About us
I started Swirl Sip Social Wine Circle for anyone who enjoys a good glass of wine but feels a little out of their depth when it comes to actually describing it. This is a relaxed tasting practice group where we get together to slow down, compare notes, and learn how to pick out the things we are smelling and tasting without any pressure to sound like a sommelier. You do not need to know the difference between a Burgundy and a Bordeaux to join us; a curious palate and a willingness to share your honest opinion are all that is required.
Most of our meetups are small enough that everyone can sit around the same table and actually talk. We usually pick a loose theme for the evening, such as comparing a few bottles from the same grape or region, and we take our time swirling, sniffing, and sipping our way through them. I like to keep things conversational, so if you think a wine smells like your grandmother's garden or tastes like a wet sidewalk, that is exactly the kind of observation we want to hear. We often bring along a few simple snacks to keep things balanced and to see how food changes what is in the glass.
I try to keep the cost reasonable by sharing the price of the bottles among whoever attends, and I will always post the details ahead of time so there are no surprises. Whether you are just getting into wine or you have been collecting bottles for years and want a low-key place to practice blind tasting, you are very welcome here. The goal is simply to drink a little less and taste a little more, while meeting a few good people along the way.
Upcoming events
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Tokyo Gay Singles Speed Mixer
20-46-6 Ichigayayakuōjimachi, Tokyo, JP🍷 A Speed Social for Gay and Bi Men in Tokyo, Hosted on Zoom
A handful of short video dates, a friendly host, and nothing to organise yourself. You'll talk with a series of Tokyo guys in quick private video rooms. Afterwards you tell us who you liked, and if he liked you back we pass on the details.
Registration by age group:
- 18-32 → Register here
- 30-46 → Register here
- 40-58 → Register here
- 55+ → Register here
⚠️ Seats are confirmed only after registering through the age group link above and finishing the quiz.
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The Details
- Format: Short private video dates on Zoom
- Where: Online (the Zoom link is emailed once you register)
- Host: A live host who runs the rounds
- Vibe: Easy, upbeat and inclusive
Who it's for
- Men who like an evening with some structure to it
- Gay and bi men in Tokyo who want real conversation, not endless swiping
- Anyone who'd rather check for chemistry on video before a first drink
How the Evening Works
- Choose your age group – Use the link above to register.
- Do the quiz – A few quick questions so the pairings make sense.
- Watch your email – The Zoom details arrive before the night.
- Chat – A few minutes with each match while the host keeps time.
- Connect – If you both say yes, we put you in touch.
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A good first date might only be a few minutes away. 🍷11 attendees
Yokohama Speed Social for Gay Singles
Japan, Yokohama, JP🏳️🌈 Date Night for Yokohama Guys Who Date Guys: Several Short Dates, One Evening
A social, low pressure way to meet single gay and bi men from Yokohama in one evening. Think of it as a night out where every conversation is one-on-one and everyone in the room is single and looking.
Save your seat (choose your age range):
- 18-32 → Register here
- 30-46 → Register here
- 40-58 → Register here
- 55+ → Register here
⚠️ Seats are confirmed only after registering through the age group link above and finishing the quiz.
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The Details
- Format: Hosted online speed dating, a few minutes per date
- Where: Zoom, from wherever you are in Yokohama
- Host: A live host who runs the rounds
- Vibe: Easy, upbeat and inclusive
How the Evening Works
- Choose your age group – Use the link above to register.
- Do the quiz – A few quick questions so the pairings make sense.
- Get the link – We email your Zoom invite ahead of the session.
- Chat – A few minutes with each match while the host keeps time.
- Connect – If you both say yes, we put you in touch.
Who it's for
- Quieter types who do better one-on-one than in a crowd
- Gay and bi men in Yokohama who want real conversation, not endless swiping
- Anyone ready to date again after some time off
- Men who like an evening with some structure to it
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A good first date might only be a few minutes away. 🌈11 attendees
Osaka Gay Singles Speed Mixer
26-32 Motomachi, Osaka, JP🌈 A Speed Social for Gay and Bi Men in Osaka, Hosted on Zoom
Gay speed dating for Osaka, run by a host and held over video so you can join from home. Think of it as a night out where every conversation is one-on-one and everyone in the room is single and looking.
Pick the session for your age:
- 18-32 → Register here
- 30-46 → Register here
- 40-58 → Register here
- 55+ → Register here
⚠️ Seats are confirmed only after registering through the age group link above and finishing the quiz.
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Who it's for
- Gay and bi men in Osaka who want real conversation, not endless swiping
- Single guys living in or near Osaka
- Men who like an evening with some structure to it
- Anyone who'd rather check for chemistry on video before a first drink
- Anyone ready to date again after some time off
How the Evening Works
- Choose your age group – Use the link above to register.
- Answer a short quiz – It's how we match you with guys you'll get on with.
- Watch your email – The Zoom details arrive before the night.
- Chat – A few minutes with each match while the host keeps time.
- Connect – If you both say yes, we put you in touch.
The Details
- Format: Timed one-on-one rounds with a live host
- Where: Zoom, from wherever you are in Osaka
- Host: Host on hand for introductions and timing
- Vibe: Light, social chats with Osaka guys
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Looking forward to seeing you at the mixer. 😊11 attendees
Nagoya Gay Singles Speed Mixer
2-chōme-12-13 Jōshin, Nagoya, JP🙌 The Nagoya Gay Speed Mixer: Talk First, Swipe Never
An easygoing evening of hosted speed dates for gay and bi men around Nagoya, all on Zoom. Think of it as a night out where every conversation is one-on-one and everyone in the room is single and looking.
Pick the session for your age:
- 18-32 → Register here
- 30-46 → Register here
- 40-58 → Register here
- 55+ → Register here
⚠️ To actually join, register with your age group link. The RSVP here is just a heads up; the quiz is what gets you matched.
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Who it's for
- Single guys living in or near Nagoya
- Anyone ready to date again after some time off
- Quieter types who do better one-on-one than in a crowd
- First timers who'd like an easy, guided introduction to speed dating
- Gay and bi men in Nagoya who want real conversation, not endless swiping
The Details
- Format: Short private video dates on Zoom
- Where: Online (the Zoom link is emailed once you register)
- Host: Host on hand for introductions and timing
- Vibe: Relaxed, friendly and LGBTQ+ welcoming
How the Evening Works
- Register – Open the link for your age range above.
- Do the quiz – A few quick questions so the pairings make sense.
- Get the link – We email your Zoom invite ahead of the session.
- Chat – A few minutes with each match while the host keeps time.
- Connect – If you both say yes, we put you in touch.
Questions People Ask
I've never done speed dating. Is that okay?
Absolutely. The host walks everyone through it at the start.What happens after the event?
You pick who you'd like to see again. Matches are mutual only.---
Come for a few nice conversations, maybe leave with a date. 😊11 attendees
