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This is a group for queer women and nonbinary people of all stripes who are attracted to women. We strive to be a safe and welcoming space for every member of our community. We are anti-racist and anti-TERF.

Members take turns picking a book and hosting meetings. Books can come from any genre, not just queer lit. Meetings are also potlucks and social events, so bring a dish and be ready to dish!

In addition to book club meetings, we also get together for other social events. We encourage members to post ideas and invite others to join in on different activities!

Book club is once a month, normally on the 3rd Sunday of the month, from 1pm-3pm. We meet at one-another’s homes throughout the Bay Area.

We ask that members RSVP by a week before an event takes place, to give hosts time to prepare their spaces.

Books are selected by that month’s host. If a host is unable to pick, readings are chosen at random from a list of books previously recommended by members.

October 18, 2009: Troll: A Love Story-- by Johanna Sinisalo
November 22, 2009: Kabul Beauty School-- by Deborah Rodriquez
December 20, 2009: The Art of Racing in the Rain-- by Garth Stein
January 17, 2010: Me Talk Pretty One Day--by David Sedaris
February 21, 2010: The Rabbi's Cat--by Joann Sfar
March 21, 2010: The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Society-- by Mary Ann Shaffer
April 18, 2010: The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao--by Junot Diaz
May 16, 2010: Infidel--by Ayaan Hirsi Ali
June 20, 2010: Stiff: The Curious Lives of Human Cadavers--by Mary Roach
July 18, 2010: Hard Times-- by Blayne Cooper
August 15, 2010: The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks--by Rebecca Skloot
September 19, 2010: The Devil in the White City--by Erik Larson
October 17, 2010: Sexual Fluidity--by Lisa Diamond
November 2010: The Winged Dancer--by Camarin Grae
January 2011: Patience & Sarah--by Isabel Miller
February 2011: Affinity--by Sarah Waters
March 2011: Madras on Rainy Days--by Samina Ali
April 2011: Written on the Body-- by Jeanette Winterson
May 2011: Small Island-- by Andrea Levy
June 2011: By Nightfal--by Michael Cunningham
July 2011: Girl with the Dragon Tattoo--by Stieg Larsson
August 2011: State of Wonder--by Ann Patchett
September 2011: Island Beneath the Sea-- by Isabel Allende
October 2011: The Wooden Sea--by Jonathan Carroll
November 2011: The IHOP Papers--by Ali Liebegott
December 2011: No book--Happy Holidays! 2012
January 2012: Odd Girl Out (plus Beebo Brinker series)--by Ann Bannon
February 2012: The Psychopath Test--by Jon Ronson
March 2012: Pages For You--by Sylvia Brownrigg
April 2012: We Need To Talk About Kevin--by Lionel Shriver
May 2012: Some We Love, Some We Hate--by Hal Herzog
June 2012: The Sense of An Ending--by Julian Barnes
July 2012: The Hunger Games-- by Suzanne Collins
August 2012: Now Is The Hour--by Tom Spanbauer
September 2012: Moonwalking with Einstein--by Joshua Foer
October 2012: The Slow Fix--by Ivan E, Coyote
November 2012: My Name is Red--by Orhan Parmuk
December 2012: David Sedaris books
Jan 2013: Quiet:The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking-by Susan Cain
February 2013: Middlesex--by Jeffrey Eugenide
March 2013: Gone Girl--by Gillan Flynn
April 2013: Wild--by Cheryl Strayed
May 2013: Cannery Row--by John Steinbeck
June 2013: Runaway--by Alice Munro
July 2013: Just Kids--by Patti Smith
August 2013: 11/22/63--by Stephen King
September 2013: By Blood--by Ellen Ullman
October 2013: Feed--by Mira Grant/Seanan McGuire
November 2013: My Stroke of Insight--by Jill Bolte Taylor
December 2013: Gingerbread Hearts--by Alison Grey , et al
January 2014: The Glass Lake--by Maeve Binchy
February 2014: The Valley of Amazement--by Amy Tan
March 2014: The Happiness Project--by Gretchin Rubin
April 2014: Sing You Home--by Jodi Picoult
May 2014: Of Mice and Men--by John Steinbeck
June 2014: Skin:Talking About Sex, Class & Literature-by Dorothy Allison
July 2014: The House of Impossible Loves--by Cristina Lopez-Barnes
September 2014: Good Omens--by Neil Gaiman & Terry Pratchett
October 2014: We Are Water--by Wally Lamb
November 2014: The Case of the Not-So-Nice Nurse-by M. Maney
January 2015: The Goldfinch--by Donna Tartt
February 2015: The Payng Guests--by Sarah Waters
March 2015: All the Light We Cannot See--by Anthony Doerr
April 2015: Survival of the Sickest--by Sharon Moalem
May 2015: The Girl on the Train--by Paula Hawkins
June 2015: Jam on the Vine--by LaShonda Katrice Barnett
July 2015: Boys In The Boat--by Daniel James Brown
August 2015: The Emperor of All Maladies--by Siddhartha Mukhergee
September 2015: Go Set a Watchman--by Harper Lee
October 2015: The Martian--by Andy Weir
November 2015: In the Unlikely Event--by Judy Blume
December 2015: The Argonauts--by Maggie Nelson
January 2016: M Train--by Patti Smith
February 2016: Big Bang Symphony--by Lucy Jane Bledsoe
March 2016: The Husband's Secret--by Liane Moriarty
April 2016: City on Fire--by Garth Risk Hallberg
May 2016: Notorious RBG: The Life and Times of Ruth Bader Ginsburg--by Irin Carmon and Shana Knizhnik
June 2016: Split Second--by Douglas E. Richards
July 2016: The Rosie Project --by Graeme Simsion
August 2016: The Orphan Train--by Christina Baker Kline
September 2016: Season of the Witch--by David Talbot
October 2016: Beyond the Pale--by Elana Dykewomon
November 2016: Let's Pretend This Never Happened--by Jenny Lawson
December 2016: Ash--by Malinda Lo
January 2017: The Lake House--by Kate Morton
February 2017: When Breath Becomes Air--by Paul Kalanithi
March 2017: The Nix --by Nathan Hill
April 2017: The Palimpsest--by Catherynne M. Valente
May 2017: Eating Fire: My Life as a Lesbian Avenger--by Kelly Cogswell
June 2017: Small Great Things-- by Jodi Picoult
July 2017: A Tale for the Time Being--by Ruth Ozeki
August 2017: Totally Unscientific Study of the Search for Human Happiness--by Paula Poundstone
September 2017: Commonwealth--by Ann Patchett
October 2017: The Night Strangers--by Chris Bohjalian
November 2017: The Best American Science & Nature Writing 2016--ed. Amy Stewart
December 2017: Christmas Days: 12 Stories and 12 Feasts--by Jeanette Winterson
January 2018: Big Little Lies--by Liane Moriarty
February 2018: Manhattan Beach--by Jennifer Egan
March 2018: Little Fires Everywhere--by Celeste Ng
April 2018: Requiem for Immortals--by Lee Winter
May 2018: The Power--by Naomi Alderman
June 2018: I'm Judging You: The Do Better Manual--by Luvvie Ajayi
July 2018: The Alice Network--by Kate Quinn
August 2018: She's Not There: A Life in Two Genders--by Jennifer Finney Boylan
September 2018: A Little Life--by Hanya Yanagihara
October 2018: Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows--by Balli Kaur Jaswa
November 2018: Something in the Water--by Catherine Steadman
December 2018: Calypso--by David Sedaris
January 2019: Unsheltered—by Barbara Kingsolver
February 2019: There There—by Tommy Orange
March 2019: Eleanor and Hick: The Love Affair That Shaped a First Lady—by Susan Quinn
April 2019: Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine—by Gail Honeyman
May 2019: When Katie Met Cassidy - by Camille Perri
June 2019: The Underground Railroad - by Colson Whitehead
July 2019: Children of Blood and Bone - by Tomi Adeyemi
August 2019: Blush: The Unbelievably Absurd Diary of a Gay Beauty Junkie by Harvey Helms
September 2019: Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams - by Matthew Walker
October 2019: The Magician's Assistant - by Ann Patchett
November 2019: The Stand - by Stephen King
December 2019: A Man Called Ove - by Fredrik Backman
January 2020: The Body: A Guide for Occupants - by Bill Bryson
February 2020: Girl - Woman - Other - by Bernardine Evaristo
March 2020: cancelled
April 2020: Red - White - and Royal Blue - by Casey McQuiston
May 2020: The Fifth Season - by N.K. Jemisin
June 2020: We Had No Rules - by Corinne Manning
July 2020: Cordelia's Honor - by Lois McMaster Bujold
August 2020: The Decision - by Kevin Hart
September 2020: An American Marriage by Tayari Jones
October 2020: So You Want to Talk About Race - by Ijeoma Oluo
November 2020: When We Believed in Mermaids - by Barbara O'Neal
December 2020: Save Yourself - by Cameron Esposito
January 2021: A Time to Kill - by John Grisham
February 2021: Untamed - by Glennon Doyle
March 2021: Lone Wolf - by Jodi Picoult
April 2021: Promised Land - by Barack Obama
May 2021: You’ll Never Believe What Happened to Lacey - by Amber Ruffin & Lacey Lamar
June 2021: Something to Talk About - by Meryl Wilsner
July 2021: American Dirt - by Jeanine Cummins
August 2021: This Is How It Is - by Laurie Frankel
September 2021: Lab Girl - by Hope Jahren
October 2021: The Midnight Library - by Matt Haig
November 2021: Cemetery Boys - by Aiden Thomas
December 2021: Apples Never Fall - by Liane Moriarty
January 2022: The Plot - by Jean Hanff Korelitz
February 2022: The Henna Artist - by Alka Joshi
March 2022: The Master Key - by Masako Tagawa
April 2022: Project Hail Mary - by Andy Weir
May 2022: Gideon the Ninth - by Tamsyn Muir
June 2022: One Last Stop - by Casey McQuiston
July 2022: The Inner Life of Animals - by Peter Wohlleben
August 2022: Empire of Pain: The Secret History of the Sackler Dynasty - by Patrick Radden Keefe
September 2022: Can’t Hurt Me - by David Goggins
October 2022: Lessons in Chemistry - by Bonnie Garmus
November 2022: The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo - by Taylor Jenkins Reid
December 2022: The 7 1/2 Deaths of Eleanor Hardcastle - by Stuart Turton
January 2023: Like a House on Fire - by Lauren McBrayer
February 2023: Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow - by Gabrielle Zevin
March 2023: Why We’re Polarized - by Ezra Klein
April 2023: The Travelling Cat Chronicles - by Hiro Arikawa
May 2023: The London Séance Society - by Sarah Penner
June 2023: The Secret Lives of Church Ladies - by Deesha Philyaw
July 2023: Circe - by Madeline Miller
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