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This group is for you if you’re done with guesswork in dating and ready to attract the relationship you know you deserve.

Whether you're a divorced, single professional woman or man - and you've done the healing, you're self-aware, and now you're ready for real love - you're in the right place. 😎

I run powerful workshops and events, based on my Dream Partner Formula™ framework, designed to help you date with clarity, confidence and intention - so you can attract a partner who’s aligned with your values, vision, and future… and build a relationship that truly lasts. 💞

We don’t do shallow dating advice here. We go deep - on mindset, patterns, and the energy you’re bringing into dating - so you’re not wasting time on misaligned connections, and instead calling in love that feels nourishing, reciprocal and aligned. 🥰

I also offer you support to PRACTICALLY find your person, so you don't have to second-guess, and you have a clear path forward.

If you’re ready to meet someone who matches your depth, your values, and your heart… this space will support your journey every step of the way.

Here’s how to go deeper:-

💌 Telegram Channel
Click here to join my FREE Telegram channel 'Conscious Dating for Divorced Women & Men' Exclusive dating and relationship content and subscriber-only offers to help you stay aligned, intentional and supported while dating.

💌 Email List
Join my email list for behind-the-scenes insights, value-packed content, and exclusive offers only for my email community. Click here to sign up.

💌 Free Guide
Click here to download my FREE Relationship Readiness Checklist & Conscious Dating Guide
Uncover what’s blocking your relationship success - and how to date in a way that leads to real love.

About Me:
I’m Topé (pronounced Top-Air), a Relationship, Dating & Self-Love Coach for high-achieving divorced women and men. I'm trained with the Relationship Coaching Institute, and I support clients through transformational 1:1 and group coaching, and courses that empower you to shift patterns and find aligned love. 💞

My own journey took nearly 20 years post-divorce to get it right 😳🫣  - and now I help others shorten that path and finally get what they want in love. I don't want it to take as long for you!

If you’re ready to stop settling, start showing up differently, and find your person - I’d love to support you. 🤗

Coach Topé
✨ Your Conscious Dating Guide

Upcoming events

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  • Find Your Match Virtual Mixer Event
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    Find Your Match Virtual Mixer Event

    Online

    PAID EVENT. (Free for Matchmaking Pool members). Click here to join. PLEASE READ ALL DETAILS.⬇️

    A fun, friendly virtual mixer to connect with members of the Matchmaking Pool and other Meet-Up group members - a safe, relaxed space to meet genuine singles who, like you, are open to finding a meaningful connection...from across the UK, Ireland and Europe.
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    If you’ve ever wished you could just meet people instead of endlessly swiping, this is your chance!
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    During this event, you’ll:
    ✨ Meet other singles in small breakout groups (so you actually get to talk!)
    ✨ Practise your Power Introduction - a simple, authentic way to screen people based on your values
    ✨ Enjoy guided prompts and conversation starters so you never run out of things to say
    ✨ Have the opportunity to connect naturally and see if sparks fly along with being aligned - or at the very least, meet new, like-minded people!
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    There’s no pressure and no promises - just the potential to meet someone aligned with your values, and a lovely chance to have some fun, genuine conversations in good company. 💫
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    Before you grab your ticket...

    If you'd like a free ticket for future Virtual Mixers, plus the opportunity to be matched with potentially aligned singles outside of the event, then check out the Find Your Match Club.
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    You'll be added to the Matchmaking Pool, where I regularly review profiles to connect people based on their aligned values and preferences, so there's another opportunity to be connected with a match as well as potentially meeting someone at the Mixer.
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    You'll also get ongoing guidance with practical steps, dating tools/guides and personalised support each week to help you find your match as you continue to date in person, or online, plus a Telegram Community Chat with other Club and Pool members.
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    All of this for the same price as your ticket for this event - which is £10.
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    💬 A note from me:
    I know dating can feel frustrating and disconnected at times, which is why I wanted to create a space where people can meet face to face, share real conversations, and see what happens from there.
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    You might meet your match, make a friend, or simply walk away feeling refreshed, confident, and more hopeful about dating again.
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    And if you join the Find Your Match Club you'll still be part of the Matchmaking Pool, for ongoing consideration for matching - so if you don't meet someone obviously aligned at the Mixer, I may still reach out to you because of information I'll have. 😉
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    Hope to see you in there. 😊✨

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  • Are you ready to date again? (FREE checklist)
    Online

    Are you ready to date again? (FREE checklist)

    Online

    (THIS IS NOT A LIVE EVENT) CLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD FOR FREE
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    A lot of people think they’re ready to find love again after divorce or a breakup… but then dating ends up feeling harder than it should.
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    That’s usually because they skipped the most important step: checking if they’re truly relationship-ready.
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    I’ve created a simple *'**Are You Ready to Date?' ***checklist to help you figure out if you’re actually prepared to attract the kind of partner you want.
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    💡 In just 10 questions, you’ll know:

    • If you’ve made space in your life for a partner
    • Whether you’re still carrying baggage from the past
    • The hidden mindset shifts that make dating easier (and more fun!)

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    Grab your free checklist by clicking this link.
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    Most people are surprised by what comes up.
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    You'll also get a couple of bonuses to help you with getting out there to date again and have a successful relationship - an insight into what the most important factor is in being ready to date again to find your ideal relationship, and some practical tips that you can apply now.
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    Grab the checklist today and see what it reveals about you.
    Download it here

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    8 attendees
  • Are you ready to date again? (FREE checklist)
    Online

    Are you ready to date again? (FREE checklist)

    Online

    (THIS IS NOT A LIVE EVENT) CLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD FOR FREE
    .

    A lot of people think they’re ready to find love again after divorce or a breakup… but then dating ends up feeling harder than it should.
    .

    That’s usually because they skipped the most important step: checking if they’re truly relationship-ready.
    .

    I’ve created a simple *'**Are You Ready to Date?' ***checklist to help you figure out if you’re actually prepared to attract the kind of partner you want.
    .

    💡 In just 10 questions, you’ll know:

    • If you’ve made space in your life for a partner
    • Whether you’re still carrying baggage from the past
    • The hidden mindset shifts that make dating easier (and more fun!)

    .

    Grab your free checklist by clicking this link.
    .

    Most people are surprised by what comes up.
    .

    You'll also get a couple of bonuses to help you with getting out there to date again and have a successful relationship - an insight into what the most important factor is in being ready to date again to find your ideal relationship, and some practical tips that you can apply now.
    .

    Grab the checklist today and see what it reveals about you.
    Download it here

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    3 attendees
  • Are you ready to date again? (FREE checklist)
    Online

    Are you ready to date again? (FREE checklist)

    Online

    (THIS IS NOT A LIVE EVENT) CLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD FOR FREE
    .

    A lot of people think they’re ready to find love again after divorce or a breakup… but then dating ends up feeling harder than it should.
    .

    That’s usually because they skipped the most important step: checking if they’re truly relationship-ready.
    .

    I’ve created a simple *'**Are You Ready to Date?' ***checklist to help you figure out if you’re actually prepared to attract the kind of partner you want.
    .

    💡 In just 10 questions, you’ll know:

    • If you’ve made space in your life for a partner
    • Whether you’re still carrying baggage from the past
    • The hidden mindset shifts that make dating easier (and more fun!)

    .

    Grab your free checklist by clicking this link.
    .

    Most people are surprised by what comes up.
    .

    You'll also get a couple of bonuses to help you with getting out there to date again and have a successful relationship - an insight into what the most important factor is in being ready to date again to find your ideal relationship, and some practical tips that you can apply now.
    .

    Grab the checklist today and see what it reveals about you.
    Download it here

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