the conversation going.

    Q: Who can attend this Lesbian/Bi/Trans/Queer Speed Dating Event?
    A: Our events are open to Lesbian, Bisexual, Nonbinary, and Gender Queer folks. These events are proudly trans-welcoming, and intolerance is never permitted.

    Q: How do I secure my spot?
    A: Tickets are limited and prices increase as the event date approaches. Buy now to lock in the lowest price!

    Q: Where can I find more LGBTQ events?
    Visit our website to view our upcoming speed dating events:
    https://littlegaybook.com/speed-dating-events

    RSVP'ing for this event on Meetup will NOT reserve a spot for you at this event. You will need to register by clicking the link above to purchase a ticket. Following your ticket purchase, you will receive an email from Eventbrite with your Zoom link to attend the event. See you there!šŸ’•

    šŸ’• PS - The number of RSVPs on Meet Up does NOT indicate the number of people attending the event. We promote our events on many channels, not just this Meet Up Group.

    By RSVPing to this event, you consent to being added to the Little Gay Book email list. This allows us to send you important updates about this event and future communications about related events and services. We take your privacy seriously and will handle your information with care in accordance with our privacy policy. You are free to unsubscribe at any time.

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    6 attendees from this group
  • Network event
    $15.00
    West Coast Butch seeking Femme Lesbian/Bi/Trans/Queer Online Speed Dating
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    Online

    West Coast Butch seeking Femme Lesbian/Bi/Trans/Queer Online Speed Dating

    Online
    39 attendees from 6 groups

    Fun, easy, intentional. Online Speed Dating for Lesbian/Bi/Trans/Queer Singles. Real conversations, genuine connections, all from home.

    Tired of endless swiping and ghosting? Craving real conversations and genuine connections? Little Gay Book, the nation’s leading LGBTQ+ matchmaking agency, invites you to an online speed dating event specifically designed just for Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer singles.

    This virtual event combines real-time video interactions with algorithm-driven matching technology, making every connection intentional, personalized, and meaningful.

    šŸŽŸ TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    At West Coast Butch seeking Femme Lesbian/Bi/Trans/Queer Online Speed Dating, you’ll enjoy:
    ♄ Private 5-minute dates in Zoom Breakout Rooms.
    ♄ Algorithm-driven smart matches powered by Dr. Frankie’s 20+ years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking experience.
    ♄ Group mingling between dates to keep the energy high and meet even more people.

    Whether you’re looking for romance, friendship, or just a fun evening with great company, this online speed dating event is your chance to connect with like-minded folks in a safe, structured environment.

    ā° Event Timing for West Coast Butch seeking Femme Lesbian/Bi/Trans/Queer Online Speed Dating:
    Join us on November 21st from 6:00 - 8:00 PM PDT.
    Check-in opens: 5:30 PM PDT
    Check-in closes: 5:55 PM PDT
    Event begins: 6:00 PM PDT sharp

    We encourage arriving early to ensure your technology is working and you don't miss your matches. Please note: late arrivals will not be able to participate.

    Ticket prices increase as the event date approaches.
    Buy your ticket now to lock in the lowest price and guarantee your spot. Join us for fun, easy, intentional online speed dating that actually works. Your next connection is just a click away. Buy now before prices go up!

    šŸŽŸ TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    Frequently Asked Questions
    Q: Why Choose Our Online Speed Dating for Lesbian, Bisexual, Trans, and Queer Singles?
    A: In a world dominated by passive scrolling and endless texting, we make online LGBTQ+ dating intentional again. Meet real people, have real conversations, and build authentic connections. Our events are designed to maximize compatibility, engagement, and second-date potential.

    Q: How does the matching work?
    A: Our speed dating software considers your preferences on age range and where your ideal match falls on the masculine–feminine spectrum, to pair you with individuals most compatible with you. Unlike random pairings or app-based swiping, our algorithm makes dating intentional and personalized. By pairing you based on real preferences and compatibility, the result is more engaging conversations, better connections, and a higher likelihood of second dates.

    Q: How do I follow up with my matches?
    A: After the event, you’ll receive contact details for your matches so you can keep the conversation going.

    Q: Who can attend this Lesbian/Bi/Trans/Queer Speed Dating Event?
    A: Our events are open to Lesbian, Bisexual, Nonbinary, and Gender Queer folks. These events are proudly trans-welcoming, and intolerance is never permitted.

    Q: How do I secure my spot?
    A: Tickets are limited and prices increase as the event date approaches. Buy now to lock in the lowest price!

    Q: Where can I find more LGBTQ events?
    Visit our website to view our upcoming speed dating events:
    https://littlegaybook.com/speed-dating-events

    RSVP'ing for this event on Meetup will NOT reserve a spot for you at this event. You will need to register by clicking the link above to purchase a ticket. Following your ticket purchase, you will receive an email from Eventbrite with your Zoom link to attend the event. See you there!šŸ’•

    šŸ’• PS - The number of RSVPs on Meet Up does NOT indicate the number of people attending the event. We promote our events on many channels, not just this Meet Up Group.

    By RSVPing to this event, you consent to being added to the Little Gay Book email list. This allows us to send you important updates about this event and future communications about related events and services. We take your privacy seriously and will handle your information with care in accordance with our privacy policy. You are free to unsubscribe at any time.

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    6 attendees from this group

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