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## Little Gay Book Speed Dating for Real Connections

Ready to meet real LGBTQ+ people without swiping your life away?
Little Gay Book hosts in-person and online speed dating events for LGBTQ+ singles who want actual conversations, a little chemistry, and the chance to see if something clicks. It is friendly, low-pressure, and way more fun than another night on the apps.

## Why People Love Our Speed Dating Events

We design these events to feel easy, welcoming, and genuinely enjoyable.

When you come, you can expect:
• Conversations with LGBTQ+ singles who are actually open to connecting
• A clear, relaxed structure so you never wonder what to do next
• The chance to meet several potential matches in one night
• A warm, inclusive vibe hosted by a friendly Little Gay Book staff member
• A crowd that shows up with curiosity and good intentions
Whether you are newly single, newly out, or just ready to shake things up a bit, you belong here.

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## How Speed Dating With Little Gay Book Works

### In-Person Events

We host at favorite neighborhood bars and restaurants, the kind of places where it is easy to relax and talk. You will meet your matches face to face in short, timed conversations, with plenty of guidance along the way.

### Online Events

Our online events happen on Zoom using private breakout rooms. You will meet matches one-on-one from the comfort of home.

No matter the format, everything is hosted, explained, and thoughtfully paced so you can focus on the conversation, not the logistics.

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## About our Speed Match Technology

Before the event, you will use your smartphone to tell us:
• Your preferred age range
• Where your preferred matches fall on the masculine-feminine spectrum

This helps us make more intentional pairings than random speed dating.
During the event, you will have a series of five-minute conversations.
After each round, you can privately note whether you see that person as:
• Someone you would like to go on a second date with
• A potential new friend
• A possible business connection

The next day, we send you the contact info for anyone you mutually matched with. Easy, respectful, and no awkward follow-ups required.
For online events, you will need Zoom for the conversations and a smartphone for matching and feedback.

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## Who These Events Are For

These events are a great fit if:
• Dating apps are exhausting or just not your thing
• You enjoy real conversation more than endless messaging
• You want structure without pressure
• You are open to connection in whatever form it takes
Everyone who attends is there because they want to meet people. That shared intention is what makes the event work.

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  • Network event
    $15.00
    40s & 50s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating

    40s & 50s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating

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    Online
    Online
    40 attendees from 23 groups

    Fun, easy, intentional. Online Speed Dating for Lesbian, Bi, Trans, Queer+ Singles. Real conversations, genuine connections, all from home.

    Tired of endless swiping and ghosting? Craving real conversations and genuine connections? Little Gay Book, the nation’s leading LGBTQ+ matchmaking agency, invites you to an online speed dating event specifically designed just for Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer+ singles.

    This virtual event combines real-time video interactions with algorithm-driven matching technology, making every connection intentional, personalized, and meaningful.

    🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    At 40s & 50s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating, you’ll enjoy:
    ♥ Private 5-minute dates in Zoom Breakout Rooms.
    ♥ Algorithm-driven smart matches powered by Dr. Frankie’s 20+ years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking experience.
    ♥ Group mingling between dates to keep the energy high and meet even more people.

    Whether you’re looking for romance, friendship, or just a fun evening with great company, this online speed dating event is your chance to connect with like-minded folks in a safe, structured environment.

    ⏰ Event Timing for 40s & 50s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating:
    Join us on April 23rd from 5:00 to 7:00 PM PT
    Check-in opens: 4:30 PM PT
    Check-in closes: 4:55 PM PT
    Event begins: 5:00 PM PT sharp

    We encourage arriving early to ensure your technology is working and you don't miss your matches. Please note: late arrivals will not be able to participate.

    Ticket prices increase as the event date approaches.
    Buy your ticket now to lock in the lowest price and guarantee your spot. Join us for fun, easy, intentional online speed dating that actually works. Your next connection is just a click away. Buy now before prices go up!

    🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    Frequently Asked Questions
    Q: Why Choose Our Online Speed Dating for Lesbian, Bisexual, Trans, and Queer Singles?
    A: In a world dominated by passive scrolling and endless texting, we make online LGBTQ+ dating intentional again. Meet real people, have real conversations, and build authentic connections. Our events are designed to maximize compatibility, engagement, and second-date potential.

    Q: How does the matching work?
    A: Our speed dating software considers your preferences on age range and where your ideal match falls on the masculine–feminine spectrum, to pair you with individuals most compatible with you. Unlike random pairings or app-based swiping, our algorithm makes dating intentional and personalized. By pairing you based on real preferences and compatibility, the result is more engaging conversations, better connections, and a higher likelihood of second dates.

    Q: How do I follow up with my matches?
    A: After the event, you’ll receive contact details for your matches so you can keep the conversation going.

    Q: Who can attend this Lesbian/Bi/Trans/Queer Speed Dating Event?
    A: Our events are open to Lesbian, Bisexual, Nonbinary, and Gender Queer folks. These events are proudly trans-welcoming, and intolerance is never permitted.

    Q: How do I secure my spot?
    A: Tickets are limited and prices increase as the event date approaches. Buy now to lock in the lowest price!

    Q: Where can I find more LGBTQ events?
    Visit our website to view our upcoming speed dating events:
    https://littlegaybook.com/speed-dating-event-lbtq/

    RSVP'ing for this event on Meetup will NOT reserve a spot for you at this event. You will need to register by clicking the link above to purchase a ticket. Following your ticket purchase, you will receive an email from Eventbrite with your Zoom link to attend the event. See you there!💕

    💕 PS - The number of RSVPs on Meet Up does NOT indicate the number of people attending the event. We promote our events on many channels, not just this Meet Up Group.

    By RSVPing to this event, you consent to being added to the Little Gay Book email list. This allows us to send you important updates about this event and future communications about related events and services. We take your privacy seriously and will handle your information with care in accordance with our privacy policy. You are free to unsubscribe at any time.

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    1 attendee from this group
  • Network event
    $15.00
    30s & 40s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating

    30s & 40s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating

    ·
    Online
    Online
    35 attendees from 23 groups

    Fun, easy, intentional. Online Speed Dating for Lesbian, Bi, Trans, Queer+ Singles. Real conversations, genuine connections, all from home.

    Tired of endless swiping and ghosting? Craving real conversations and genuine connections? Little Gay Book, the nation’s leading LGBTQ+ matchmaking agency, invites you to an online speed dating event specifically designed just for Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer+ singles.

    This virtual event combines real-time video interactions with algorithm-driven matching technology, making every connection intentional, personalized, and meaningful.

    🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    At 30s & 40s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating, you’ll enjoy:
    ♥ Private 5-minute dates in Zoom Breakout Rooms.
    ♥ Algorithm-driven smart matches powered by Dr. Frankie’s 20+ years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking experience.
    ♥ Group mingling between dates to keep the energy high and meet even more people.

    Whether you’re looking for romance, friendship, or just a fun evening with great company, this online speed dating event is your chance to connect with like-minded folks in a safe, structured environment.

    ⏰ Event Timing for 30s & 40s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating:
    Join us on April 29th from 5:00 to 7:00PM PT
    Check-in opens: 4:30 PM PT
    Check-in closes: 4:55 PM PT
    Event begins: 5:00 PM PT sharp

    We encourage arriving early to ensure your technology is working and you don't miss your matches. Please note: late arrivals will not be able to participate.

    Ticket prices increase as the event date approaches.
    Buy your ticket now to lock in the lowest price and guarantee your spot. Join us for fun, easy, intentional online speed dating that actually works. Your next connection is just a click away. Buy now before prices go up!

    🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    Frequently Asked Questions
    Q: Why Choose Our Online Speed Dating for Lesbian, Bisexual, Trans, and Queer Singles?
    A: In a world dominated by passive scrolling and endless texting, we make online LGBTQ+ dating intentional again. Meet real people, have real conversations, and build authentic connections. Our events are designed to maximize compatibility, engagement, and second-date potential.

    Q: How does the matching work?
    A: Our speed dating software considers your preferences on age range and where your ideal match falls on the masculine–feminine spectrum, to pair you with individuals most compatible with you. Unlike random pairings or app-based swiping, our algorithm makes dating intentional and personalized. By pairing you based on real preferences and compatibility, the result is more engaging conversations, better connections, and a higher likelihood of second dates.

    Q: How do I follow up with my matches?
    A: After the event, you’ll receive contact details for your matches so you can keep the conversation going.

    Q: Who can attend this Lesbian/Bi/Trans/Queer Speed Dating Event?
    A: Our events are open to Lesbian, Bisexual, Nonbinary, and Gender Queer folks. These events are proudly trans-welcoming, and intolerance is never permitted.

    Q: How do I secure my spot?
    A: Tickets are limited and prices increase as the event date approaches. Buy now to lock in the lowest price!

    Q: Where can I find more LGBTQ events?
    Visit our website to view our upcoming speed dating events:
    https://littlegaybook.com/speed-dating-event-lbtq/

    RSVP'ing for this event on Meetup will NOT reserve a spot for you at this event. You will need to register by clicking the link above to purchase a ticket. Following your ticket purchase, you will receive an email from Eventbrite with your Zoom link to attend the event. See you there!💕

    💕 PS - The number of RSVPs on Meet Up does NOT indicate the number of people attending the event. We promote our events on many channels, not just this Meet Up Group.

    By RSVPing to this event, you consent to being added to the Little Gay Book email list. This allows us to send you important updates about this event and future communications about related events and services. We take your privacy seriously and will handle your information with care in accordance with our privacy policy. You are free to unsubscribe at any time.

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  • $15.00
    San Diego Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Speed Dating

    San Diego Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Speed Dating

    Cork & Stem, 1035 University Ave, San Diego, CA, US

    Join our San Diego Speed Dating event and meet Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ singles for authentic conversation and fun connections!

    Tired of endless swiping and ghosting? Craving real conversations and genuine connections? Little Gay Book, the nation’s leading LGBTQ+ matchmaking agency, invites you to a speed dating event specifically designed just for Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer+ singles.

    🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    Join us on Thursday, May 28th from 6 pm to 8 pm PT

    Schedule:
    Check-in begins at 5:30 PM PT
    Please join no later than 5:55 PM PT
    The event will start promptly at 6:00 PM PT
    (late arrivals will not be permitted to participate in speed dating).

    We encourage arriving early to ensure your technology is working and you don't miss your matches. Please note: late arrivals will not be able to participate.

    Venue:
    Cork & Stem
    1035 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103

    🌟 Why You Can't Miss It
    Imagine an evening where meeting incredible people is effortless and exhilarating. Our Personalized Speed Dating event uses cutting-edge technology to match you with potential connections. Say goodbye to the ordinary and hello to the extraordinary!

    What Awaits You:

    • A dynamic event filled with laughter, smiles, and captivating conversations.
    • Smartphone magic that tailors each match to your preferences, so you can focus on the fun.
    • The thrill continues after the event - you'll receive contact info for your promising matches, ensuring meaningful connections!

    🥂 Two drink minimum required

    Don't miss this extraordinary opportunity to forge connections with the vibrant queer community who share your passions. Act quickly before the remaining spots disappear.

    👇 FAQ:
    Q: How does the matching technology work?
    A: Our innovative technology, created by Dr. Frankie’s 20+ years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking success, allows you to tailor your event experience. You share your preferences, including age range and where your preferred date falls on the masculine-feminine spectrum. Our algorithm pairs you with compatible individuals, creating a more personalized and intentional experience than traditional public speed dating.

    Q: How can I connect with my matches after the event?
    A: After the event, you'll receive the contact information for your matches, allowing you to take those promising connections to the next level.

    Q: What should I do after the event ends?
    A: We encourage you to stay after the event, mingle, and support the venue. It's a chance for great conversations, new friendships, and connections that go beyond the event. Your continued presence can make the experience even more memorable.

    Q: Are there any specific guidelines for attendees?
    A: Yes, our Lesbian, Bi, Trans and Queer+ Speed Dating events are open to lesbian, bisexual, nonbinary, and genderqueer folks. These events are trans-welcoming, and intolerance is not permitted.

    🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    Need Assistance?
    📧 Email: events@littlegaybook.com
    📞 Phone: 510-254-9105

    By registering, you consent to SMS updates (reply STOP to opt-out).
    All sales are final. No refunds.
    Spots are limited. Reserve your ticket now for the lowest price!

    💕 PS - The number of RSVPs on Meet Up does NOT indicate the number of people attending the event. We promote our events on many channels, not just this Meet Up Group.

    RSVP'ing for this event on Meetup will NOT reserve a spot for you at this event. You will need to register by clicking here to purchase a ticket on Eventbrite.

    By RSVPing to this event, you consent to being added to the Little Gay Book email list. This allows us to send you important updates about this event and future communications about related events and services. We take your privacy seriously and will handle your information with care in accordance with our privacy policy. You are free to unsubscribe at any time.

    💕 Visit our website to view our upcoming speed dating events:
    https://littlegaybook.com/speed-dating-event-lbtq/

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  • Network event
    $15.00
    Tu B'Av: Jewish Valentine's Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating

    Tu B'Av: Jewish Valentine's Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating

    ·
    Online
    Online
    24 attendees from 23 groups

    Fun, easy, intentional. Online Speed Dating for Lesbian, Bi, Trans, Queer+ Singles. Real conversations, genuine connections, all from home.

    Tired of endless swiping and ghosting? Craving real conversations and genuine connections? Little Gay Book, the nation’s leading LGBTQ+ matchmaking agency, invites you to an online speed dating event specifically designed just for Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer+ singles.

    This virtual event combines real-time video interactions with algorithm-driven matching technology, making every connection intentional, personalized, and meaningful.

    🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    At Tu B'Av: Jewish Valentine's Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating, you’ll enjoy:
    ♥ Private 5-minute dates in Zoom Breakout Rooms.
    ♥ Algorithm-driven smart matches powered by Dr. Frankie’s 20+ years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking experience.
    ♥ Group mingling between dates to keep the energy high and meet even more people.

    Whether you’re looking for romance, friendship, or just a fun evening with great company, this online speed dating event is your chance to connect with like-minded folks in a safe, structured environment.

    ⏰ Event Timing for Tu B'Av: Jewish Valentine's Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating:
    Join us on July 30 from 5-7pm PT / 8-10pm ET
    Check-in opens: 4:30 PM PT / 7:30 PM ET
    Check-in closes: 4:55 PM PT / 7:55 PM ET
    Event begins: 5:00 PM PT / 8:00 PM ET sharp

    We encourage arriving early to ensure your technology is working and you don't miss your matches. Please note: late arrivals will not be able to participate.

    Ticket prices increase as the event date approaches.
    Buy your ticket now to lock in the lowest price and guarantee your spot. Join us for fun, easy, intentional online speed dating that actually works. Your next connection is just a click away. Buy now before prices go up!

    🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    Frequently Asked Questions
    Q: Why Choose Our Online Speed Dating for Lesbian, Bisexual, Trans, and Queer+ Singles?
    A: In a world dominated by passive scrolling and endless texting, we make online LGBTQ+ dating intentional again. Meet real people, have real conversations, and build authentic connections. Our events are designed to maximize compatibility, engagement, and second-date potential.

    Q: How does the matching work?
    A: Our speed dating software considers your preferences on age range and where your ideal match falls on the masculine–feminine spectrum, to pair you with individuals most compatible with you. Unlike random pairings or app-based swiping, our algorithm makes dating intentional and personalized. By pairing you based on real preferences and compatibility, the result is more engaging conversations, better connections, and a higher likelihood of second dates.

    Q: How do I follow up with my matches?
    A: After the event, you’ll receive contact details for your matches so you can keep the conversation going.

    Q: Who can attend this Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Speed Dating Event?
    A: Our events are open to Lesbian, Bisexual, Nonbinary, and Gender Queer folks. These events are proudly trans-welcoming, and intolerance is never permitted.

    Q: How do I secure my spot?
    A: Tickets are limited and prices increase as the event date approaches. Buy now to lock in the lowest price!

    Q: Where can I find more LGBTQ events?
    Visit our website to view our upcoming speed dating events:
    https://littlegaybook.com/speed-dating-event-lbtq/

    RSVP'ing for this event on Meetup will NOT reserve a spot for you at this event. You will need to register by clicking the link above to purchase a ticket. Following your ticket purchase, you will receive an email from Eventbrite with your Zoom link to attend the event. See you there!

    💕 PS - The number of RSVPs on Meet Up does NOT indicate the number of people attending the event. We promote our events on many channels, not just this Meet Up Group.

    By RSVPing to this event, you consent to being added to the Little Gay Book email list. This allows us to send you important updates about this event and future communications about related events and services. We take your privacy seriously and will handle your information with care in accordance with our privacy policy. You are free to unsubscribe at any time.

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