About us
The group is for singles in the St Louis, St Charles, Southern Illinois and nearby cities / counties who want to meet, socialize, hangout and do fun things with other singles.
We create or share fun, safe events to help our members connect and date and here us why ...
Online dating is broken!
You swipe a lot, you text a lot, and once you’ve done a lot of both, you may get to say hello face-to-face. That’s assuming, of course, the person you’ve swiped and texted is real and interested in meeting.
We're sick of it.
Our events are for singles who are ready to ….
Meet in-person and in the real -world and …
Build real + authentic friendships or connections as a group and then …
* Only Date, if their is a mutual connection
In other-words, we provide fun + social activities / events for singles to connect, socialize, build authentic friendships and date when it feels right
* This not the same experience as dating apps where you are on a race to date random strangers based on what they write on their profile or their pictures!
Join Us If You Want an Authentic + Social + Fun Way to Explore Singleness and/or Dating
Learn more about this group's preferred approach to dating,
("The Friendship First Approach") at Shaparon: https://www.shaparon.com
FYI: You may also stay updated with the Saint Louis Dating Singles Group on / off Meetup (e.g. on Facebook) using this link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/stlsinglesmingle
Featured event
Singles Pool Party & Summer Splash
This summer, we're taking it poolside, RSVP for a Summer Splash, DJ Dance Night, Pickelball or just to mingle while having fun at : https://singlesmingle.fun/p/poolparty
POOL PARTY
Swim, float, or lounge by the water all night at a private pool and racquet club.
PICKLEBALL COURTS
Rally, compete, and meet people on the courts.
DJ DANCE NIGHT
Live DJ keeping the music going from start to finish.
DINNER & DRINKS
Full kitchen menu and bar service available all night.
LIMITED TICKETS. Get yours before they're gone.
ABOUT SINGLES MINGLE
WELCOMING EVENTS, NOT CLIQUEY CROWDS
People actually come to meet others, not just hang out with the same friend group
ALWAYS NEW FACES
Not the same 5 to 20 people showing up to every event
PROFESSIONALLY HOSTED
Not random. Not chaotic. Not "everyone just figure it out."
We host with intention so you meet new people in a fun way.
DIFFERENT TYPES OF EVENTS FOR DIFFERENT KINDS OF PEOPLE
Dinner nights, pool parties, rooftop nights, game nights, dance nights, and more.
COME FOR YOUR PEOPLE OR JUST A GREAT NIGHT OUT
Some people come looking for a relationship.
Others just want a better social life.
Both belong here.
THE BEST CHANCE TO ACTUALLY MEET SOMEONE NEW
We're the largest IRL singles network in Southern Illinois and Metro St. Louis, which means more people, more fun, and better odds.
Limited tickets. Get yours now: https://singlesmingle.fun/p/poolparty
Upcoming events
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Sing your Favorite Song at Karaoke Night
All American Sports Mall, All American Sports Mall 11133 Lindbergh Business Court, St. Louis, MO, USSing your favorite song or just mingle and watch at Saturday's Karaoke Night.
Saturday, July 18 • 6:00 PM to 11:00 PM
Come solo or bring friends, all adults 21+ welcomeLearn more: http://singlesmingle.fun/p/karaoke
✅ Not a random bar night. A hosted and planned singles event
✅ A fun night out with karaoke, drinks in St. Louis***
✅ Get on stage or just cheer from your seat
✅ Grab a drink and talk to the person next to you***
✅ Plenty of time to sing, hang out, and meet people without feeling rushed
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✅ 100% not rude if you don't touch the mic
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✅ Everyone is single. No guessing, no ring checks
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Limited spots available. RSVP now: http://singlesmingle.fun/p/karaoke
13 attendeesSingles Pool Party & Summer Splash
Westhaven Pool, 1513 S Illinois St, Belleville, IL, USThis summer, we're taking it poolside, RSVP for a Summer Splash, DJ Dance Night, Pickelball or just to mingle while having fun at : https://singlesmingle.fun/p/poolparty
POOL PARTY
Swim, float, or lounge by the water all night at a private pool and racquet club.PICKLEBALL COURTS
Rally, compete, and meet people on the courts.DJ DANCE NIGHT
Live DJ keeping the music going from start to finish.DINNER & DRINKS
Full kitchen menu and bar service available all night.LIMITED TICKETS. Get yours before they're gone.
ABOUT SINGLES MINGLE
WELCOMING EVENTS, NOT CLIQUEY CROWDS
People actually come to meet others, not just hang out with the same friend groupALWAYS NEW FACES
Not the same 5 to 20 people showing up to every eventPROFESSIONALLY HOSTED
Not random. Not chaotic. Not "everyone just figure it out."
We host with intention so you meet new people in a fun way.DIFFERENT TYPES OF EVENTS FOR DIFFERENT KINDS OF PEOPLE
Dinner nights, pool parties, rooftop nights, game nights, dance nights, and more.COME FOR YOUR PEOPLE OR JUST A GREAT NIGHT OUT
Some people come looking for a relationship.
Others just want a better social life.
Both belong here.THE BEST CHANCE TO ACTUALLY MEET SOMEONE NEW
We're the largest IRL singles network in Southern Illinois and Metro St. Louis, which means more people, more fun, and better odds.Limited tickets. Get yours now: https://singlesmingle.fun/p/poolparty
11 attendees
20s, 30s & 40s Singles Rooftop Night
Oak Street Inn & Lounge | Cottleville MO, 5521 Oak St., Cottleville, MO 63304, Cottleville, MO, USMeet Me on the Rooftop
The air feels lighter.
The drinks taste better
And the energy feels different.
And the views, well the views just speak for themselvesA summer night for singles who want more than the usual bar scene...
Limited seats. Learn more: http://singlesmingle.fun/p/rooftops
Come solo or bring friends (20s, 30s & 40s)Thursday, August 13th. • 6:00 PM - 8:30 PM
** About Singles Mingle **
✅ Welcoming events, not cliquey crowds
People actually come to meet others, not just hang out with the same friend group✅ Always new faces
Not the same 5 to 20 people showing up to every event.✅ Ages 20s, 30s & 40s,
Find your people, your crowd, or maybe your person.✅ Professionally hosted
Not random. Not chaotic. Not “everyone just figure it out.” We host with intention so you meet new people in a fun way.✅ Different types of events for different kinds of people
Dinner nights, rooftop nights, game nights, dance nights, and more.✅ Come for your person or your people
Some people come looking for a relationship. Others just want a better social life. Both belong here.✅ The best chance to actually meet someone new
We’re the largest IRL singles network in Southern Illinois & Metro St. Louis, which means more people, more fun, and better odds.Limited seats. Get your ticket now at singlesmingle.fun/events
http://singlesmingle.fun/p/rooftops13 attendees
🎭Singles Mask & Mingle 2026 Halloween Party, a Spooky Way to Find Love IRL
Das Bevo, 4749 Gravois Ave, St. Louis, MO, US🎭 Don your finest mask, step into the moonlight and mingle in a Spooky Way!
🍂 Or simply sip fall cocktails, enjoy the ambiance & make friends.
💘 With romance in the air, your perfect match could be hiding behind a mask.
👥 2026 Halloween Party at a 100+ year-old historic windmill.
✨ All ages welcome. Masks or costumes optional, mingling required!
🔥 These events are popular and spots are limited, so RSVP now at https://singlesmingle.fun/p/halloween_m1
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### 📝 Note:
✅ Food & drinks available for purchase all evening
✅ Masks encouraged, costumes welcome OR come as you are!
✅ All mingle activities are optional and take place in the same venue and time frame
👉 Get ticket(s) here:
🔗 https://singlesmingle.fun/p/halloween_m1### 🍽️ Agenda
6:00 PM – 8:30 PM: Check-in, name tags, and ice-breaker activities
6:00 PM – 9:30 PM: Dinner (optional) & drinks available for purchase
6:00 PM – 10:00 PM: Music, masks, constumes, mingle, and more
9:30 PM – 10:00 PM: Closing connections & last call***
### 👕 What to Wear?
Halloween chic 🎃 — masks, costumes, or just casual night-out attire.
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### 🅿️ Parking
Plenty of parking available on-site.
🎟️ 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐓𝐢𝐜𝐤𝐞𝐭(𝐬) 𝐚𝐭:
https://singlesmingle.fun/p/halloween_m17 attendees
Past events
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