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### ❤️ What We’re About

Welcome to a conversation-driven community for singles, relationship explorers, and anyone curious about love, growth, and connection. Whether you’re fresh out of something, stuck in a “complicated” situation, figuring out what you want next, or ready to reflect on patterns, you’re in the right place.

We’re here for real talk. This isn’t therapy, a dating service, or a lecture. It’s an interactive space to explore meaningful relationship dynamics together. This is a space to feel seen, heard, and supported. 🥂💕

### 🗣️ What to Expect

Each event is:

  • Discussion-based (not therapy, but often therapeutic).

  • Peer-led with trained moderators (not licensed clinicians).

  • Insight-focused, mixing open conversations, real stories, expert visits, and community wisdom.

    We're not here to diagnose, fix, or pressure anyone into sharing. Just thoughtful people asking better questions about love, communication, and connection. We come together to share stories, reflect on dating and relationship patterns, and exchange perspectives with others who are also navigating the world of love, heartbreak, growth, and connection.

### 🔍 What We Explore Together:

  • What do I actually want in a relationship?
  • Why do certain patterns keep showing up for me?
  • How do I spot red flags or recognize green ones?
  • What’s blocking deeper emotional connections?

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### 🌈 All Are Welcome

  • Singles who are tired of surface-level conversations
  • People working on self-awareness and emotional growth
  • Relationship-minded folks, dating with intention, not just for fun
  • Coaches, therapists, and curious minds who love exploring the psychology of love

Yes, many of our members are single. Some attend to expand their network. Some come with partners. This isn’t a dating group, but it is a great way to meet thoughtful, emotionally intelligent people.

Diversity makes our conversations richer and more real. 💬💕
So grab your virtual cocktail, settle in, and join the conversation. No pressure. No pretense. Just a chance to connect and grow together.

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### 🛡️ Our Community Standards

We believe in kindness, respect, and creating space for all voices. Instead of “treat people how you want to be treated,” we believe in:

👉 “Treat people how they actually want to be treated.”
👉 Respect is expected through and through. Disrespectful behavior of any kind will not be tolerated and may result in an immediate ban.

Whether you come to speak, listen, or just reflect silently, there’s room for you here.
We protect your experience with clear guidelines:

  • Camera optional, respect nonverbal participation
  • No DMs, flirting, or follow-ups without consent
  • No coaching, “fixing,” or trauma-dumping
  • Moderators guide every session to ensure safety, flow, and mutual respect

For full community guidelines, visit:  **👉  https://shorturl.at/hfWzg**

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### 💬 Final Vibe

If you’re looking for real conversations, not just “how’s your week going?”, join us. Bring your curiosity, your questions, and your whole self. We’re not here to impress. We’re here to explore.

✨ And if you want to explore deeper questions solo or with a partner? Check out our conversational card game: 👉 [ www.soulmated.co](www.soulmated.co)

Do I Need to Heal First Before Thinking About Dating?
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Do I Need to Heal First Before Thinking About Dating?

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You’ve heard it before: “You need to heal before you date.” But what does healing really mean, and who decides when you’re ready?

This session is for anyone caught in the “healing trap.” Maybe you’ve been waiting for the perfect moment to feel fully whole, or maybe you’ve wondered if dating itself can be part of healing. Together, we’ll unpack what readiness truly looks like.

Key Takeaways

  • What healing actually looks like in real life (not just in theory).
  • How perfectionism can keep us stuck in endless self-work.
  • Why healing and dating aren’t always separate paths.
  • How to know the difference between avoidance and readiness.
  • Ways to honor your process while still seeking connection.

This is a reflection-heavy, judgment-free space. You can come with doubts, insights, or simply curiosity. No pressure to share if you’d rather listen.Especially meaningful for those focused on self-growth who wonder if love has to wait until they feel “fully healed.”

💬 What to Expect
This is a peer-led discussion, not a therapy session. You’ll have the chance to reflect, share, or simply listen in a judgment-free space.

✨ Let’s explore the pressure to be perfectly healed before dating and why it’s okay to be a work in progress and still want a connection.

🎥 Note: Cameras are encouraged for connection. We follow the Vegas Rule: what’s shared in the meeting stays in the meeting.

🛒 Curious about tools to support both growth and connection? Explore Soulmated at www.soulmated.co

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