About us
### ❤️ What We’re About
Soulmated is a conversation-driven community for singles, relationship explorers, and anyone who wants to get better at love, communication, and connection.
If you’re fresh out of something, stuck in a “complicated” situation, noticing the same patterns repeat, dating with intention, or simply curious about how relationships actually work, you’ll fit right in.
This is not therapy and it’s not a dating service. It’s a guided, interactive space where thoughtful people talk honestly, reflect, and leave with clearer next steps.This is a space to feel seen, heard, and supported. 🥂💕
## ✏️ How We Run Our Sessions
Our core belief is simple: people grow faster when they can think out loud, compare perspectives, and test ideas in real time.
That means most sessions are peer-to-peer and discussion-led, supported by moderators who keep the space safe, structured, and on track. Sometimes we bring in guest experts or speakers to share frameworks and research. When we do, the goal stays the same: give the room useful tools, then open it back up for real conversation, questions, and reflection.
No preaching. No pressure. No performative sharing. Just honest discussion with structure.
### 🗣️ What to Expect
Most of our events are:
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Discussion-based (not therapy, but often therapeutic).
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Peer-led with trained moderators (not licensed clinicians).
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Insight-focused, mixing open conversations, real stories, expert visits, and community wisdom.
We're not here to diagnose, fix, or pressure anyone into sharing. Just thoughtful people asking better questions about love, communication, and connection. We come together to share stories, reflect on dating and relationship patterns, and exchange perspectives with others who are also navigating the world of love, heartbreak, growth, and connection.
### 🔍 What We Explore Together:
- What do I actually want in a relationship?
- Why do certain patterns keep showing up for me?
- How do I spot red flags or recognize green ones?
- What’s blocking deeper emotional connections?
- Choosing better partners and showing up better yourself.
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### 🌈 All Are Welcome
- Singles who are tired of surface-level conversations
- People working on self-awareness and emotional growth
- Relationship-minded folks, dating with intention, not just for fun
- Coaches, therapists, and curious minds who love exploring the psychology of love
Yes, many members are single. Some are partnered. Some are not dating at all and still find the conversations valuable. This is not a matchmaking group, but it is a great place to meet emotionally thoughtful people.
Diversity makes our conversations richer and more real. 💬💕
So grab your virtual cocktail, settle in, and join the conversation. No pressure. No pretense. Just a chance to connect and grow together.
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### 🛡️ Our Community Standards
We believe in kindness, respect, and creating space for all voices. Instead of “treat people how you want to be treated,” we believe in:
👉 Treat people how they actually want to be treated.
👉 Respect is expected through and through. Disrespectful behavior of any kind will
not be tolerated and may result in an immediate ban.
👉No fixing, diagnosing, or coaching people who did not ask for it.
👉No trauma-dumping. We keep it honest, but we keep it contained.
👉No unsolicited DMs, flirting, or follow-ups without consent.
👉Speak from your own experience. Avoid telling others what they “should” do.
👉Full community guidelines: https://shorturl.at/hfWzg
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### 💬 Final Vibe
If you’re looking for real conversations, not just “how’s your week going?”, join us. Bring your curiosity, your questions, and your whole self. We’re not here to impress. We’re here to explore.
✨ And if you want to explore deeper questions solo or with a partner? Check out our conversational card game: 👉 [ www.soulmated.co](www.soulmated.co)
Upcoming events
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The Effort Curve: Why We Impress Early, Then Coast Later
·OnlineOnlineMirror Check: Where do I drop effort once I feel secure? 🪞
“Am I consistent, or am I only impressive?”🗣️Early dating has energy. You text back fast. You plan. You show up sharp.
Then comfort hits. The effort dips. The little things fade. And people start asking: What changed?This month, we’re doing a self-audit. Not a blame session about “men” or “women.” A real look at how we each shift when we feel chosen, safe, busy, or unsure.
### What we’re exploring
- The difference between impressing and investing
- Why effort drops once we feel secure, or once we stop feeling curious
- How comfort can quietly turn into autopilot
- The stories we tell ourselves to justify coasting
- What “consistent love” actually looks like in real life
### What to expect
- A guided conversation with raised hands and live sharing
- Practical prompts and reflection, without breakout rooms
- Real examples from the room, handled with respect and clarity
- A simple “effort reset” you can test immediately
### You’ll leave with
- 3 places you tend to coast once you feel comfortable
- 2 reasons your effort changes (fear, certainty, resentment, burnout, complacency, etc.)
- 1 new habit you will test for the next 14 days to stay intentional
### Who this is for
- You’ve dated someone who started strong then faded
- You’ve realized you do the same thing sometimes
- You want consistency without losing your personality, freedom, or peace
Come as you are. Share if you want to. And let this be a space where love feels just a bit more possible.
🎥 P.S. For a more engaging experience, we encourage you to turn on your camera during the session! Your privacy is important to us, and all discussions will be handled with the utmost respect and confidentiality.
🛒 Explore our products here: https://shorturl.at/hpqw1
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