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Get the free PDF workbook at https://buymeacoffee.com/stopdating/e/245547.
English language. Are you a woman looking to learn how to find your best partner and start a family? Join us as we share information about finding love. This is a space specifically designed for women to come together and support each other in their search for a long term relationship. (Attention men--you will be removed from the group and events. This is a space for female conversations.)
Learn the secrets to finding a committed partner. Samantha is an American writer and coach. She founded Porte Blanche in Strasbourg, a project to help people open new doors in their lives. Message her with your email if you'd like a free copy of the PDF workbook with the 10 rules for finding your life partner.
If you're located in Alsace and interested in writing, visit Samantha's Strasbourg Creative Writing Meetup Group.
Upcoming events (4)
See all- Winners and Losers Have the Same GoalsLink visible for attendees
English language. Join us on zoom for a 40 minute discussion of the book Atomic Habits by James Clear.
The author explains the number one problem with habits is that winners and losers have the same goals. "Every Olympian wants to win a gold medal. Every candidate wants to get the job. And if successful and unsuccessful people share the same goals, then goals cannot be what differentiates the winners from the losers." We can't rely on setting goals to achieve our dreams because our bad habits get in the way.
A different outcome can be achieved with a system of continuous small improvements. Your habits shape your identity (and vice versa.) Let's talk about how to improve your habits for dating.
Read the book for free, or download a copy, at https://archive.org/details/atomic-habits-pdfdrive.
Watch an 8 minute video at https://jamesclear.com/atomic-habits.
- The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup ArtistsLink visible for attendees
English language. Join us on zoom for a 40 minute discussion of the book The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists by Neil Strauss. Read the book for free at https://docs.google.com/file/d/16fTPlIF0pgJF7DJc0CnOMamqBtb6GFSqWf7GbGKqZfqIRdqII_mRYTGM4bLQ/preview
or https://www.academia.edu/11535054/The_Game_Penetrating_the_Secret_Society_of_Pickup_Arttists.About the book: "Hidden somewhere, in nearly every major city in the world, is an underground seduction lair. And in these lairs, men trade the most devastatingly effective techniques ever invented to charm women. This is not fiction. These men really exist. They live together in houses known as Projects. And Neil Strauss, the bestselling author, spent two years living among them, using the pseudonym Style to protect his real-life identity."
We're going to discuss the PUA (pick-up artist) community and some of the techniques they use.
- He's Lying Sis: Uncover the Truth Behind His Words and ActionsLink visible for attendees
English language. Join us on zoom for a 40 minute discussion of the book He's Lying Sis: Uncover the Truth Behind His Words and Actions, Volume 1 by Stephen Labossiere. Read the book for free at https://issuhub.com/view/index/35169?page=7.
About the book: "This groundbreaking book, jam-packed with expert insight and advice will help avoid the pitfalls and negative cycles created by a man's lies and lack of transparency. Get the confirmation you need to do what is truly best for you. Create healthier communication and better relationships and MUCH MORE...A better relationship IS possible if you know the right steps to take…"
American author and dating coach Labossiere is religious but offers clear advice everyone can use. Watch his videos at Stephen Speaks.
- Attached: Find and Keep LoveLink visible for attendees
English language. Join us on zoom for a 40 minute discussion of the book Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love by psychiatrist and neuroscientist Amir Levine and psychologist Rachel S. F. Heller. Read the book for free at https://archive.org/details/AttachementTheory/mode/2up.
About the book: The authors "reveal how an understanding of attachment theory-the most advanced relationship science in existence today-can help us find and sustain love. Attachment theory forms the basis for many bestselling books on the parent/child relationship, but there has yet to be an accessible guide to what this fascinating science has to tell us about adult romantic relationships-until now."
The 3 types of attachment styles:
*ANXIOUS people are often preoccupied with their relationships and tend to worry about their partner's ability to love them back.
*AVOIDANT people equate intimacy with a loss of independence and constantly try to minimize closeness.
*SECURE people feel comfortable with intimacy and are usually warm and loving.Join us for a chat about the book.
