
What we’re about
This group is for you if you’re done with guesswork in dating and ready to attract the relationship you know you deserve.
Whether you're a divorced, single professional woman or man — and you've done the healing, you're self-aware, and now you're ready for real love — you're in the right place. 😎
I run powerful workshops and events designed to help you date with clarity, confidence and intention — so you can attract a partner who’s aligned with your values, vision, and future… and build a relationship that truly lasts. 💞
We don’t do shallow dating advice here. We go deep — on mindset, patterns, and the energy you’re bringing into dating — so you’re not wasting time on misaligned connections, and instead calling in love that feels nourishing, reciprocal and aligned. 🥰
If you’re ready to meet someone who matches your depth, your values, and your heart… this space will support your journey every step of the way.
Here’s how to go deeper:-
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Click here to download my FREE Relationship Readiness Quiz & Conscious Dating Guide
Uncover what’s blocking your relationship success — and how to date in a way that leads to real love.
About Me:
I’m Topé (pronounced Top-Air), a Relationship, Dating & Self-Love Coach for high-achieving divorced women and men. I'm trained with the Relationship Coaching Institute, and I support clients through transformational 1:1 and group coaching, and courses that empower you to shift patterns and find aligned love. 💞
My own journey took nearly 20 years post-divorce to get it right 😳🫣 — and now I help others shorten that path and finally get what they want in love. I don't want it to take as long for you!
If you’re ready to stop settling, start showing up differently, and find your person — I’d love to support you. 🤗
Coach Topé
✨ Your Conscious Dating Guide✨
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See all- Real-time Dating Advice...Just For YouLink visible for attendees
PAID SERVICE-NOT EVENT-READ DESCRIPTION
Click here to skip to the full details.Dating (and even early relationships) bring up a lot of questions that aren’t so easy to Google.
🤔 “He hasn’t texted back in 3 days - should I wait or move on?”
🤔 “Am I being too picky, or not picky enough?”
🤔 “She says she likes me, but she’s not as affectionate as I am - is that a red flag?”
🤔 “It’s been years since I dated - where do I even start?”
🤔 "I'm feeling a bit insecure about something my partner said, but I don't know how to broach it..."
.I hear these kinds of questions all the time from singles - including people in this group - and sometimes, you just want someone in your corner to help you figure it out without second-guessing yourself. 😵
.Which is where I come in. 😎 As a Dating Coach & Mentor, I usually work with people over a long period of time as part of a coaching package, but I know that not everyone needs a long-term 'container', and just wants some quick support...and sometimes for a short while to navigate an ongoing problem.
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And that’s why I’ve created a few low-cost mentoring options to support you in real-time - and because I love helping out with dating advice 🤗:
.💌 Pay-as-you-go: One question, one answer, whenever you need. (£7)
💌 Weekly Mini Check-In: One question + one follow-up each week. (£12/week - cancel anytime)
💌 Pocket Dating Mentor (£25/week - cancel anytime): A 30-min Telegram session weekly to talk it all through and get clarity.
.📌 Read the full details & get the booking links by clicking this link.
(I’ll update or close spots if I reach capacity, so check early.)
.Dating doesn’t have to feel so confusing. Sometimes a little support makes all the difference. And I'm here for it. 🤗 💕
- Uncover Your Dating Blocks & Attract Better MatchesLink visible for attendees
Free tiny course in Telegram. Complete this form to get the link.
Break the loop. Date better. Feel good doing it. Attract better matches.
Do you ever feel like you're dating on autopilot?...swiping, talking, hoping... only to end up in the same situation with a slightly different face? 🫣
.You're not alone - this was certainly something I went through, and so many people I know have too.
And more importantly, you're not 'broken'...and dating isn't a waste of time. 😌
.You’ve just got patterns. We all do.
.I've created a tiny course in Telegram with 7 clear steps to help you start breaking the unhelpful patterns that are quietly shaping your dating life.
.In this tiny course you'll find voice notes/audio trainings, reflections, prompts and exercises in a Telegram group to help you:
- Recognise what’s really going on underneath your dating choices
- Spot the sneaky patterns keeping you in repeat-mode
- Start shifting how you show up so dating feels clearer, lighter, and a lot less like hard work
- Take real, doable steps toward the relationship you actually want
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Whilst you're in there I'll be in your ear (lucky you 😉), guiding you gently out of the loop and towards better love stories. I'll even be dropping into the group to check on what's coming up for you - to acknowledge your insights/reflections, and celebrate your wins...and if I can't help myself, give you some extra little nudges/insights/reflections. 🤭
.No pressure for you. Just a space to reflect, maybe laugh at yourself a bit if you have any 'doh' moments, and start dating with more awareness (and way less stress).
.This is going to be free for a short time, so if your gut says yes, come and jump in by completing this form and I'll send you the link for the group: bit.ly/datingpatterndecoder
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See you in there. 😊 - The Online Dating Secrets That Actually Work (Audio Course)Link visible for attendees
Paid audio course. Summer sale: £7 (instead of £47). Details below.
Click this link to learn more and get the course.Let’s be honest… online dating can feel like a full-time job you didn’t apply for. 🙄 Endless swiping, conversations that fizzle, and people disappearing like it’s an Olympic sport.
.But what if I told you it doesn’t have to be like that?
.I’ve pulled together my best online dating tips into a fun, no-fluff audio course you can listen to anytime: 'Online Dating Success Secrets'. Based on over a decade of online dating on/off, until I finally met my lovely partner online. 💘 These are the kind of tips that get you matches and quality conversations.
.We’re talking:
- Why online dating hasn’t been working (and what to do about it)
- How to decide which apps are worth your time (and which aren't for you)
- How to write a profile that makes the right people swipe right
- How to move from chatting to actually meeting… without weeks of limbo
- And so much more...
...including how to handle ghosting, juggling multiple matches, and tips specific to men and women.
.🎧 Normally £47, you can grab it now for just £7.
That’s less than a fancy coffee and a croissant… but the results will last longer than the coffee and croissant. 😉
.💌 Click this link to check it out and start your “Oh wow, this actually works” dating era. 🤩
- Are you ready to date again? (FREE checklist)Link visible for attendees
(THIS IS NOT A LIVE EVENT) CLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD FOR FREE
.A lot of people think they’re ready to find love again after divorce or a breakup… but then dating ends up feeling harder than it should.
.That’s usually because they skipped the most important step: checking if they’re truly relationship-ready.
.I’ve created a simple *'**Are You Ready to Date?' ***checklist to help you figure out if you’re actually prepared to attract the kind of partner you want.
.💡 In just 10 questions, you’ll know:
- If you’ve made space in your life for a partner
- Whether you’re still carrying baggage from the past
- The hidden mindset shifts that make dating easier (and more fun!)
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➡ Grab your free checklist by clicking this link.
.Most people are surprised by what comes up.
.And if you want to go deeper, and take any action, I’m offering a complimentary 30-min Relationship Success call to talk through your results and map out your next step so it feels easy to do.
.Spots are limited, so grab the checklist today and see what it reveals about you.
✨ Download it here