
What we’re about
This group is for you if you’re done with guesswork in dating and ready to attract the relationship you know you deserve.
Whether you're a divorced, single professional woman or man — and you've done the healing, you're self-aware, and now you're ready for real love — you're in the right place. 😎
I run powerful workshops and events designed to help you date with clarity, confidence and intention — so you can attract a partner who’s aligned with your values, vision, and future… and build a relationship that truly lasts. 💞
We don’t do shallow dating advice here. We go deep — on mindset, patterns, and the energy you’re bringing into dating — so you’re not wasting time on misaligned connections, and instead calling in love that feels nourishing, reciprocal and aligned. 🥰
If you’re ready to meet someone who matches your depth, your values, and your heart… this space will support your journey every step of the way.
Here’s how to go deeper:-
💌 Telegram Channel
Click here to join my FREE Telegram channel 'Conscious Dating for Divorced Women & Men' Exclusive dating and relationship content and subscriber-only offers to help you stay aligned, intentional and supported while dating.
💌 Email List
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💌 Free Guide
Click here to download my FREE Relationship Readiness Quiz & Conscious Dating Guide
Uncover what’s blocking your relationship success — and how to date in a way that leads to real love.
About Me:
I’m Topé (pronounced Top-Air), a Relationship, Dating & Self-Love Coach for high-achieving divorced women and men. I'm trained with the Relationship Coaching Institute, and I support clients through transformational 1:1 and group coaching, and courses that empower you to shift patterns and find aligned love. 💞
My own journey took nearly 20 years post-divorce to get it right 😳🫣 — and now I help others shorten that path and finally get what they want in love. I don't want it to take as long for you!
If you’re ready to stop settling, start showing up differently, and find your person — I’d love to support you. 🤗
Coach Topé
✨ Your Conscious Dating Guide✨
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- The Online Dating Secrets That Actually Work (Audio Course)Link visible for attendees
Paid audio course. Summer sale: £7 (instead of £47). Details below.
Click this link to learn more and get the course.Let’s be honest… online dating can feel like a full-time job you didn’t apply for. 🙄 Endless swiping, conversations that fizzle, and people disappearing like it’s an Olympic sport.
.But what if I told you it doesn’t have to be like that?
.I’ve pulled together my best online dating tips into a fun, no-fluff audio course you can listen to anytime: 'Online Dating Success Secrets'. Based on over a decade of online dating on/off, until I finally met my lovely partner online. 💘 These are the kind of tips that get you matches and quality conversations.
.We’re talking:
- Why online dating hasn’t been working (and what to do about it)
- How to decide which apps are worth your time (and which aren't for you)
- How to write a profile that makes the right people swipe right
- How to move from chatting to actually meeting… without weeks of limbo
- And so much more...
...including how to handle ghosting, juggling multiple matches, and tips specific to men and women.
.🎧 Normally £47, you can grab it now for just £7.
That’s less than a fancy coffee and a croissant… but the results will last longer than the coffee and croissant. 😉
.💌 Click this link to check it out and start your “Oh wow, this actually works” dating era. 🤩
- Are you ready to date again? (FREE checklist)Link visible for attendees
(THIS IS NOT A LIVE EVENT) CLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD FOR FREE
.A lot of people think they’re ready to find love again after divorce or a breakup… but then dating ends up feeling harder than it should.
.That’s usually because they skipped the most important step: checking if they’re truly relationship-ready.
.I’ve created a simple *'**Are You Ready to Date?' ***checklist to help you figure out if you’re actually prepared to attract the kind of partner you want.
.💡 In just 10 questions, you’ll know:
- If you’ve made space in your life for a partner
- Whether you’re still carrying baggage from the past
- The hidden mindset shifts that make dating easier (and more fun!)
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➡ Grab your free checklist by clicking this link.
.Most people are surprised by what comes up.
.And if you want to go deeper, and take any action, I’m offering a complimentary 30-min Relationship Success call to talk through your results and map out your next step so it feels easy to do.
.Spots are limited, so grab the checklist today and see what it reveals about you.
✨ Download it here - 4 Simple Dating Upgrades to Attract the Right PersonLink visible for attendees
Join the free Telegram group here for dating insights.
.Ready to make dating feel easier - and a whole lot more successful?
.If you’re a self-aware single who’s done some work (or maybe a lot) on yourself, reflected on past relationships, and even dabbled with dating apps or real-life meet-ups… but you still can’t figure out why it’s not clicking - this group is for you.
.Inside my free Telegram group over the coming weeks, we’ll be exploring four key areas that can make or break your dating success:
.💌 Your Online Dating Profile – how to make it stand out for all the right reasons
💬 Messaging – what to say so conversations actually lead somewhere
🌍 Meeting People in Real Life – how to create more opportunities without feeling awkward
💖 Being Relationship-Ready – how to make sure you’re truly ready for the love you want
.We’ll be having some fun, thought-provoking discussions, sharing lightbulb insights, and I’ll be dropping in freebies to help you move forward in each area.
.Inside the channel, you’ll also get:
✨ Bite-sized trainings with practical steps you can actually use
✨ Clarity on why it hasn’t worked so far - and what to shift
✨ The mix of inner work + outer action that gets results
✨ Bonus resources and supportive offers if/when you’re ready to go deeper
.This isn’t about gimmicks or quick-fix hacks like “The One Text That Makes Them Commit” - it’s about creating genuine connection and becoming the version of you who naturally attracts the right relationship.
.If you’re ready to ditch the guesswork and make dating feel lighter (and even fun again!), click this link to join us here.
.See you inside! ✨
- Fancy being matched with someone? 💞Link visible for attendees
Could your ideal match be in this group? 👀 (Click here for details-paid service.)
.At the time of writing this, there are over 1700 members and rising in this Meet-Up group, and I'd like to think there some great matches amongst you. 💘
.I'd love to bring people together based on their desires - values, lifestyle, interests etc - so I'd like to invite you to join a private, matchmaking pool of like-minded singles who are looking for love with an aligned person...who could potentially be their match.
.So if you're looking for someone aligned, let me help you reduce the overwhelm of endless swiping online with little results. I'll be someone in your corner who gets what you're looking for, and will keep an eye out for potential matches.
.Here's how it works:
- You'll fill out a matchmaking profile form & send me a photo
- You'll get an e-course with tips and strategies to set you up for relationship success (however you meet someone - from the pool or outside of it)
- You'll get a dating pack with personalised tips for connecting, starting conversations, feeling confident with dating and how to decide if they're someone you want to move forward with (which you can use even as you continue to meet people)
- You'll be on my radar for aligned matches - and I'll be in touch if I think I've found someone who suits what you're looking for
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For the potential of meeting someone amazing and aligned without the dating overwhelm - plus other relationship and dating support - a simple (and fab) one-time fee: £20
After that you'll stay on the list - no subscriptions, no ongoing costs.
.If you're interested - or curious - read more details here.
.DM me if you have any questions.
.Here's to potentially finding your person right here. 😍 ✨