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Our group is very active with loads of events put on by different organizers. This is the best way to plug into an instant social life if you are new to London just wanting to make new single friends or maybe meet that special someone.
We have a very cosmopolitan mix of sociable singles from London and the surrounding counties. If you want to make a positive change to your life then you have definitely come to the right place.
Every friend or partner started with the first hello!
We aim to provide a safe environment for you to make new friends and widen your social circle. We know how daunting it is for ladies to come alone to events so we can even put ladies coming alone in touch with each other beforehand. We'd like to offer this to you too guys but we know how strange you would think it was if we said we could network you with other men beforehand lol! We can only suggest that you arrive at the start of the event when we can properly introduce you into a mixed group of new arrivals and ease you in gently.
We have members from mainly 30 but we don't mind younger or older. We have big numbers at our events for Contact Singles (contactsingles.co.uk) when we hold them mostly monthly so there will still be plenty of people within your age range.
Meanwhile you will find many other events put on by our other organisers for their groups and you will see many of these events posted on this group.
Our sister London (& Hertfordshire & Essex) groups are very active with loads of events put on by different organizers. Feel free to join, with over 12,000 members between the groups!
https://www.meetup.com/single-and-social-london-over-35/
https://www.meetup.com/single-and-social-herts-and-essex-over-30-parties-events/
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Nigerian Independence 3 Course Meal A Glass of Bubbly Supper Club-West NorwoodMy Pop Up Events Supper Club , London£55.00
Let's celebrate Nigeria's 65th Independence Day where food is not just about eating — it’s about community, celebration, and heritage. Join us for a delicious meal making food central to social and cultural life.
Nigeria at Independence: A Legacy of Resilience
Nigeria, the giant of Africa, carries a history defined by struggle, resilience, and triumph. At its heart lies Independence Day, celebrated every October 1st — the moment the nation broke free from British colonial rule and embraced self-determination.The Road to Freedom
Before colonialism, Nigeria was a tapestry of kingdoms and cultures with rich traditions of governance. The British gradually imposed control, but by the mid-20th century, inspired by global decolonization, Nigerian leaders like Nnamdi Azikiwe, Obafemi Awolowo, and Ahmadu Bello spearheaded the demand for self-rule. Their vision culminated on October 1, 1960, when the Union Jack was lowered and the Green-White-Green flag rose — a new dawn for Africa’s most populous nation.A Day of Unity and Pride
Each year, Independence Day rekindles that spirit of freedom. Parades, cultural displays, music, and reflection transform Nigeria into a living canvas of patriotism and diversity. It is a day not only to celebrate sovereignty but also to reaffirm the nation’s collective strength and future aspirations.Nigerian Independence Supper Club
Join us for an unforgettable evening of a 3 course Nigerian cuisine, culture, and celebration as we mark the nation's Independence Day in style!Located in the heart of West Norwood at My Pop Up Event, a great space for a supper club.
What to Expect: A specially curated multi-course Nigerian menu
Afrobeat vibes, Great company & conversation, Celebrating our roots and community.
Dress Code: Come as you are — or wear a touch of green & white! Limited spots available – book early
Let’s eat, dance, and celebrate Nigeria together!Nigerian food reflects the country’s ethnic diversity, with over 250 ethnic groups, and varies by region, ingredients, and traditions. Nigerian cuisine is known for bold flavors, hearty meals, and colorful presentation, often combining spices, palm oil, vegetables, grains, and proteins.
SUPPER CLUB
Menu
Once you have paid please message me your drinks and food menu for the day.Menu
Starter
Beans/Ewa served with seasonal salad
(Nigerian mashed beans served with a spicy, pepper-rich sauce) (V)Suya beef served with fried onions and tomatoes (one of Nigeria’s most iconic street foods, a spicy, smoky grilled meat that’s hugely popular across West Africa) The beef is smoked in a blend of ground peanuts, chili powder, ginger, garlic, paprika, and other spices.
Moi Moi served with seasonal salad
Is a classic Nigerian dish made from steamed blended beans. It’s nutritious, savoury. (V)Mains
Jollof Rice with plantain beef, chicken of fish, with side salad
One of West Africa’s most famous and beloved dishes! It’s a one-pot rice dish cooked in a rich, spiced tomato and pepper sauce, full of flavor and color. Nigerians (and Ghanaians 👀) both claim the crown for the best version, but Nigeria’s Party Jollof is legendary.Egusi or efo Stew with Amala or pounded yam with beef, fish or chicken
Egusi is one of Nigeria’s most popular and beloved soups, Ground egusi (melon) seeds, Palm oil, Blended peppers, tomatoes, and onions (for the base)
Efo is a rich, flavourful Yoruba-style vegetable stew often cooked with spinach in the UKAmala is a staple food in Yoruba cuisine and one of Nigeria’s most popular “swallows."
It’s a dark brown smooth, stretchy dough made from yam flour (elubo), cassava flour, or unripe plantain flour, and it’s called a “swallow” because you typically swallow it with soup rather than chew it much.
Pounded Yam is one of Nigeria’s most iconic staples and a favourite “swallow” across many regions.
Made from yam flour or boiled yam that is pounded or mashed until it becomes smooth, stretchy, and dough-like. Known for its soft, elastic texture, which makes it perfect for scooping up soups.OR
Plain rice with stew chicken, beef or fish with plantain and side salad
Dessert
Cheese cake
Chocolate Brownie with vanilla ice cream
Fruit saladPrice £55 non refundable unless cancelled
Please make payment In order to confirm your place, please head to our main group Get A Social Life to RSVP and click GOING. This is the link Nigerian Independence 3 Course Meal A Glass of Bubbly Supper Club-West Norwood , Wed, Oct 1, 2025, 7:00 PM | Meetup and complete the payment. You're welcome to show interest and RSVP here too, however, to keep all the confirmed participants in one place/group, please follow the instructions above. Please note if you RSVP without making payment you RSVP will change to Not Going
WHAT'S INCLUDED
3 Course Meal
1 Glass of wine, beer, palm wine or a non alcoholic drink
Friendly Host
Meeting new people
Coming Out Of Your Comfort ZoneWHAT'S NOT INCLUDED
Additional Food
Direct booking fees to meetup
Additional DrinksAs this is a supper club i will need your food menu by 28th September in order to send to our caterer to purchase ingredients for your chosen meal .
Please don't forget to message over your chosen food and drink menu to 07957320516 for this event.
To RSVP you must pay first via PAYPAL, this is on a first come first serve basis, once full, the RSVP will be closed.
If for some reason you are no longer able to make it, please change your rsvp to not going so that another member can purchase your spot, also send me a message.
If you have any food allergies or other dietary requirements, please let me know before booking
Address My Pop Up Events 4 Knights Hill SE27 0HY London
My number just in case is 07957320516
Look forward to meeting you at the dinning table
- 15 Exciting Days in Colombia - Staying in Bogota, Medellin and CartagenaNeeds location
PLEASE RSVP ONLY ONCE YOU HAVE MADE A DEPOSIT, IF YOU RSVP WITHOUT MAKING PAYMENT YOUR RSVP WILL CHANGE TO NOT GOING.
For updates click here on our main meetup group 15 Exciting Days in Colombia - Staying in Bogota, Medellin and Cartagena , Sat, Oct 11, 2025, 10:00 PM | MeetupIt's been a while since we travelled long haul with the meetup group, we had so much fun Thailand, Zanzibar and Kenya.
Let's enjoy Colombia, located in South America, a country with diverse landscapes, cultures, and experiences. From the Andes mountains to the Caribbean coast, from the Amazon jungle to the colonial cities, Colombia has something for everyone
This trip will go ahead once we have 4 travellers, if not you will be refunded fully.
We will be staying in Bogotá, Medellin, and Cartagena for 4 nights
Holiday takes place from 11th - 25th October with a late overnight flight arriving to the UK on Sunday 26th with 1 stop over on return flights.
11th - 15th Botoga
Day 1
We Catch a late morning flight from Gatwick Airport.
On arrival to Botoga we are transferred to our hotel.Day 2
Feel the history of Bogotá come to life while we take a private walking tour- Pay a visit to the Gold Museum and learn more about the Muisca culture
- Visit key locations such as the Primate Cathedral and Chorro de Quevedo
- Uncover the intriguing facts behind the legend of the lost city of El Dorado
- Ride the cable car and take in views of the city from the top of Monserrate
Day 3 FREE DAY
Optional day tour to visit Zipaquirá Salt Cathedral and Lake Guatavita additional fee £80Day 4
Just an hour from Bogotá, we visit Choachí, where we will find the tallest natural waterfall of Colombia. There, we will have an ecological walk in "La Chorrera" park to reach the hill where the pristine water flows.
We will spend the day surrounded by all shades of green while breathing the cleanest air!15th - 19th Medellin
Day 5
Today we catch a morning flight to Medellin
Free time to relax or explore after checking in,Day 6
Early start, we visit the city of Guatapé for the day, located 1.5-hours from Medellín, and see a world of colour amongst its streets adorned with tile facades. Take a relaxing boat ride and enjoy a traditional Colombian breakfast and lunch.Day 7
Free Day
Later we get ready to P A R T Y, as we discover the best rooftops and nightclubs the El Poblado district in Medellín and end the night on 70 street in Laureles. Enjoy free shots, included entry, with bilingual guideDay 8
Free Day, Optional Enjoy horseback riding experience along a muleteer path. Ride a horse down the old path of the silleteros to the Don Leandro Coffee Farm and relaxing coffee massage and steam. Additional fee £8519th - 24th Cartagena
Day 9
Today we fly to Cartagena in the afternoon, after checking in free time to explore and relaxDay 10
Get ready for fun in the sun and discover the islands near Cartagena on this full-day island-hopping excursion. Swim, lounge, and explore 5 destinations across the Rosario channel of islands. Swim in the famous crystal-clear waters of the Caribbean SeaDay 11
Free TimeDay 12
Enjoy a transfer from Cartagena and immerse yourself in local culture with a trip to a community, join a canoeing tour through the mangrove, see and learn how locals fish also taste a delicious lunch.19th - 24th Bogota
Day 13
We fly back to Bogota on an evening flightDay 14th
At 12 noon we will join a food tour of Bogota. Dive into the heart of Colombian cuisine with more than 12 tastings led by local foodie guides, with coffee workshop.- Sample 12 different Colombian foods and drinks
- Learn about Colombian culture and it's intriguing culinary history
- Let your experienced, local, foodie guide lead the way
- Included is a game of explosive tejo, with a local beverage
Day 15
Last day, free time to explore before heading back home on an overnight flight. We have a late check out so, a chance to relax or more sightseeing with new friends, whoever is up to it let's discuss togetherWhat's Included
- Return flights to Gatwick, if option chosen includes X4 internal flights
- Return transfers if arriving with us from Gatwick
- B&B (Bed & Breakfast) based on 2 sharing a room
- Walking tour in Bogota
- Day visit Choachí, view tallest natural waterfall of Colombia.
- Day trip to Guatapé
- Visit rooftops and nightclubs in the El Poblado district in Medellín, with free shots, includes entry to club
- Island-hopping, exploring 5 destinations across the Rosario channel of the Caribbean Sea
- Local culture community trip, with canoeing tour through the mangrove with lunch.
- Walking food tour, sample 12 different Colombian foods and drinks
What's Not Included
Possible hotel Taxes
Zipaquirá Salt Cathedral and Lake Guatavita additional fee £80
Horseback riding experience to Don Leandro Coffee Farm and relaxing coffee massage and steam. Additional fee £85
Lunch, dinner and drinks not stated above.
Return transfers not included if not travelling from Gatwick Airport.Price £2,894
Flights from Gatwick, includes all internal flights within the country of Colombia
Travellers not sharing a room it's £3,233 With international and all internal flights
Without flights from Gatwick and transfers, however includes all internal flights meet us at the hotel £2,395 or £2,750 if not sharing a room.To get the best deal act quickly as prices will increase over the next few weeks or months
Deposit £300
£100 discount if deposit paid by 9th January
£300 to be paid on the 2nd of each month, outstanding balance to be paid by the 11th September. You may loose your deposit if you do not make payment on timePLEASE RSVP ONLY ONCE YOU HAVE MADE A DEPOSIT, IF YOU RSVP WITHOUT MAKING PAYMENT YOUR RSVP WILL CHANGE TO NOT GOING.
Please note last minute updates may occur which maybe out of my control, will keep you posted if this is the case.
Bank account details
Please pay to:
Toyin Oke (Personal Account)
Barclays
Account number 73937305
Sort code: 209467
Ref: Your name
Please message me once you have made payments in order for me to confirm.By paying a deposit you will be agreeing to the following cancellation policies:
Click here to see Get A Social Life terms and conditions
Once again if we do not have up to 4 travellers trip will be cancelled and you will be refunded.Colombian Currency - Colombian peso
Visa - If you are a British Citizen a visa are not required on this trip, please take responsibility to check if you need a visa if you are not a British Citizen
Hope you can join us
My number just case you have any further questions is 07957320516
- Social Drinks, Glass Of Wine or Beer With Italian Canapes in West NorwoodMy Pop Up Events , London$30.00
Join us for drinks in the heart of West Norwood With A Glass Of Wine or Beer For socializing and networking with Italian canapes, prepared by The Garden Gastro Bar in West Norwood
Enjoy a cosy atmosphere, great company, delicious canapes and of course, a glass of wine in hand, relax and unwind, with music in the background.
This event would be perfect for individuals who work from home, don't have work colleagues, or if you are looking to increase your social circle and making new friends.
We need to get out of our comfort zone, yes i know it’s very daunting coming out alone not knowing anyone, at least this way many will be in the same boat as you.
A perfect opportunity to connect people together, in a chilled out space with no pressure, a place to unwind after a crazy week at work, or hectic family life, listening to some good music in a great environment with great ambience. Let's lol, chat, dance, sing and meet new people together.
I love to see the connection people have built over time and great friendships formed along the way, knowing that they have found someone or people who shares their interests and love the things they love to do.
Many of our friends don't share the same interests, some let us down last minute, a few have a partner/married, some have moved out of London or overseas, or have a young family, or many have drifted away from old friends. So now is the time to connect with new friends or people who share your interest, where you never have to attend an event alone ever again.
So, if you’re looking to go out alone in a safe environment meet others for drinks laughter and good conversation join us.
Meet others for socialising and networking with background music, where the volume increases later for dancing, an opportunity to dance like you just don’t care, who cares who is watching come out and enjoy yourself.
PLEASE NOTE
This is NOT a singles night Event, however a place for people to connect and make new friends, meet like minded individuals. People can come alone and enjoy the night with others just like them, however if you meet the one lucky you and if not enjoy the evening anyway, it's not all about being in a relationship. Yes feel free to bring friends or your partner, everyone is welcome to attend, come and mingle with everyone, i love talking to strangers, it's all about connecting in a safe and fun environment, it's so good for the soul.A social evening where people can get together and let their hair down, a place to chill with likeminded individuals, positive vibes only. Creating a social den for people of all walks of life, to come together and enjoy a great evening out, mingling in the crowd and getting to know everyone.
Why should you join us: we are fun easy going, friendly, bubbly, like minded individuals who love meeting new people, as life is just too short.
Italian canapes will include a few listed below and more
- Home made Crisps and Spicy Salami wrap
- Grilled Courgettes & homemade red pesto roll (Vegan-Gluten Free)
- Gorgonzola cream & caramelized pear gluten free bruschettas (Vegetarian)
- Artichoke Speck & aioli Bruschetta (Vegetarian)
- Olives Tapenade anchovy bruschetta (Pescetarian)
- Tomato & Basil Bruschetta (Vegan)
- Bruschetta Radicchio parmesan shaving and balsamic vinegar glaze (Vegetarian)
Price £30
Please make payment In order to confirm your place, please head to our main group Get A Social Life to RSVP and click GOING. This is the link
Social Drinks, Glass Of Wine or Beer With Italian Canapes in West Norwood , Fri, Sep 26, 2025, 7:00 PM | Meetup and complete the payment. You're welcome to show interest and RSVP here too, however, to keep all the confirmed participants in one place/group, please follow the instructions above. Please note if you RSVP without making payment you RSVP will change to Not GoingWhat’s Included
1 glass of wine, beer or non alcoholic drink
A range of Italian Canapes, non meat options will be available
Meeting new people
Making new friends
Connecting
Socializing
Networking
Dancing
Singing
Friendly host
Coming out of your comfort ZoneNot Included
More drinksPlease let me know if you have any allergies or other dietary requirements, via WhatsApp, phone details below or email at contact@getasociallife.co.uk
Music Genre
80'S, 90's
Funk and Soul
R&B
Afro Beats, Latin, Pop and other genres thrown inTaking photos
If you do not want your photos on social media and other platforms, please opt out of taking photos with us thank you.Hope most of you can make it would be lovely to see you, a place to connect and form new friendships
Location: My Pop Up Events 4 Knights Hill SE27 0HY London
My number just in case 07957320516
Looking forward to seeing you soon x
- Social Drinks With A Glass Of Wine or Beer In West NorwoodMy Pop Up Events , London£15.00
Join us for drinks in the heart of West Norwood With A Glass Of Wine or Beer For socializing and networking.
Enjoy a cosy atmosphere, great company and of course, a glass of wine in hand, relax and unwind, with music in the background.
This event would be perfect for individuals who work from home, don't have work colleagues, or if you are looking to increase your social circle and making new friends.
We need to get out of our comfort zone, yes i know it’s very daunting coming out alone not knowing anyone, at least this way many will be in the same boat as you.
A perfect opportunity to connect people together, in a chilled out space with no pressure, a place to unwind after a crazy week at work, or hectic family life, listening to some good music in a great environment with great ambience. Let's lol, chat, dance, sing and meet new people together.
I love to see the connection people have built over time and great friendships formed along the way, knowing that they have found someone or people who shares their interests and love the things they love to do.
Many of our friends don't share the same interests, some let us down last minute, a few have a partner/married, some have moved out of London or overseas, or have a young family, or many have drifted away from old friends. So now is the time to connect with new friends or people who share your interest, where you never have to attend an event alone ever again.
So, if you’re looking to go out alone in a safe environment meet others for drinks laughter and good conversation join us.
Meet others for socialising and networking with background music, where the volume increases later for dancing, an opportunity to dance like you just don’t care, who cares who is watching come out and enjoy yourself.
PLEASE NOTE
This is NOT a singles night Event, however a place for people to connect and make new friends, meet like minded individuals. People can come alone and enjoy the night with others just like them, however if you meet the one lucky you and if not enjoy the evening anyway, it's not all about being in a relationship. Yes feel free to bring friends or your partner, everyone is welcome to attend, come and mingle with everyone, i love talking to strangers, it's all about connecting in a safe and fun environment, it's so good for the soul.A social evening where people can get together and let their hair down, a place to chill with likeminded individuals, positive vibes only. Creating a social den for people of all walks of life, to come together and enjoy a great evening out, mingling in the crowd and getting to know everyone.
Why should you join us: we are fun easy going, friendly, bubbly, like minded individuals who love meeting new people, as life is just too short.
Price £15
Please make payment In order to confirm your place, please head to our main group Get A Social Life to RSVP and click GOING. This is the link Social Drinks With A Glass Of Wine or Beer in West Norwood , Fri, Oct 3, 2025, 7:00 PM | Meetup
and complete the payment. You're welcome to show interest and RSVP here too, however, to keep all the confirmed participants in one place/group, please follow the instructions above. Please note if you RSVP without making payment you RSVP will change to Not GoingWhat’s Included
1 glass of wine, beer or non alcoholic drink
Meeting new people
Making new friends
Connecting
Socializing
Networking
Dancing
Singing
Friendly host
Coming out of your comfort ZoneNot Included
More drinks
Italian CanapesMusic Genre
80'S, 90's
Funk and Soul
R&B
Afro Beats, Latin, Pop and other genres thrown inTaking photos
If you do not want your photos on social media and other platforms, please opt out of taking photos with us thank you.Hope most of you can make it would be lovely to see you, a place to connect and form new friendships
Location: My Pop Up Events 4 Knights Hill SE27 0HY London
My number just in case 07957320516
Looking forward to seeing you soon x
