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Click here to join my FREE Telegram channel 'Conscious Dating for Divorced Women & Men'This group is for you if you’re done with guesswork in dating and ready to attract the relationship you know you deserve.

Whether you're a divorced, single professional woman or man - and you've done the healing, you're self-aware, and now you're ready for real love - you're in the right place. 😎

I run powerful workshops and events, based on my Dream Partner Formula™ framework, designed to help you date with clarity, confidence and intention - so you can attract a partner who’s aligned with your values, vision, and future… and build a relationship that truly lasts. 💞

We don’t do shallow dating advice here. We go deep - on mindset, patterns, and the energy you’re bringing into dating - so you’re not wasting time on misaligned connections, and instead calling in love that feels nourishing, reciprocal and aligned. 🥰

I also offer you support to PRACTICALLY find your person, so you don't have to second-guess, and you have a clear path forward.

If you’re ready to meet someone who matches your depth, your values, and your heart… this space will support your journey every step of the way.

Here’s how to go deeper:-

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Uncover what’s blocking your relationship success - and how to date in a way that leads to real love.

About Me:
I’m Topé (pronounced Top-Air), a Relationship, Dating & Self-Love Coach for high-achieving divorced women and men. I'm trained with the Relationship Coaching Institute, and I support clients through transformational 1:1 and group coaching, and courses that empower you to shift patterns and find aligned love. 💞

My own journey took nearly 20 years post-divorce to get it right 😳🫣  - and now I help others shorten that path and finally get what they want in love. I don't want it to take as long for you!

If you’re ready to stop settling, start showing up differently, and find your person - I’d love to support you. 🤗

Coach Topé
✨ Your Conscious Dating Guide

Upcoming events

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  • Let's talk about your dating challenge & solve it! (1:1 complimentary call)

    Let's talk about your dating challenge & solve it! (1:1 complimentary call)

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    NOT AN EVENT. This is a placeholder for my availability. Book your 1:1 complimentary call here. (Please only book if you're definitely going to be on the call - not just a 'maybe'. 😊)
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    Got something in dating that’s been bugging you? Maybe it’s online dating feeling like a chore, getting ghosted, or wondering where on earth to meet people who actually get you?
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    I’d love to help. 🤗
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    I’m offering a zero-cost 15-minute 1:1 audio call in Telegram, where you can bring one dating challenge to the table, and together we’ll untangle it. Think of it as a little spotlight session just for you. 🤩
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    Here’s what will happen:
    ✔️ You share what’s been tricky or confusing for you
    ✔️ I’ll give you a fresh perspective or a practical tip you can use straight away
    ✔️ You’ll leave the call with more clarity and a doable next step
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    This is a space to connect, talk through your challenge, and make dating feel lighter.
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    ✨Spaces are limited, so if your gut says yes, grab your spot now by clicking this link here. I’d love to chat with you!✨

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  • The Real Reason Dating Hasn't Worked For You (Yet) Workshop

    The Real Reason Dating Hasn't Worked For You (Yet) Workshop

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    PAID WORKSHOP for self-aware daters ready for change. Sign up here.

    If you’re someone who’s done the inner work - therapy, reflection, personal growth - and yet dating still feels frustrating, confusing, or repetitive…this workshop is for you.
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    This isn’t about dating apps, surface-level tips, or being told to “just be more confident.”
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    It’s about understanding the patterns that quietly shape who you’re attracted to, how you show up in dating, and why certain connections never quite become what you hoped they would.
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    Most of us don’t struggle with dating because we’re “doing it wrong.”
    We struggle because unconscious patterns are running the show.
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    In this interactive workshop, you’ll be guided to:

    • Identify your top dating patterns
    • Understand where they come from and what they’re protecting you from
    • See why awareness alone hasn’t created lasting change
    • Begin shifting the pattern — without shame or self-blame

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    This space will include:

    • Teaching and reflection
    • Guided journaling
    • A small number of live hot-seat coaching moments (optional to participate in)

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    This is a space for people who:

    • Are growth-minded and emotionally self-aware
    • Are open to honest self-reflection
    • Believe dating success starts internally, not with strategies alone

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    You’ll leave with clarity - not pressure - and a deeper understanding of what’s actually needed to move forward intentionally.
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    ✨ This is insight-led, compassionate work - not a quick fix.✨
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    Register here.
    Ticket price: £10
    Replay available for ticket holders

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    7 attendees
  • Let's talk about your dating challenge & solve it! (1:1 complimentary call)

    Let's talk about your dating challenge & solve it! (1:1 complimentary call)

    ·
    Online
    Online

    This is a placeholder for my availability-NOT AN EVENT. Book your 1:1 complimentary call here. (Please only book if you're definitely going to be on the call - not just a 'maybe'. 😊)
    .
    Got something in dating that’s been bugging you? Maybe it’s online dating feeling like a chore, getting ghosted, or wondering where on earth to meet people who actually get you?
    .

    I’d love to help. 🤗
    .

    I’m offering a zero-cost 15-minute 1:1 audio call in Telegram, where you can bring one dating challenge to the table, and together we’ll untangle it. Think of it as a little spotlight session just for you. 🤩
    .

    Here’s what will happen:
    ✔️ You share what’s been tricky or confusing for you
    ✔️ I’ll give you a fresh perspective or a practical tip you can use straight away
    ✔️ You’ll leave the call with more clarity and a doable next step
    .

    This is a space to connect, talk through your challenge, and make dating feel lighter.
    .

    ✨Spaces are limited, so if your gut says yes, grab your spot now by clicking this link here. I’d love to chat with you!✨

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    2 attendees
  • Find Your Match Virtual Mixer Event-Europe Edition

    Find Your Match Virtual Mixer Event-Europe Edition

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    PAID EVENT. (Free for Matchmaking Pool & Find Your Match Club members). Click here to join. PLEASE READ ALL DETAILS.⬇️

    A fun, friendly virtual mixer to connect with members of the Matchmaking Pool and other Meet-Up group members - a safe, relaxed space to meet genuine singles who, like you, are open to finding a meaningful connection...from across Europe.
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    If you’ve ever wished you could just meet people instead of endlessly swiping, this is your chance!
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    During this event, you’ll:
    ✨ Meet other singles in small breakout groups (so you actually get to talk!)
    ✨ Practise screening people based on your values
    ✨ Enjoy guided prompts and conversation starters so you never run out of things to say
    ✨ Have the opportunity to connect naturally and see if sparks fly along with being aligned - or at the very least, meet new, like-minded people!
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    There’s no pressure and no promises - just the potential to meet someone aligned with your values, and a lovely chance to have some fun, genuine conversations in good company...our previous Mixers have had some very positive feedback! 💫
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    Before you grab your ticket...

    If you'd like a free ticket for future Virtual Mixers, plus the opportunity to be matched with potentially aligned singles outside of the event, then check out the Find Your Match Club.
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    You'll be added to the Matchmaking Pool, where I regularly review profiles to connect people based on their aligned values and preferences, so there's another opportunity to be connected with a match as well as potentially meeting someone at the Mixer.
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    You'll also get ongoing guidance with practical steps, dating tools/guides and personalised support each week to help you find your match as you continue to date in person, or online, plus a Telegram Community Chat with other Club and Pool members.
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    All of this for the same price as your ticket for this event - which is £10.
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    💬 A note from me:
    I know dating can feel frustrating and disconnected at times, which is why I wanted to create a space where people can meet face to face, share real conversations, and see what happens from there.
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    You might meet your match, make a friend, or simply walk away feeling refreshed, confident, and more hopeful about dating again.
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    And if you join the Find Your Match Club you'll still be part of the Matchmaking Pool, for ongoing consideration for matching - so if you don't meet someone obviously aligned at the Mixer, I may still reach out to you because of information I'll have. 😉
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    Hope to see you in there. 😊✨

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