Coffee, Tea and Spirituality

Intellectual, respectful discussion on spiritual topics. 4/11 topic: Two of the most dangerous words in the English language: "IF ONLY."
What differentiates hope from wishful thinking?
Many religions and spiritual practices offer promises for the future, guidance about living in the present, advice about appreciating what you have, not desiring what is not yours, etc. TOPIC QUESTIONS: How does your spiritual practice address this?
How do you balance it in your life?