
What we’re about
This group is for you if you’re done with guesswork in dating and ready to attract the relationship you know you deserve.
Whether you're a divorced, single professional woman or man - and you've done the healing, you're self-aware, and now you're ready for real love - you're in the right place. 😎
I run powerful workshops and events, based on my Dream Partner Formula™ framework, designed to help you date with clarity, confidence and intention - so you can attract a partner who’s aligned with your values, vision, and future… and build a relationship that truly lasts. 💞
We don’t do shallow dating advice here. We go deep - on mindset, patterns, and the energy you’re bringing into dating - so you’re not wasting time on misaligned connections, and instead calling in love that feels nourishing, reciprocal and aligned. 🥰
I also offer you support to PRACTICALLY find your person, so you don't have to second-guess, and you have a clear path forward.
If you’re ready to meet someone who matches your depth, your values, and your heart… this space will support your journey every step of the way.
Here’s how to go deeper:-
💌 Telegram Channel
Click here to join my FREE Telegram channel 'Conscious Dating for Divorced Women & Men' Exclusive dating and relationship content and subscriber-only offers to help you stay aligned, intentional and supported while dating.
💌 Email List
Join my email list for behind-the-scenes insights, value-packed content, and exclusive offers only for my email community. Click here to sign up.
💌 Free Guide
Click here to download my FREE Relationship Readiness Checklist & Conscious Dating Guide
Uncover what’s blocking your relationship success - and how to date in a way that leads to real love.
About Me:
I’m Topé (pronounced Top-Air), a Relationship, Dating & Self-Love Coach for high-achieving divorced women and men. I'm trained with the Relationship Coaching Institute, and I support clients through transformational 1:1 and group coaching, and courses that empower you to shift patterns and find aligned love. 💞
My own journey took nearly 20 years post-divorce to get it right 😳🫣 - and now I help others shorten that path and finally get what they want in love. I don't want it to take as long for you!
If you’re ready to stop settling, start showing up differently, and find your person - I’d love to support you. 🤗
Coach Topé
✨ Your Conscious Dating Guide✨
Upcoming events
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•OnlineHow to Attract the Right Person (Free Masterclass)
OnlineSign up here for the Zoom link - and replay if you can't make it live.
❤️🩹 Are you tired of feeling hopeful at the start of every year…only for your dating life to end up looking exactly the same?
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💌 Maybe you:
- Keep attracting emotionally unavailable people
- Get stuck in situationships
- Choose the same type over and over
- Feel confused about what the “right person” actually looks like
- Worry that time is running out
- Or you’re simply exhausted from caring too much and getting too little back
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If any of this feels familiar…this masterclass will feel like a breath of fresh air.
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💌 What you'll learn in this live session:
- The real reason you haven't met the right person yet
(and why it's NOT because "there are no good people left")
- How your attraction patterns are shaping your love life
(and how to shift them to attract healthier connections)
- The 3 essential shifts to finally attract an aligned partner in 2026
- The difference between chemistry, connection, and compatibility
(and knowing this changes everything)
- What needs to be left behind in 2025
(so you don't repeat the same dating year again)
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💌 Who this class is for:
- Singles who want a meaningful, aligned relationship
- Divorced/separated women and men ready to date again (but differently this time)
- Anyone tired of surface-level dating advice
- People who want real clarity, not more rules
- You, if you want 2026 to finally feel different
💌 Why this masterclass will help you:
Dating doesn’t change until you change how you date.
This session gives you the truth, clarity, and direction you need - without blaming you, rushing you, or telling you to “just get back out there.”
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💌 You will walk away with:
- A clearer understanding of your patterns
- The mindset shift needed to attract the right person
- Hope, confidence, and a plan for 2026
- A sense that you are NOT alone in this
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Sign up here to join so you can get the Zoom link, and the replay if you can't make it live.
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Come with an open mind.
Leave with a hopeful heart and a clearer path forward.
I can’t wait to help you. 🤗31 attendees
•OnlineFancy Being Matched With Someone? (Matchmaking Pool,Community,Mixers&Support)💞
OnlineNOT AN EVENT. Paid community membership for connecting with singles. Read details below.
Are you ready to find your ideal match, with more ease, less second-guessing, and more opportunities? 👀 (Click here for details)
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How would you like to increase the opportunities to find your ideal person, along with some guidance and support so that you're not having to figure it out alone?
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You can get all this in one place:
- Be matched with someone aligned
- Chat with other genuine singles (not like a dating chat room though)
- Attend Virtual Mixers with other singles without a paid ticket
- Get your personal dating questions answered to clear up confusion and get direction
- Guidance for meeting people in person and/or online
- Practical steps/actions and mindset support to attract your ideal partner with ease
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I've had calls and conversations with so many singles from this group - looking for support with finding their person. And as an intentional dating coach and mentor, my mission is to help singles to find the love they're looking for, with more ease, less frustration, more fun, and less second-guessing.
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I also love to personally bring people together - which is why I created my Matchmaking Pool for the Meet-Up group, as I'm sure there must be so many great matches amongst the 2,500+ members here! 💘
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I've now opened the doors to Find Your Match Club - where I will support you weekly with finding your ideal partner either in person, online or through being matched with someone from the Pool.
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Each week you will get practical steps, tools/guides, mindset help, and opportunities to ask your questions, and I'll be checking the pool regularly to see if a new match for you has joined.
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You can chat to other singles in a group chat to form connections in a low-pressure way, plus you can attend all virtual mixers for free.
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All of this is available to you for the price of a coffee and pastry each month - basically, from £10 per month (you can cancel anytime).
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I'd love to help you find love, if you'd like the help. 🤗
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If you're curious, or would like to join find out more here.
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I look forward to supporting you on your path to love. 😍9 attendees
•OnlineAre you ready to date again? (FREE checklist)
Online(THIS IS NOT A LIVE EVENT) CLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD FOR FREE
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A lot of people think they’re ready to find love again after divorce or a breakup… but then dating ends up feeling harder than it should.
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That’s usually because they skipped the most important step: checking if they’re truly relationship-ready.
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I’ve created a simple *'**Are You Ready to Date?' ***checklist to help you figure out if you’re actually prepared to attract the kind of partner you want.
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💡 In just 10 questions, you’ll know:
- If you’ve made space in your life for a partner
- Whether you’re still carrying baggage from the past
- The hidden mindset shifts that make dating easier (and more fun!)
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➡ Grab your free checklist by clicking this link.
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Most people are surprised by what comes up.
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You'll also get a couple of bonuses to help you with getting out there to date again and have a successful relationship - an insight into what the most important factor is in being ready to date again to find your ideal relationship, and some practical tips that you can apply now.
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Grab the checklist today and see what it reveals about you.
✨ Download it here9 attendees
•OnlineAre you ready to date again? (FREE checklist)
Online(THIS IS NOT A LIVE EVENT) CLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD FOR FREE
.
A lot of people think they’re ready to find love again after divorce or a breakup… but then dating ends up feeling harder than it should.
.
That’s usually because they skipped the most important step: checking if they’re truly relationship-ready.
.
I’ve created a simple *'**Are You Ready to Date?' ***checklist to help you figure out if you’re actually prepared to attract the kind of partner you want.
.
💡 In just 10 questions, you’ll know:
- If you’ve made space in your life for a partner
- Whether you’re still carrying baggage from the past
- The hidden mindset shifts that make dating easier (and more fun!)
.
➡ Grab your free checklist by clicking this link.
.
Most people are surprised by what comes up.
.
You'll also get a couple of bonuses to help you with getting out there to date again and have a successful relationship - an insight into what the most important factor is in being ready to date again to find your ideal relationship, and some practical tips that you can apply now.
.
Grab the checklist today and see what it reveals about you.
✨ Download it here2 attendees
Past events
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