About us
Are you tired of online dating? Longing for real, embodied connection, face to face, in the same room?
Softer Dating creates intentional offline dating events in Copenhagen for people who believe that genuine human connection happens in person, not behind a screen.
Our events are guided by facilitators and designed to move beyond small talk, using embodied exercises, somatic awareness, and structured connection formats to help you actually feel what's happening between you and another person, rather than just performing a version of yourself.
Events are held in English, welcome all genders and relationship styles, and are designed for complete beginners. No experience needed, just curiosity.
Most events are held at House of Play, Shetlandsgade 3, Amager, Copenhagen.
Find all upcoming events and sign up at www.softerdating.dk
Upcoming events
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Softer Dating CPH | Ages 21-40
House of Play, shetlandsgade 3, Copenhagen, DKSofter Dating & The alternative to online Dating- (Age 21-40)*
As the summer heat slowly starts to build, we invite you to another round of Softer Dating!
Tickets through House of PlayDating can often times feel very “heady” and intellectual. We think about what to say, try to be funny etc. but by doing that we miss out on a bunch of other juicy and good stuff!
This is for you, if you are ready to explore new ways of being in connection beyond the regular small-talk.
The thing is, our bodies are incredibly good at understanding what they like and dislike. While the mind is busy making up stories, the body, already senses what is happening in this moment.
In this event you are invited to allow your body to lead your experience.
Words and thoughts get to take a little break tonight.
You won’t have to think about what to say next, what to share in order to fill the silence. You get full permission to be in the body, and we will guide you into that space.WHAT YOU'LL TAKE WITH YOU
Beyond the evening itself, many people leave with:
- New ways of connecting - discovering forms of interaction that go beyond talking
- Greater body awareness - more in touch with your own body, your yes, and no
- Self-knowledge - understanding yourself more deeply through experience rather than analysis
- Confidence - both in social spaces and in honoring your own boundaries
- A shifted perspective - on how you approach people and relationships going forward
You'll learn to take responsibility for your own experience, developing the skill and ability to shape what happens rather than waiting for the other person to create it. This often translates into presence, a quality that serves you far beyond dating.
THE EVENING
Part 1: Embodied Moments of connection
You’ll meet a range of people through short, guided one-on-one experiences. By removing the pressure of choosing, we create space to simply be present and curious.
Consent is explicit throughout. All exercises are invitations, you can always choose to do less or observe.Part 2: Guided exploration with choice
As the group has landed and found comfort together, you now choose freely who you want to connect with.
We’ll explore connection through:
• Moving your body (dance, movement)
• Mindful touch (soft, consensual)
• Curious conversations
• Observation & rest (take a break anytime)Touch and closeness may arise, if desired. The atmosphere is intimate but not sexual. No nudity, no pressure.
PS: We don’t share the specific exercises in advance for a couple of reasons: to keep the surprise; because what we do depends on the group’s energy. See it as an invitation to trust and stay curious!
Tickets through House of PlayWHO IS THIS FOR?
People aged 35-55 looking for meaningful connections.
Any gender expression, style of relating, and sexual preference welcome.
DO I NEED EXPERIENCE?
No! Beginners are very welcome.
DO I NEED TO BRING A PARTNER?
No, though it might be nice to bring a friend!TICKETS
280 kr for members
350 kr for non-members
We offer a 20% discount to students and low income. Discounts cannot be used on top of other discounts. Please reach out to info@houseofplay.dk
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Tickets are non-refundable.
Be sure to read our cancellation policy and no-show fee hereCODE OF CONDUCT
Please read our Code of Conduct before attending
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Read about our chili system hereQUESTIONS?
What if I don’t like an exercise?
You can observe instead. We encourage people to take care of their boundaries—it happens and we think it’s wonderful.
What if I feel awkward?
Awkwardness and shyness are welcome. You don’t need to pretend. Most people relax naturally after some time.
What about the gender ratio?
We can’t guarantee your preference will be there, but so far we’ve had a wide, colorful distribution of genders!
What if I’m paired with someone I don’t find attractive?
Softer Dating is about connection, not just romance. Can you bring respect and curiosity, even if there’s no spark? Also, know that you can always step out.ABOUT THE FACILITATOR
Hi, I’m Philipp (call me Pyt). I’ve been creating intimate events and workshops for years because I love creating spaces where people can unfold and enjoy themselves.
I work as a life coach and kink facilitator. Check out more at www.softkink.dk
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