Letting Go Isn't Avoidance: How To Be Done with the Past

What does it take to get a fresh new start on life? It’s a vital skill that society didn’t teach you and few understand. The answer goes way beyond traditional self-improvement or manifestation techniques. Forgiveness and deserving are just the beginning. Old wounds must be healed, as old lies, denials, and addictions are revealed. This is the so-called ascension time, when the old lifestyle comes to an end with fresh opportunities to create a new world, unique to each individual. Seize the day! Only you can make all of your dreams come true.

Join us Sunday March 28, 2026 for a free life-changing talk on how to refresh your whole approach to life. You’ll learn to work with your own higher deeper consciousness that has all the answers that you’ll ever need, to leave the negative survivalism that made Earth 1.0 such a traumatic experience. Humanity is on the brink of self-destruction exactly because it is ready to claim its divine creatorship in time to fix everything. Don’t wait for others to wake up, you’re the one you’re waiting for! Learn to master your own future choices, so you can live happily ever after in the communities where you belong to thrive.

Each consciousness has always generated its own reality, but the overlapping of collective beliefs made it look like there was one cruel world to compete within and fight over. Now we’re at the end of that tragic false group narrative, so the sub-cultures have split to show who wants to end the world in war and ecological disaster, and who is choosing peace for life everlasting. Folks who fear conspiracies will react blindly as they try to escape the matrix, break the system, and punish whatever trapped them in suffering. The problems is the one who gets punished and judged is the self. The whole paradigm of power must be flipped, which is impossible until you let the living loving Universe be your friend. Life always wanted you to succeed with the spiritual solutions that are real. The old false promises of negative beliefs locked you in self-sabotage, with many miserable cellmates to keep you in codependent company.

The big challenge of leaving a negative reality is taking ownership. We create our own world by the choices that we make, and this ability leads us into situations beyond what we can control directly. There’s lots of mean bad stuff around that we aren’t personally doing. But pushing it away will ironically only bring it closer. This is the mirror effect of reality that can be so confusing. Our life is always about us, with experiences that point back to our original choices. We can work on becoming a better person, until we really are nicer and ready for a better future. But if we still hold onto old patterns of fearing and judging the people we don’t belong with, they won’t go away. Problems can’t disappear until we see how we’re still choosing them.

Problems don’t mean you’re a bad person, they mean you’re a powerful creator who doesn’t know what you’re doing. So when you finally understand the power of your choices, you get compassion for all the confused hurting creators in negative societies. That’s when you can honestly forgive and love even your enemy. “What, I can’t forgive, they need to be punished and imprisoned so they don’t do it again!” But they will do it again if you stay with them in your hopeless attempts to control them. Let the Universe separate people who don’t belong together. Love doesn’t mean living with, it means accepting the right distance to be safe and happy in your own choices. Forgiveness doesn’t mean approval, it means calmly leaving a bad situation forever. No more punishments for anyone. That’s when you can go free, even when others keep themselves imprisoned in their own self-avoidance.

For this meetup, think about where you feel unfairly stuck in life, where outside circumstances seem to control your happiness. What if there’s a deeper level of creator self-awareness that you could claim with more self-love, so then you could be done with a painful past forever? After check-ins to share and relate, I’ll explain how life really works with our own abilities to choose between the positive and negative beliefs that limit daily experience. We need limitations to be human, we just need to choose the limits that keep us happy and healthy. We’ll conclude with a guided meditation to recognize and release the old painful choices, and welcome the soul family that’s ready to live our best dreams with us forever.

Welcome! Our Inner Selves Mastery spiritual support group is free online every Sunday 11am-130pm EDT, with the last 30 minutes for a guided meditation. If you can’t stay you can get the recording. You can signup here for this meeting and visit www.signupISM.com for all events, newsletter, videos, and more.

Best wishes,
Carl Johann Schroeder
Inner Selves Mastery
spiritual teaching and coaching
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