What we’re about
### ❤️ What We’re About
Welcome to a conversation-driven community for singles, relationship explorers, and anyone curious about love, growth, and connection. Whether you’re fresh out of something, stuck in a “complicated” situation, figuring out what you want next, or ready to reflect on patterns, you’re in the right place.
We’re here for real talk. This isn’t therapy, a dating service, or a lecture. It’s an interactive space to explore meaningful relationship dynamics together. This is a space to feel seen, heard, and supported. 🥂💕
### 🗣️ What to Expect
Each event is:
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Discussion-based (not therapy, but often therapeutic).
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Peer-led with trained moderators (not licensed clinicians).
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Insight-focused, mixing open conversations, real stories, expert visits, and community wisdom.
We're not here to diagnose, fix, or pressure anyone into sharing. Just thoughtful people asking better questions about love, communication, and connection. We come together to share stories, reflect on dating and relationship patterns, and exchange perspectives with others who are also navigating the world of love, heartbreak, growth, and connection.
### 🔍 What We Explore Together:
- What do I actually want in a relationship?
- Why do certain patterns keep showing up for me?
- How do I spot red flags or recognize green ones?
- What’s blocking deeper emotional connections?
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### 🌈 All Are Welcome
- Singles who are tired of surface-level conversations
- People working on self-awareness and emotional growth
- Relationship-minded folks, dating with intention, not just for fun
- Coaches, therapists, and curious minds who love exploring the psychology of love
Yes, many of our members are single. Some attend to expand their network. Some come with partners. This isn’t a dating group, but it is a great way to meet thoughtful, emotionally intelligent people.
Diversity makes our conversations richer and more real. 💬💕
So grab your virtual cocktail, settle in, and join the conversation. No pressure. No pretense. Just a chance to connect and grow together.
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### 🛡️ Our Community Standards
We believe in kindness, respect, and creating space for all voices. Instead of “treat people how you want to be treated,” we believe in:
👉 “Treat people how they actually want to be treated.”
👉 Respect is expected through and through. Disrespectful behavior of any kind will not be tolerated and may result in an immediate ban.
Whether you come to speak, listen, or just reflect silently, there’s room for you here.
We protect your experience with clear guidelines:
- Camera optional, respect nonverbal participation
- No DMs, flirting, or follow-ups without consent
- No coaching, “fixing,” or trauma-dumping
- Moderators guide every session to ensure safety, flow, and mutual respect
For full community guidelines, visit: **👉 https://shorturl.at/hfWzg**
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### 💬 Final Vibe
If you’re looking for real conversations, not just “how’s your week going?”, join us. Bring your curiosity, your questions, and your whole self. We’re not here to impress. We’re here to explore.
✨ And if you want to explore deeper questions solo or with a partner? Check out our conversational card game: 👉 [ www.soulmated.co](www.soulmated.co)
Upcoming events (4)
See all- What Makes a First Date Great? Let’s Redefine It TogetherLink visible for attendees
Forget the checklists, the pressure to impress, or pretending to be someone you’re not.
In this Soulmated session, we’re throwing out the outdated rules and asking a better question:
What does a truly remarkable first date feel like, for you, right now?Whether you’re dating again after a long pause, tired of rinse-and-repeat conversations, or want to feel more you when meeting someone new, this discussion is for you.
Together, we’ll explore:
- What has actually worked for people in our group (and what hasn’t)
- Emotional green flags to look for on a first date
- How to create dates that feel authentic, safe, and energizing
- What first-date “scripts” we are done following
You don’t need a date on your calendar to benefit from this. You need curiosity, a little courage, and the desire to show up differently.
💬 What to Expect
This is a peer-led group discussion; there’s no formal presentation or coaching. You’ll have the chance to reflect, share, and hear from others on similar journeys. Whether you speak up or listen in, you’re welcome here.🎉 This session is perfect for anyone wondering whether to follow the sparks or give slow-burning love a chance!
✨ Join us for an eye-opening conversation that might change the way you think about love! Whether you’ve been caught up in the chase for instant sparks or are wondering if you should give that slow-burning connection a chance, this discussion is for you. 💬💞
🎥 P.S. For a more engaging experience, we encourage you to turn on your camera during the session! Your privacy is important to us, and all discussions will be handled with the utmost respect and confidentiality.
🛒 Explore our products here: https://shorturl.at/hpqw1
- Talk, Flirt, or Freeze? How to Navigate First-Date Energy.Link visible for attendees
You’ve made it to the first date. The setting’s right. The vibe seems promising.
But now what?Do you talk deeply or keep it light? Flirt a little or play it safe?
What if the energy feels off, or worse, you freeze?In this session, we’ll unpack the unspoken part of first dates: the energy between two people. You’ll learn how to tune into your own pace, manage nerves, and navigate real-time connection, without spiraling into self-doubt or overanalyzing every word.
Together, we’ll explore:
- How to shift from “performance mode” into presence
- Ways to read body language, emotional cues, and tone
- The difference between natural chemistry and forced effort
- How to stay confident when things feel awkward or uncertain
- Tools to recover mid-date if you’re feeling thrown off
Whether you tend to overshare, freeze up, or drift into autopilot, this session offers clarity and grounding, so your next date feels less like a test and more like a genuine human moment.
💬 What to Expect
This is a peer-led group discussion; there’s no formal presentation or coaching. You’ll have the chance to reflect, share, and hear from others on similar journeys. Whether you speak up or listen in, you’re welcome here.🎉 This session is perfect for anyone wondering whether to follow the sparks or give slow-burning love a chance!
✨ Join us for an eye-opening conversation that might change the way you think about love! Whether you’ve been caught up in the chase for instant sparks or are wondering if you should give that slow-burning connection a chance, this discussion is for you. 💬💞
🎥 P.S. For a more engaging experience, we encourage you to turn on your camera during the session! Your privacy is important to us, and all discussions will be handled with the utmost respect and confidentiality.
🛒 Explore our products here: https://shorturl.at/hpqw1
- Left on Read: Ghosting, Self-Worth, and What You Do NextLink visible for attendees
The message was seen.
But the reply never came.
Now you’re stuck between doubt, overthinking, and silence.Sound familiar?
In this Soulmated session, we’re getting real about ghosting, mixed signals, and the emotional impact of being left hanging, whether it’s after one date or weeks of texting.
This isn’t just about why they disappear.
It’s about how you respond and how to stay grounded in your self-worth even when someone else pulls away without explanation.We’ll explore:
- Why ghosting feels so personal (even when it’s not)
- What your nervous system does when the connection is abruptly cut off
- How to tell the difference between emotional unavailability vs incompatibility
- How to respond or not respond when someone goes silent
- How to rebuild confidence, clarity, and forward momentum
💬 What to Expect
This is a peer-led group discussion; there’s no formal presentation or coaching. You’ll have the chance to reflect, share, and hear from others on similar journeys. Whether you speak up or just listen in, you’re welcome here.🎉 This session is perfect for anyone wondering whether to follow the sparks or give slow-burning love a chance!
✨ Join us for an eye-opening conversation that might just change the way you think about love! Whether you’ve been caught up in the chase for instant sparks or are wondering if you should give that slow-burning connection a chance, this discussion is for you. 💬💞
🎥 P.S. For a more engaging experience, we encourage you to turn on your camera during the session! Your privacy is important to us, and all discussions will be handled with the utmost respect and confidentiality.
🛒 Explore our products here: https://shorturl.at/hpqw1
- Are You Dating Patterns or Possibilities?Link visible for attendees
You meet someone new.
It feels exciting. Familiar. Intense.
But a few weeks later, it unravels in precisely the same way as the last one.Sound familiar?
In this Soulmated session, we’re exploring the hidden patterns that shape who we’re drawn to, how we show up, and why we sometimes chase connection that feels predictable but not necessarily right.
This isn’t about blame.
It’s about awakening.We’ll look at:
- The difference between chemistry and compatibility
- How your attachment style and past relationships may be steering your choices
- Why some “types” feel irresistible (even when they’re unavailable)
- Signs you’re stuck in a loop—and how to break it
- What it actually means to date with intention and possibility
If you’ve ever asked yourself:
> “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of person?”
> “Why do I feel bored with healthy connections?”
> “Is it me… or is it them?”
This session is for you.
💬 What to Expect
This is a peer-led group discussion; there’s no formal presentation or coaching. You’ll have the chance to reflect, share, and hear from others on similar journeys. Whether you speak up or just listen in, you’re welcome here.🎉 This session is perfect for anyone wondering whether to follow the sparks or give slow-burning love a chance!
✨ Join us for an eye-opening conversation that might just change the way you think about love! Whether you’ve been caught up in the chase for instant sparks or are wondering if you should give that slow-burning connection a chance, this discussion is for you. 💬💞
🎥 P.S. For a more engaging experience, we encourage you to turn on your camera during the session! Your privacy is important to us, and all discussions will be handled with the utmost respect and confidentiality.
🛒 Explore our products here: https://shorturl.at/hpqw1
