About us
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We are starting over. Again. Because that is Growth and Growth is a Choice. 💜 Please send me your constructive feedback / suggestions / encouragements to any of my known / public inboxes. We will respond thoughtfully to each of them as able.
Rules:
1. We work towards Growth and doing this as right as we know how,
2. We freely offer forgiveness and opportunity for growth and learning to All,
3. Not tolerating hate, Bigotry, persistent / unrepentant change when invited to by any member / Admin / Moderators is a Choice,
4. Choices are Valid
5. Communicating a No, Walking Away / Out, is Communication
6. All Choices are Valid when Freely Given
7. Choices are Agreements between 2+ people
8. Individual Choice is Always Valid
9. Yes, really. 💜 Always ♥️💙
Our events are Safe Spaces and welcome to newbies, first-timers, questioners, intrinsic polys, those who've been "in it a while", and all levels of experience or lack thereof. All forms of Consensual Non-Monogamy, all ages 21+ (18+ at public venues or with parental/guardian/responsible adult) supervision, orientations, gender identities and expressions, ethnicities, neurospicinesses, Secular and religious beliefs / philosophies, politics, body sizes, shapes, and modifications are welcome, heard, given voice, and made space for. Monogamous partners of Non-Monogamous persons are a part of who we are.
"Cowboying" is not welcome and will result in a ban. Those in Monogamous + Polyamorous relationships are welcome!!
Cruising for that night's "hook-up" or "play" is not welcome and will result in a ban. Our Events / Communities are Safe Spaces.
Breaking or not asking for Consent with brazen
Refusal to self-correct when given opportunity, refusing to hear / listen to / see a communicated "No" will result in
1. Being asked to immediately leave in person Safe Spaces,
2. Time Out (s)
3. Invitationagreements!
Consent is:
1. An agreement between 2 or more people
2. Reversible
3. Freely Given
4. Enthusastic
5. Silence is a Communicated No (hint: Notice the body languages, tones, words),
6. Something we all know, struggle with, and work on (it's a beautiful process and form of communication!!) 💜♥️💙
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👋 If you read this far, thank you for reading everything. We can do better, we all can. It starts with Me, It continues with You All, and will continue. 💜💙♥️ Non-Monogamy can be all of us if we do it right, and remember choices and agreements are Valid.
You may Support what We Organize/Create/Facilitate, for this and Sacramento's CNM group, and more soon! 💜 Only if you want, ofc. Updated budget for the remainder of the year coming soon 👀🗓🕐💜
Upcoming events
8
Past events
272
