About us
The group is for singles in the St Louis, St Charles, Southern Illinois and nearby cities / counties who want to meet, socialize, hangout and do fun things with other singles.
We create or share fun, safe events to help our members connect and date and here us why ...
Online dating is broken!
You swipe a lot, you text a lot, and once youβve done a lot of both, you may get to say hello face-to-face. Thatβs assuming, of course, the person youβve swiped and texted is real and interested in meeting.
We're sick of it.
Our events are for singles who are ready to β¦.
Meet in-person and in the real -world and β¦
Build real + authentic friendships or connections as a group and then β¦
* Only Date, if their is a mutual connection
In other-words, we provide fun + social activities / events for singles to connect, socialize, build authentic friendships and date when it feels right
* This not the same experience as dating apps where you are on a race to date random strangers based on what they write on their profile or their pictures!
Join Us If You Want an Authentic + Social + Fun Way to Explore Singleness and/or Dating
Learn more about this group's preferred approach to dating,
("The Friendship First Approach") at Shaparon: https://www.shaparon.com
FYI: You may also stay updated with the Saint Louis Dating Singles Group on / off Meetup (e.g. on Facebook) using this link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/stlsinglesmingle
Featured event
πSingles Mask & Mingle Halloween Party at a 100+ Year-Old Historic House
π BEFORE MIDNIGHT STRIKES! Don your finest mask or full costume and step into the moonlight!
π Or sip fall cocktails, mingle in a spooky way and make friends.
π Your perfect match could be one mask away.
π₯ GET TICKET(S) at: https://singlesmingle.fun/p/halloween_m1
π₯ 2026 Halloween Party at a 100+ year-old historic windmill.
β¨ All ages welcome. Masks or costumes optional, mingling required!
π₯ These events are popular and spots are limited, so RSVP now at https://singlesmingle.fun/p/halloween_m1
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### π Note:
β
Food & drinks available for purchase all evening
β
Masks encouraged, costumes welcome OR come as you are!
β
All mingle activities are optional and take place in the same venue and time frame
π Get ticket(s) here:
π https://singlesmingle.fun/p/halloween_m1
### π½οΈ Agenda
6:00 PM β 8:30 PM: Check-in, name tags, and ice-breaker activities
6:00 PM β 9:30 PM: Dinner (optional) & drinks available for purchase
6:00 PM β 10:00 PM: Music, masks, constumes, mingle, and more
9:30 PM β 10:00 PM: Closing connections & last call
***
### π What to Wear?
Halloween chic π β masks, costumes, or just casual night-out attire.
***
### π ΏοΈ Parking
Plenty of parking available on-site.
ποΈ πππ ππ’ππ€ππ(π¬) ππ:
https://singlesmingle.fun/p/halloween_m1
ABOUT SINGLES MINGLE
WELCOMING EVENTS, NOT CLIQUEY CROWDS
People actually come to meet others, not just hang out with the same friend group
ALWAYS NEW FACES
Not the same 5 to 20 people showing up to every event
PROFESSIONALLY HOSTED
Not random. Not chaotic. Not "everyone just figure it out."
We host with intention so you meet new people in a fun way.
DIFFERENT TYPES OF EVENTS FOR DIFFERENT KINDS OF PEOPLE
Dinner nights, pool parties, rooftop nights, game nights, dance nights, and more.
COME FOR YOUR PEOPLE OR JUST A GREAT NIGHT OUT
Some people come looking for a relationship.
Others just want a better social life.
Both belong here.
THE BEST CHANCE TO ACTUALLY MEET SOMEONE NEW
We're the largest IRL singles network in Southern Illinois and Metro St. Louis, which means more people, more fun, and better odds.
Limited tickets. Get yours now: https://singlesmingle.fun/events
Upcoming events
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πSingles Mask & Mingle Halloween Party at a 100+ Year-Old Historic House
Das Bevo, 4749 Gravois Ave, St. Louis, MO, USπ BEFORE MIDNIGHT STRIKES! Don your finest mask or full costume and step into the moonlight!
π Or sip fall cocktails, mingle in a spooky way and make friends.
π Your perfect match could be one mask away.
π₯ GET TICKET(S) at: https://singlesmingle.fun/p/halloween_m1
π₯ 2026 Halloween Party at a 100+ year-old historic windmill.
β¨ All ages welcome. Masks or costumes optional, mingling required!
π₯ These events are popular and spots are limited, so RSVP now at https://singlesmingle.fun/p/halloween_m1
***
### π Note:
β Food & drinks available for purchase all evening
β Masks encouraged, costumes welcome OR come as you are!
β All mingle activities are optional and take place in the same venue and time frame
π Get ticket(s) here:
π https://singlesmingle.fun/p/halloween_m1### π½οΈ Agenda
6:00 PM β 8:30 PM: Check-in, name tags, and ice-breaker activities
6:00 PM β 9:30 PM: Dinner (optional) & drinks available for purchase
6:00 PM β 10:00 PM: Music, masks, constumes, mingle, and more
9:30 PM β 10:00 PM: Closing connections & last call***
### π What to Wear?
Halloween chic π β masks, costumes, or just casual night-out attire.
***
### π ΏοΈ Parking
Plenty of parking available on-site.
ποΈ πππ ππ’ππ€ππ(π¬) ππ:
https://singlesmingle.fun/p/halloween_m1ABOUT SINGLES MINGLE
WELCOMING EVENTS, NOT CLIQUEY CROWDS
People actually come to meet others, not just hang out with the same friend groupALWAYS NEW FACES
Not the same 5 to 20 people showing up to every eventPROFESSIONALLY HOSTED
Not random. Not chaotic. Not "everyone just figure it out."
We host with intention so you meet new people in a fun way.DIFFERENT TYPES OF EVENTS FOR DIFFERENT KINDS OF PEOPLE
Dinner nights, pool parties, rooftop nights, game nights, dance nights, and more.COME FOR YOUR PEOPLE OR JUST A GREAT NIGHT OUT
Some people come looking for a relationship.
Others just want a better social life.
Both belong here.THE BEST CHANCE TO ACTUALLY MEET SOMEONE NEW
We're the largest IRL singles network in Southern Illinois and Metro St. Louis, which means more people, more fun, and better odds.Limited tickets. Get yours now: https://singlesmingle.fun/events
37 attendees
Singles New Year's Eve (NYE) Party
Bar Down Sports Bar, 11133 Lindbergh Business Ct, St. Louis, MO 63123, St. Louis, MO, USStart the year with someone new
Ring in the new year with a room full of singles
Drinks, countdown, and a fresh start all in one night
Nothing beats starting January 1st. with someone new
Come solo or with friends, either way, be ready for a good time
RSVP on our website at: https://singlesmingle.fun/events
ABOUT SINGLES MINGLE
WELCOMING EVENTS, NOT CLIQUEY CROWDS
People actually come to meet others, not just hang out with the same friend groupALWAYS NEW FACES
Not the same 5 to 20 people showing up to every eventPROFESSIONALLY HOSTED
Not random. Not chaotic. Not "everyone just figure it out."
We host with intention so you meet new people in a fun way.DIFFERENT TYPES OF EVENTS FOR DIFFERENT KINDS OF PEOPLE
Dinner nights, pool parties, rooftop nights, game nights, dance nights, and more.COME FOR YOUR PEOPLE OR JUST A GREAT NIGHT OUT
Some people come looking for a relationship.
Others just want a better social life.
Both belong here.THE BEST CHANCE TO ACTUALLY MEET SOMEONE NEW
We're the largest IRL singles network in Southern Illinois and Metro St. Louis, which means more people, more fun, and better odds.Limited tickets. Get yours now: https://singlesmingle.fun/events
14 attendees
Past events
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