What we’re about
This group is for you if you’re done with guesswork in dating and ready to attract the relationship you know you deserve.
Whether you're a divorced, single professional woman or man — and you've done the healing, you're self-aware, and now you're ready for real love — you're in the right place. 😎
I run powerful workshops and events designed to help you date with clarity, confidence and intention — so you can attract a partner who’s aligned with your values, vision, and future… and build a relationship that truly lasts. 💞
We don’t do shallow dating advice here. We go deep — on mindset, patterns, and the energy you’re bringing into dating — so you’re not wasting time on misaligned connections, and instead calling in love that feels nourishing, reciprocal and aligned. 🥰
If you’re ready to meet someone who matches your depth, your values, and your heart… this space will support your journey every step of the way.
Here’s how to go deeper:-
💌 Telegram Channel
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💌 Email List
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💌 Free Guide
Click here to download my FREE Relationship Readiness Quiz & Conscious Dating Guide
Uncover what’s blocking your relationship success — and how to date in a way that leads to real love.
About Me:
I’m Topé (pronounced Top-Air), a Relationship, Dating & Self-Love Coach for high-achieving divorced women and men. I'm trained with the Relationship Coaching Institute, and I support clients through transformational 1:1 and group coaching, and courses that empower you to shift patterns and find aligned love. 💞
My own journey took nearly 20 years post-divorce to get it right 😳🫣 — and now I help others shorten that path and finally get what they want in love. I don't want it to take as long for you!
If you’re ready to stop settling, start showing up differently, and find your person — I’d love to support you. 🤗
Coach Topé
✨ Your Conscious Dating Guide✨
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See all- How to Attract the Right Woman (Mini-Course)Link visible for attendees
(Paid course: click here to sign up or join the FREE Telegram channel here.)
Gents... are you tired of feeling stuck in dating?
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If you’ve ever felt anxious approaching women...
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Or worried that you’re not the kind of guy they want...
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Or maybe you’ve found yourself over-chasing, only to end up feeling undervalued...
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You’re not alone.
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I've worked with men who've gone through the same things, and have helped them to see exactly where dating hasn't been working for them...and what they need to do instead...
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...resulting in massive changes in their love lives...from finally finding the right partner (and getting engaged) to walking away from a relationship that was draining them, instead of making them feel happy and fulfilled...and creating healthy boundaries for future relationships.
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Real transformations and results, and not from games or gimmicks.
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As with them, the problem isn’t who you are – it’s how you see yourself.
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And the good news? That can be changed.
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I’ve put together a 5-part mini-course with some of the the teachings and tools that I've used to help other men like you:- Overcome anxiety and build unshakeable confidence
- Stop over-chasing by valuing yourself first
- Get clear on what you want so you can date with intention
- Attract the right woman by being authentic and aligned
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If you’re ready to shift your mindset and see real changes then check out the paid mini-course by clicking this link.
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If you're not ready to invest in this kind of work on yourself just yet, but would like some insights to help you on your dating journey then join my FREE Telegram broadcast channel 'How to Attract the Right Person'. You'll get weekly insights to help you attract, find and choose your dream partner.
Click here to join the channel.
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I look forward to supporting you on your dating journey, either way. :) - How to Attract the Right Person (Free Dating Insights for Self-Aware Singles)Link visible for attendees
(Join the free channel here.) READ THE DESCRIPTION FOR DETAILS.
Are you a self-aware single — someone who’s done the work, reflected deeply, and tried to understand why dating just isn’t clicking — but still can’t figure out exactly what’s getting in the way of attracting the right person?
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If you’re craving insight, clarity, and a roadmap to the kind of love you know you’re ready for, this free Telegram broadcast channel is for you.
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Inside, I’ll share:- The exact steps to align your inner world with the relationship you want
- Practical outer-world actions to help you find and attract the right person
- A breakdown of why it hasn’t worked so far — and what to shift
- How to take things
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You’ll learn who you need to BE and what you need to DO to attract the relationship that matches your heart, values, and vision.
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This is for people who know they have the power to turn their love life around — they just need the missing piece.
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💌 Already inside the channel: a foundational training on How to Attract the Right Person — to help you spot exactly which part of the formula you’ve been missing. 🤔
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And from there, I’ll break it all down weekly via short audios, plus drop in bonus insights, resources, and supportive offers to go deeper, if/when you're ready.
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💡This isn’t for you if you’re looking for tips, tricks or dating hacks (like how to text to make someone commit, how to flirt perfectly, or what to wear on a date). If you want that kind of personalised help, you’re welcome to reach out using this link.
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But if you’re done with guesswork, and ready to roll up your sleeves and do the inner and outer work that leads to real love — then come and join us in the free Telegram channel 'How to Attract the Right Person' to get started.
➡ Click here to join
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See you in there! ✨ - How to Attract the Right Man (Mini-Course)Link visible for attendees
(Paid course: click here for access or join the FREE Telegram channel here.)
You’re an incredible, high-achieving woman. You’ve built a great life — you have good friends, a thriving career or business, and a busy, fulfilling lifestyle. But when it comes to love?
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That’s the one thing that still isn’t falling into place.
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You’ve tried: putting yourself out there, dating, reading the books, listening to the podcasts.
You’re attracting men, even getting into relationships… but none of them last. And honestly? You’re tired of another promising connection turning into heartache.
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You start wondering: What am I doing wrong? Is it me? Why does this keep happening?
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I get it — because I lived it.
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For 17 years, I went through the cycle of unsuccessful relationships, situationships, and disappointments. And it wasn’t until I got real help and uncovered my blind spots that things finally changed.
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I realised I was standing in my own way. The men I attracted—and the relationships I settled for—were a reflection of what I believed about myself, love, and relationships.
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And once I shifted those beliefs? Everything changed.
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I became clear on what I truly wanted, raised my standards, and started attracting emotionally available men — until I finally met my Dream Guy. And now? I'm in the healthiest, happiest relationship of my life. 🥰
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That’s why I created the "How to Attract the Right Man" Mini-Course—so you don’t have to waste years figuring it out like I did.
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Inside this paid course, you’ll learn how to:
✅ Uncover what’s unconsciously blocking you from attracting the right partner.✅ Get super clear on what you truly desire so you stop wasting time on the wrong men.
✅ Attract the kind of partner you actually want—by becoming your most aligned self to that ideal partner.
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Click here to learn more.
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Even if you’re skeptical, you owe it to yourself to at least try a new approach. Add this to everything else you’ve been learning and see how it shifts things for you.
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If you're not ready to invest in this kind of support just yet, then join my FREE Telegram broadcast channel 'How to Attract the Right Person' for weekly insights to help you learn what you need to do to attract, find and choose your dream partner. You can sign up for the course later if you decide you want to take your shifts deeper.
Click here to join the free channel..
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Wishing you love.T 🤍
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P.S. Imagine never again having to wonder if the guy you’re seeing is "the one" — because you just know. Let’s get you there. Click here to sign up now.
