- The Art of TouchSan Diego, San Diego, CA
**We all need touch.
**We all need affection.
**We all need nurturing.
**We all need community.
**It’s part of being human!
**It’s no longer a question.
Nurturing, welcome consensual touch is good for you!- Good for your body, heart and spirit!
- Good for your blood pressure.
- Good for your nervous system.
- Good for your emotional health.
- Good for your mental health.
- Good for your ability to connect with and trust people.
- Good for your ability to respect and care for yourself.
- Good for your creativity.
- Good for your sense of safety, comfort and belonging.
Infants who are deprived of touch fail to thrive; and we never outgrow that need!
We humans all need platonic touch, that is safe, consensual and healing.
Now, if you are a human being reading this, chances are you have a desire to have your touch needs met. In fact, 27% of those surveyed regarding their ‘love language’ report physical touch as being their primary love language; while 24% report it as being a secondary love language; and 25% report physical touch as being their tertiary love language. That’s 76% of the population surveyed saying that physical touch is somewhere in the upper spectrum of their human needs!
Touch can come in many forms. From simply holding hands, to being held, to giving a hug, to receiving a hug, to receiving a massage, to giving a massage. Touch in it’s many forms has been proven scientifically to provide many benefits, including the need for connection, and non-sexual intimacy.TOUCH IS A BASIC HUMAN NEED!
We are excited to offer you a chance to come to an event that is all about having your needs for connection, community and physical touch met.We will start the evening out with some ‘authentic relating’ games to garner connection and community, then move into some physical connection games such as the practice of Latihan, some dance and movement meditation to get us into our bodies and comfortable with others in the space. Then we will offer a number of physical connection games to be played in dyads, triads, and moresomes! You'll have fun, meet new people, get connected and have your touch needs met in ways you’ve never imagined possible!
The feeling we aim to create for this event is one of relaxation and fun!
So come, relax, enjoy yourself, take a load off and be in the energy of people just like you, people who desire connection and community and would like to be nurtured, held, and touched, by people just like you!
We will honor each other's boundaries and practice verbal consent before we touch anyone, and everyone will have the opportunity to bow out of any exercise or activity that doesn’t feel right for them. We will lovingly and compassionately respect each other's YES or NO. We will not make each other wrong for having desires or asking for what we want. We will respect each other for their willingness to try new things and won’t pass judgment on those who chose themselves or on those who change their mind.If you are a compassionate and empathetic being who has good communication and boundary skills, who plays well with others, and desires community, connection and touch as much as the rest of us, then we would like to invite you to come play with us!
ABOUT LATIHAN
Latihan is a movement based practice similar to Tai Chi or Qigong that can be done standing, sitting, or lying down and often combines all three in one session! Also considered to be a form of prayer or meditation, Latihan is practiced in super slow motion and similar to contact improv, only it’s done blindfolded!The word "latihan" means "exercise" or "training" in Indonesian. During Latihan, participants aim to connect with the divine through physical and spiritual surrender. The practice is not tied to any specific religious doctrine or spiritual belief system, and as such participants are encouraged to interpret their experiences in their own way.
Latihan is often described as a spontaneous process that arises from within the practitioner. During the practice, the person opens themselves up to a higher power, and allows themselves to be guided by that power. This can manifest in physical movements, emotional releases, or other experiences that are unique to the individual.
Many participants report that Latihan is a transformative experience that can lead to spiritual growth and personal development. Practitioners also tend to agree that practice can help to bring about positive changes in the world!
Energy Exchange:
- Early Bird - $33 (Limited Quantity Available)
- Regular - $44
- Day of - $55
Click on the Eventbrite link below to purchase your ticket and get the location details: Please note: Tickets will NOT be offered at the door. Exact address will be provided with your ticket purchase.
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/893372831187 - Tantra Speed Date® - San Diego (Meet Singles Speed Dating)535 Encinitas Blvd suite 100, Encinitas, CA
Tired of Swiping? Tantra Speed Date® is not your average singles event!
Dust off those quarantine cobwebs and come out to meet new singles at Tantra Speed Date®.
This is not the drab traditional speed dating experience you may have had. Relationship skills games + speed date, you'll share moments of fun, guided connection with up to 20 dates in a Puja circle.
Over 15,000 singles have gone on 80,000+ dates in 30+ cities worldwide. 95% have matched with one or more dates. If you don't match, your next event is on us!
Exercises are playful, PG-rated (verbal dyads, dance, light partner yoga, improv), and infused with positive relating skills. You'll walk away not only with matches, but with a refreshing perspective on what relationships can be.
Get your ticket today!
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~ IMPORTANT DETAILS ~- Please arrive on time to check in and receive your dating materials.
- Ceremony portion begins 30 minutes after start time. Doors will be closed for the duration of the ceremony. LATE ARRIVALS WILL NOT BE ADMITTED. See cancellation/late policy below
Events do sell out, so purchase tickets online to guarantee your spot. Door tickets are cash only and subject to capacity and gender balance. Tickets are non-transferable and cannot be sold or exchanged.
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What is Reiki?
Reiki is a gentle hands‐on energy therapy technique that is used for stress reduction and relaxation. Reiki (pronounced "Ray-Key") was developed by a Japanese man named Mikao Usui in the early 1900's. Reiki is a Japanese word. REI means "universal" and KI is "energy". It's also often translated as the "Universal Life Force".
What are the benefits of Reiki?
• Balances the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual body• Creates a deep state of calm and relaxation
• Releases emotional blockages
• Relieves stress
• Releases muscle tension
• Helps relieve pain
• Accelerates healing
• Support the body's natural ability to heal itself
• Combines well with other healing methods to enhance result
What do I learn in a Reiki Class?
In Reiki Level 1 you will learn• about the history of Reiki
• the Reiki principles
• the Reiki hand positions
• how to give a Reiki session
• Reiki ethics
Receive a Reiki Level 1 attunement and certificate
In Reiki Level 2 you will learn• The Reiki Symbols
• Scanning
• Clearing
• Mental and Emotional Healing
• Distance healing
• Use of the Symbols during sessions
Receive a Reiki Level 2 attunement and certificate
Who can attend?
Anyone who wants to learn Reiki to help their friends, family or clients
What to wear?Wear comfortable clothing.
What to bring?
Bring a notepad and pen.
* Please note that the sessions will be on the floor on mats, so if you have a back problems, it might not be suitable for you.
Light snacks will be provided.
There will be an hour long lunch break. There are several restaurants in the area, but you are also welcome to bring your own lunch.
Investment:
Level 1: $195Level 2: $295
Take both on the same weekend: $450
Click here to register: shekinaray.com/reiki-san-diego
About Shekina:
Shekina Ray is an international Energy Healer and Tantra Teacher. She has been teaching different energy healing modalities for 20+ years worldwide. She is a Reiki Master, Matrix Energetics and Reconnective Healing Practitioner, Access Consciousness Facilitator and Tantra Educator. She enjoys encouraging people to find ways to express themselves and teaches a variety of classes to help people discover their passions, love and accept themselves, build their self-esteem.
Testimonials:"I really enjoyed my training with you. You made it simple and easy and enjoyable!"
- Lisa
"The classes were great. It was wonderful to meet you and to learn so much (now I just have to practice!) in such a friendly and supportive way. Your kindness, openness, and generous spirit are inspiring! Thank you for everything!"- Debbie
"I feel like I've received a profound gift, and I feel very blessed; I feel like you opened a gate for me and I'm very grateful to you."- Marye
"What an amazing and gifted group of people . . . "when the student is ready, the teacher appears."- Amy
"I felt better immediately. Received positive feedback. Looking forward to learning more."- Edith
PAYMENT AND REFUNDS Please pay online using Eventbrite or at the website. If you reserve and then find you cannot make it we will give you a credit for the next event ‘if’ you contact us and let us know. There is no refund or credit if you don’t show up. For credit to be applied we must have an email with your request on file prior to the start of the event. Refunds are only available if you give us 72 hrs notice.
Click here to register: shekinaray.com/reiki-san-diego - Intro to Energy Org@smSan Diego, San Diego, CA
Expand your own energetic field and turn it into a powerful source of connection and bliss. Feel energized, empowered and totally amazing.
### Have you ever experienced an energy orgasm?
Do you know someone who is able to have it and you are curious to experience this yourself? Have you experienced it “by accident” and would like to do this again?
Would you like to know if it's real?
Would you like to feel the delight of an energy orgasm course through your body, igniting your senses?
If you have answered any of these questions YES, then this Intro to Energy Orgasm event is for YOU!
Come and expand your own energetic field and turn it into a powerful source of connection and bliss. Feel energized, empowered and totally amazing.
Through a series of playful activities and exercises, you will learn how to:
- Shake off negative emotions (Kundalini shaking exercise)
- Develop a more intuitive touch as you learn to sense your own energy
- Deepen your connection as you develop your ability resonate with your partner’s energy
- Increase the energy by using breath, movement and sound
- Circulate the energy flow through your body as a path to achieve energy orgasm
All activities and exercises will be guided in a safe and nurturing environment.
You can do the entire workshop by yourself or with a partner or in groups.
Gender balance is not guaranteed and not necessary.
All activities and exercises will be always optional.
Date:- Saturday, May 18th, 2024
Time:
- 5:30 pm - Doors Open
- 6:00 pm - Workshop Begins
- 8:00 pm - Workshop Ends
Location: San Diego, CA
About Shekina:
Shekina Ray is an international Energy Healer and Tantra Teacher. She has been teaching various energy healing modalities such as Reiki, Access Consciousness and Tantra worldwide for the past 22 years. She has a unique ability to sense, move and amplify sexual energy and teach people how to do it. She teaches a variety of classes that assist people in discovering their passions, loving and accepting themselves, building their self-esteem and helping them to be comfortable and confident about their body and sexuality.Interview with Metro Magazine, London, UK
What it feels like to have a full body orgasm?
https://metro.co.uk/2018/09/25/what-it-feels-like-to-have-a-full-body-orgasm-7977872
REVIEWS:
Video Review from Chris D. Switzerland
https://youtu.be/9-JE9Q6Vq_0
For the first time in my life I feel these points in my body. For the first time I feel how to connect to my inner energy through these points, of course thanks to Shekina Ray and her great techniques and teachings, she raised my awareness towards my body via a different realm. Even the physical pains that I have were gone, when she taught me special techniques and massages. She helped me to connect to myself in different new way and to look at myself from compassionate prospect. I can’t thank her enough, hoping to learn from her more in the future.
Elissar, EH, Maastricht, Netherlands
After Shekina’s course and I feel a big opening in my body. It brings me Joy, a whole new flow and now I feel ready to explore the world of energy. I was a bit lost with some aspects of myself but Shekina and the lovely group helped me to find a new confidence. I own my life, I own my orgasms, I own self love. Thank you Shekina for bringing these courses out there. I’m so thankful.
Laurence, Gent, Belgium
What to wear?
Loose, comfortable clothing and thick socks.
What to bring?
Light snacks will be provided, but feel free to bring your favorite snacks or refreshments. - Reiki Certification Class - LEVEL 1 & 2 - with Shekina RaySan Diego, San Diego, CA
What is Reiki?
Reiki is a gentle hands‐on energy therapy technique that is used for stress reduction and relaxation. Reiki (pronounced "Ray-Key") was developed by a Japanese man named Mikao Usui in the early 1900's. Reiki is a Japanese word. REI means "universal" and KI is "energy". It's also often translated as the "Universal Life Force".
What are the benefits of Reiki?
• Balances the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual body• Creates a deep state of calm and relaxation
• Releases emotional blockages
• Relieves stress
• Releases muscle tension
• Helps relieve pain
• Accelerates healing
• Support the body's natural ability to heal itself
• Combines well with other healing methods to enhance result
What do I learn in a Reiki Class?
In Reiki Level 1 you will learn• about the history of Reiki
• the Reiki principles
• the Reiki hand positions
• how to give a Reiki session
• Reiki ethics
Receive a Reiki Level 1 attunement and certificate
In Reiki Level 2 you will learn• The Reiki Symbols
• Scanning
• Clearing
• Mental and Emotional Healing
• Distance healing
• Use of the Symbols during sessions
Receive a Reiki Level 2 attunement and certificate
Who can attend?
Anyone who wants to learn Reiki to help their friends, family or clients
What to wear?Wear comfortable clothing.
What to bring?
Bring a notepad and pen.
* Please note that the sessions will be on the floor on mats, so if you have a back problems, it might not be suitable for you.
Light snacks will be provided.
There will be an hour long lunch break. There are several restaurants in the area, but you are also welcome to bring your own lunch.
Investment:
Level 1: $195Level 2: $295
Take both on the same weekend: $450
Click here to register: shekinaray.com/reiki-san-diego
About Shekina:
Shekina Ray is an international Energy Healer and Tantra Teacher. She has been teaching different energy healing modalities for 20+ years worldwide. She is a Reiki Master, Matrix Energetics and Reconnective Healing Practitioner, Access Consciousness Facilitator and Tantra Educator. She enjoys encouraging people to find ways to express themselves and teaches a variety of classes to help people discover their passions, love and accept themselves, build their self-esteem.
Testimonials:"I really enjoyed my training with you. You made it simple and easy and enjoyable!"
- Lisa
"The classes were great. It was wonderful to meet you and to learn so much (now I just have to practice!) in such a friendly and supportive way. Your kindness, openness, and generous spirit are inspiring! Thank you for everything!"- Debbie
"I feel like I've received a profound gift, and I feel very blessed; I feel like you opened a gate for me and I'm very grateful to you."- Marye
"What an amazing and gifted group of people . . . "when the student is ready, the teacher appears."- Amy
"I felt better immediately. Received positive feedback. Looking forward to learning more."- Edith
PAYMENT AND REFUNDS Please pay online using Eventbrite or at the website. If you reserve and then find you cannot make it we will give you a credit for the next event ‘if’ you contact us and let us know. There is no refund or credit if you don’t show up. For credit to be applied we must have an email with your request on file prior to the start of the event. Refunds are only available if you give us 72 hrs notice.
Click here to register: shekinaray.com/reiki-san-diego - Intro to Sex Magic Ritual (For Couples) w/Shekina Ray and Shiva JNeeds location
Join us for a steamy night of connection and intimacy as we explore the ancient practice of sex magic rituals for couples!
### Intro to Sex Magic Ritual (For Couples) w/Shekina Ray and Shiva J
Join us for a unique and intimate experience as we explore the ancient practice of sex magic with your partner. This event is designed to deepen your connection, enhance intimacy, and manifest your desires together through the power of ritual and intention.
During this in-person gathering, you will learn sacred practices, guided meditations, and rituals that will help you tap into the transformative energy of your sexual connection. Whether you are looking to reignite the spark in your relationship or take it to the next level, this experience is perfect for couples of all backgrounds and orientations.
Come and discover the magic that lies within your partnership!
JOIN US SUNDAY MAY 19th
This workshop will be structured around practices that promote personal growth and spiritual awakening, while also emphasizing the power of the divine feminine and the transformative potential of Tantric Philosophy. The event will include a variety of practices, such as meditation, tantra yoga, energy work, dance, breathwork, sound healing, ritual offerings, guided visualization, and group sharing.
As we embrace the symbolism of purity and new beginnings, we invite you to partake in our all-white dress code, symbolizing unity, purity, and a blank canvas for spiritual exploration. This attire will help set the tone and create a visually harmonious environment conducive to deep connection and spiritual exploration.
Throughout the ceremony, participants will focus on connecting with their own inner power and exploring the depths of their divine self in a safe and sacred space. Overall, the theme of the event will be centered around the idea of awakening to one's full potential and reclaiming the divine being within.
Please note that this event is open to individuals of all genders and sexual orientations. We are committed to creating a safe and inclusive space for everyone to explore their own unique journey.
We hope you will join us for this transformative experience.
Please RSVP to reserve your spot and receive more information on the location and logistics.
LIMITED TO THE FIRST 24 PARTICIPANTS WHO REGISTER!
Time:- Doors Open: 5:30pm
- Ceremony starts: 6:00pm (no one admitted after event begins)
- Event ends: 9:00pm
Energy Exchange: (Limited Capacity Venue, please register early!)
- Per Couples ($111)
Click on the Eventbrite link below to purchase your ticket and get the location details: Please note: Tickets will NOT be offered at the door. Exact address will be provided with your ticket purchase.
GET TICKETS HERE
NOTE: For couples who have been to other events with Shiva J, I will accept Venmo payment to save you fees. Sorry but first timers must register via Eventbrite.
Dress Code:
Please wear all white to this event to help set the tone of purity and new beginnings. (Changing space available when you arrive) Sori, Sarong, Robes, but please be modest and keep covered for the ritual.
Location:- Near Old Town San Diego, CA. 92110
- (Exact address provided with ticket purchase.)
- NOTE: We do not sell tickets at the door.
- May Full Moon//Flower Moon//Tantric Ceremony//w Shiva J & HoneyBee!!San Diego, San Diego, CA
Come join us under the May Full Moon for a magical Flower Moon Tantric Ceremony filled with love, connection, and spiritual awakening!
### May Full Moon//Flower Moon//Tantric Ceremony
Come join us for a magical evening under the May Full Moon, also known as the Flower Moon. This special event will feature a Tantric Ceremony to help you connect with yourself and the energy of the moon. Let go of stress and worries as you immerse yourself in this unique experience. Open to all who are seeking spiritual growth and a deeper connection with the universe. Don't miss out on this opportunity to align your mind, body, and spirit in harmony with the energy of the full moon!
The Spiritual Meaning of the May Full Moon:
In many spiritual beliefs, the flower moon is seen as a sacred time of blossoming and awakening. It stands as a seasonal reminder to be thankful for the beauty in the world, practice patience with yourself and others, and water and nurture the new beginnings you are cultivating.
Rather than feeling defeated or anxious about the future you are sprouting, the flower moon invites you to rediscover the joy and beauty in the present moment. Think about the ways you can extend yourself more grace. The flower moon encourages you to be gentle with yourself on your journey.The 2024 flower moon will rise in freedom-seeking Sagittarius, a fearless fire sign. In astrology, the flower moon in Sagittarius can symbolize growth, discovery, and the pursuit of truth. Due to Sagittarius's optimistic and upbeat nature, the 2024 flower moon may manifest a feeling of hopefulness, excitement, and a yearning for fresh experiences.
We look forward to sharing this enchanting experience with you and celebrating the magic of the May Full Moon together. Let's embrace the transformative energy of the Flower Moon and embark on a journey of self-discovery and spiritual growth. Don't miss this opportunity to connect with the universe and align your mind, body, and spirit under the radiant light of the full moon.
JOIN US THURSDAY MAY 23RD 2024
What you will experience:- Guided meditation!
- Embodiment practice!
- Breathwork!
- Shadow Work!
- Journaling and intention setting practice.
Time:
- Doors Open: 6:30pm
- Ceremony starts: 7:00pm (no one admitted after event begins)
- Event ends: 10:00pm
Energy Exchange:
- Early Bird - $33 (Limited Quantity Available)
- Regular - $44
- Day of - $55
Click on the Eventbrite link below to purchase your ticket and get the location details: Please note: Tickets will NOT be offered at the door. Exact address will be provided with your ticket purchase.
GET TICKETS HERE - Authentic Relating Games!San Diego, San Diego, CA
ARG is a masterfully facilitated experience that give players a hands-on taste of of both the joy and skills of interpersonal connection.
# Authentic Relating Games
Join us for an evening of connection and authenticity at the Authentic Relating Games event!
This in-person gathering is designed to foster meaningful connections and deep conversations.
Get ready to dive into a series of interactive games and partner exercises that will challenge you to explore vulnerability, empathy, and genuine human connection. Whether you're a newcomer or a seasoned participant, this event offers a safe and inclusive space for everyone.
Come prepared to engage in thought-provoking conversations, active listening, and sharing your own experiences.
Don't miss this opportunity to meet new people, expand your social circle, and deepen your understanding of yourself and others.
Join us for an unforgettable evening of Authentic Relating Games!
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Authenticity is acting and speaking in alignment with our inner feelings, desires, and needs. Authentic Relating (AR) is the practice of bringing our truth into connection with others’, so that we can weave a more rich and truthful human experience.
The Authentic Relating Games are an easy and fun way to introduce AR into daily life. They can help us experience deeper connections, boost empathy, see the world through others’ eyes, and understand ourselves better so that we can enjoy life more.
By the end of a game, you may feel like you’ve known your partner(s) for a long time. Many people express that they feel lonely or anxiety when entering a room full of strangers and leaving feeling like lifelong friends. Every game is a unique experience, whether you are playing it for the first time or the hundredth, because there is something new to learn about others and ourselves every time we enter into a new connection.
From simple curiosity games, to awareness-building and group activities which can take individuals safely out of their comfort zone, Authentic Relating games have the ability to profoundly and positively impact how we interact and live.## JOIN US FOR A NIGHT OF AUTHENTIC RELATING!
What you will experience:
- Fun!
- Connection!
- Camaraderie!
- Community!
Time:
- Doors Open: 6:30 pm (Social Time/Community Building)
- Game starts 7:00 pm (no one admitted after event begins)
- Event ends: 10:00 pm
Please do bring a snack to share with everyone! Sharing food with friends is a GREAT way to build connection and community!
Energy Exchange:- Early Bird - $22 (Limited Quantity Available)
- Regular - $33
- Day of - $44
Click on the Eventbrite link below to purchase your ticket and get the location details: Please note: Tickets will NOT be offered at the door. Exact address will be provided with your ticket purchase.
GET TICKETS HEREABOUT YOUR FACILITATOR:
~ Shiva J is a Certified Tantra Educator, Kundalini Yoga Instructor, Somatic Bodyworker, Certified Life Coach, Licensed Clinical Hypnotherapist, and Master NLP Practitioner who has been in the world of transformational work since 2003.With a 20+ year career in the fitness world under his belt he suddenly found himself with a severe back injury that prevented him from continuing on that path. Around the same time he found himself facing divorce, bankruptcy and homelessness. Determined to rise from these pitfalls he began to study holistic wellness, and Tantra to help heal his body, mind and spirit. Having prevailed over a rather bleak and almost hopeless dark night of the soul he experienced a spiritual awakening and discovered his true calling as a healer, and community builder.
With his unique perspective of the mind, body, spirit connection he has helped thousands of clients transform their lives. He combines all of these unique tools along with his gift of insight to help his clients overcome any physical or mental challenge they may be currently experiencing in their lives.
When not at work doing what he loves, Shiva J can be found at a local internet cafe sipping a dirty chai latte, attending ecstatic dancing, a drum circle, or out hiking or biking local trails and if you can't find him at all, he has probably taken a sabbatical and gone hiking or camping someplace more exotic!
Shiva J is available for private sessions, workshops and retreats.