Board Certified by the Association of Integrative Psychology, Lisane Basquiat is a Master Practitioner of Mental and Emotional Release® (MER) Therapy, a Master Reiki Practitioner, an Accredited Energy Leadership Coach and founder of the personal growth company Shaping Freedom®. Lisane trains individuals on how to gain empowerment through internal congruence and spiritual alignment, resulting in healthier familial dynamics and legacy. She helps people who are seeking ways to feel freer, be more empowered and aligned, and to have better results in their professional endeavors and personal relationships. It is Lisane’s philosophy that it is your birthright to have a life that sets your soul on fire. “I founded Shaping Freedom because I’ve learned the importance of creating space to allow yourself the courage, time, and tools to ‘get right’ within,” she said. “This is how we positively impact our outer world and legacy to a world filled with wonder and pleasure; a true reflection of how you want to show up and experience your life." Learn more at ShapingFreedom.com.
You’ve likely had this conversation before. Maybe with a partner, a parent, or a friend. Or perhaps with a colleague, child, spouse, or even a neighbor.
The details or intensity may change but the emotional outcome often feels strikingly familiar; with you leaving the interaction feeling misunderstood, dismissed, underappreciated, and emotionally exhausted.
It seems like the same conversation on replay - someone shuts down and the other pushes harder. One person becomes defensive and another over-explains. The almost predictable cycle with nothing getting fully resolved.
Then, over time, the relationship begins to carry the burden of repeated and compiled misunderstandings, tension, and communication misfires. It’s exhausting.
However, the issue is not always just about the current argument itself. Very often, unresolved patterns, emotional baggage, protective strategies, and other learned ways of relating may already be at the undercurrent - influencing the ways you show up to each other.
Relationships are meant to bring people together. At times, that connection is accompanied by the joining of the respective party’s:
Old wounds
Emotional baggage
Communication habits
Protective responses
Unspoken expectations
Survival strategies
Relational patterns formed long before this specific relationship began
To say it plainly, some of the strongest forces shaping present-day relationships may have been there before either person fully understood what they were bringing to the table.
So when conflict happens, people are not always reacting only to what is happening in the moment. Sometimes, they are also responding through their lens of unresolved emotional history, inherited meanings, familiar fears, and protective behaviors shaped years earlier.
In practice, your baggage meets their baggage and the pattern may begin driving the relationship.
This is why so many people find themselves repeating the same arguments, misunderstandings, frustration, and pain. At times with different people in different settings, but with remarkably similar outcomes.
Your Past Is Your Present: Relationships Edition is a transformational two-hour live workshop designed to help participants recognize the hidden relational patterns influencing their closest relationships before those patterns continue shaping communication, conflict, and important life decisions.
This is not therapy, blame, judgement or about taking sides. This is structured relational pattern awareness in a safe and welcoming environment. The goal is to introduce greater awareness of what is happening. Because when you can finally see the undercurrent, you can better understand what may truly be shaping the relationship.
In This Session, You Will Explore:
Why the same conversations keep repeating
How unresolved patterns may be influencing present-day relationships
How emotional baggage and protective strategies can collide
Why certain moments feel disproportionately charged
The difference between present reality and past-based interpretation
One recurring relational pattern that may be shaping your outcomes
Greater clarity before making emotionally reactive or permanent decisions
What You Will Leave With:
A structured relationship pattern mapping framework
Greater awareness of recurring relational cycles
Insight into emotional triggers and protective behaviors
A clearer understanding of what may be yours, theirs, or inherited
Increased ability to recognize familiar dynamics earlier
Stronger clarity around how to move forward
This Session Is For Those Who:
Feel stuck in repeated relational cycles
Keep having the same unresolved conversations
Feel emotionally exhausted, misunderstood, or reactive
Want clarity before making major relationship decisions
Are navigating challenges in romantic, family, friendship, or professional relationships
Are ready to understand the pattern before trying to change the outcome
Event Details:
Date: Wednesday, June 10, 2026
Time: 4:30 PM PT | 7:30 PM ET
Format: Live Virtual via Zoom
Investment: $109
Lisane Basquiat is a Board-Certified Master Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Certified Professional Coach, with 20+ years experience guiding transformation.
What this is
Your Past Is Your Present will help you understand how patterns learned earlier in life continue to shape how you react, communicate, and relate today—especially under pressure.
You’ll be guided to recognize one familiar pattern you keep repeating, understand where it was learned and why it once made sense, and see how old meaning is being applied to present-day situations.
This session creates the awareness required before real change can happen.
Rarely is work at this level priced so low.
What You'll Do in This Session
During this guided experience, you will:
Recognize a familiar reaction or pattern that keeps showing up
Understand where that pattern was learned and what it was designed to protect
Notice how old meaning influences present-day moments
Distinguish what belongs to now versus what is being carried forward from the past
Experience more space between stimulus and response as the pattern becomes visible
The goal is clarity, not immediate correction.
What to Expect
This is not therapy.
This is not a quick fix.
This is not about forcing change in the moment.
Instead, this session establishes the foundation that makes intentional, lasting change possible.
Who This is For
This session is designed for thoughtful, self-aware participants who:
Notice the same conversations or reactions repeating, especially under pressure
Feel a gap between how they intend to show up and how they actually respond
Sense their reactions carry more intensity than the moment calls for
Have insight into their patterns but still feel pulled into familiar responses
Want understanding before tools, strategies, or next steps
Are willing to slow down, observe, and look honestly at what’s happening
Want to reduce self-blame by understanding where patterns came from
What You'll Leave With
By the end of this session, you will:
Recognize your patterns as learned responses, not personal flaws
Understand their origin, reducing shame and self-criticism
Notice activation earlier, before reactions take over
Create more pause between what happens and how you respond
Most importantly, you’ll leave with clarity about what needs understanding before change can occur.
How the Session Works
Live, guided teaching with Lisane Basquiat
Gentle grounding and moments of quiet reflection
No breakout rooms
No required sharing or on-the-spot coaching
Camera on encouraged but not required
Reflection prompts sent via email after the session
Recording available for 7 days following the live session
Important Details
Date: Thursday, August 13th
Time: 3:00–5:00 PM PT
Location:Online via Zoom (link sent 24 hours before)
Investment: $109
Recording: Available for 7 days after session
Questions: Reach out to us: hey@shapingfreedom.com
Ready to See Your Patterns Clearly?
Your past is your present. This is where the work begins, by recognizing what you inherited and why it made sense. Reserve your seat early as attendance is limited.
You’ve likely had this conversation before. Maybe with a partner, a parent, or a friend. Or perhaps with a colleague, child, spouse, or even a neighbor.
The details or intensity may change but the emotional outcome often feels strikingly familiar; with you leaving the interaction feeling misunderstood, dismissed, underappreciated, and emotionally exhausted.
It seems like the same conversation on replay - someone shuts down and the other pushes harder. One person becomes defensive and another over-explains. The almost predictable cycle with nothing getting fully resolved.
Then, over time, the relationship begins to carry the burden of repeated and compiled misunderstandings, tension, and communication misfires. It’s exhausting.
However, the issue is not always just about the current argument itself. Very often, unresolved patterns, emotional baggage, protective strategies, and other learned ways of relating may already be at the undercurrent - influencing the ways you show up to each other.
Relationships are meant to bring people together. At times, that connection is accompanied by the joining of the respective party’s:
Old wounds
Emotional baggage
Communication habits
Protective responses
Unspoken expectations
Survival strategies
Relational patterns formed long before this specific relationship began
To say it plainly, some of the strongest forces shaping present-day relationships may have been there before either person fully understood what they were bringing to the table.
So when conflict happens, people are not always reacting only to what is happening in the moment. Sometimes, they are also responding through their lens of unresolved emotional history, inherited meanings, familiar fears, and protective behaviors shaped years earlier.
In practice, your baggage meets their baggage and the pattern may begin driving the relationship.
This is why so many people find themselves repeating the same arguments, misunderstandings, frustration, and pain. At times with different people in different settings, but with remarkably similar outcomes.
Your Past Is Your Present: Relationships Edition is a transformational two-hour live workshop designed to help participants recognize the hidden relational patterns influencing their closest relationships before those patterns continue shaping communication, conflict, and important life decisions.
This is not therapy, blame, judgement or about taking sides. This is structured relational pattern awareness in a safe and welcoming environment. The goal is to introduce greater awareness of what is happening. Because when you can finally see the undercurrent, you can better understand what may truly be shaping the relationship.
In This Session, You Will Explore:
Why the same conversations keep repeating
How unresolved patterns may be influencing present-day relationships
How emotional baggage and protective strategies can collide
Why certain moments feel disproportionately charged
The difference between present reality and past-based interpretation
One recurring relational pattern that may be shaping your outcomes
Greater clarity before making emotionally reactive or permanent decisions
What You Will Leave With:
A structured relationship pattern mapping framework
Greater awareness of recurring relational cycles
Insight into emotional triggers and protective behaviors
A clearer understanding of what may be yours, theirs, or inherited
Increased ability to recognize familiar dynamics earlier
Stronger clarity around how to move forward
This Session Is For Those Who:
Feel stuck in repeated relational cycles
Keep having the same unresolved conversations
Feel emotionally exhausted, misunderstood, or reactive
Want clarity before making major relationship decisions
Are navigating challenges in romantic, family, friendship, or professional relationships
Are ready to understand the pattern before trying to change the outcome
Event Details:
Date: Sunday, October 11th, 2026
Time: 4:00 PM PT | 6:00 PM ET
Format: Live Virtual via Zoom
Investment: $109
