About us
Welcome to The Irrefutable Dames of Wine Snobbery Naples Meetup!
If you have a serious passion for all things wine, this is the group for you. Whether you’re an avid oenophile, wine collector or sommelier, join us for monthly tastings, wine dinners and discussions on the finest wines from around the world. Expand your palate and mingle with fellow wine aficionados in relaxed and social settings in some of the finest locales in Naples to include Wine Spectator Award restaurants as well as the homes and cellars of our membership. Let’s uncork, unwind, and explore the wonderful world of wine together. Cheers!
🍇 What to Expect:
- Monthly tastings, wine dinners, and private cellar experiences
- Exploration and discussion of the world’s most iconic and rare wines
- Conversations and camaraderie with like-minded women
- Exclusive gatherings at **Wine Spectator Award–**winning restaurants and member-hosted private venues
- All gatherings curated and attended by a certified wine professional and sommelier
- Nominal Annual Member Dues after trial ($99)
Hi, my name is Jason Michael Pate, Chief Wine Snob of Exceptional Wine Experiences Group**. I began organizing wine appreciation groups in 2019 in Beverly Hills, California with the Beverly Hills Wine Club**. I expanded to Greater Los Angeles that same year with For The Love of Wine while growing my groups to over 750 members. In September 2023 I began the greater Naples, Florida (Paradise Coast) chapter of For The Love of Wine**. In January 2025, The Extraordinary League of Gentlemen Wine Snobs held their inaugural gathering! In September 2025,
The Irrefutable Dames of Wine Snobbery - Naples held their 1st gathering. And now, coming in 2026, introducing…**The Cuvee Couples of the Grand Cru.
We invite wine lovers and wine services the world over to celebrate, elevate and champion these passionate wine communities through awareness, education and first in class experiential events.
Our activities include curated live local events such as wine tasting experiences, winemaker dinners, sommelier referral services, and web-based educational content to name a few.
Whether you're just getting interested in wine or you have a stunning cellar full of fine Burgundy - you'll find an immersive group of passionate wine loving individuals in which to learn something new with each event.
We love wine! Come join us as we enjoy gorgeous wines the world over while celebrating wine and food with like minded Floridians.
Where there is no wine there is no love ~ Euripedes
Featured event
The Irrefutable Dames of Wine Snobbery - Open Gathering for Interested Dames
Sorry Gentlemen, this is a wine appreciation group for women who enjoy, collect and or study elevated wines. Each month the group meets at local Naples wine bars, hotels and restaurants to enjoy and discuss the finer wines the world has to offer.
Introducing…
The Irrefutable Dames of Wine Snobbery – Naples
After the successful debut of The Extraordinary League of Gentlemen Wine Snobs in January 2025, the question has been raised time and again:
“What about the ladies?”
Well, here it is. A new kind of wine group — refined, unapologetically selective, and passionately dedicated to the finest wines in the world.
If you’re a serious wine lover and or a collector, or just have enough wine knowledge to be dangerous:), The Irrefutable Dames of Wine Snobbery is for you. This is a group for women who seek depth in the glass and excellence in every sip.
What to Expect:
- Monthly tastings, wine dinners, and private cellar experiences
- Exploration and discussion of the world’s most iconic and rare wines
- Conversations and camaraderie with like-minded women
- Exclusive gatherings at Wine Spectator Award–winning restaurants and member-hosted private venues
- All gatherings curated and attended by a certified wine professional and sommelier
- Nominal Annual Member Dues after trial ($99)
Whether you’re building your cellar, expanding your palate, or simply enjoying the social side of fine wine, this group offers something special — a place to uncork, unwind, and elevate your wine journey.
Let’s raise a glass to curiosity, connection, and the uncompromising pursuit of great wine.
Where: Tulia Italian Steak Naples Downtown 365 Fifth Ave South, Naples, FL 34102
When: May 28th, 2026
Time: 5:30pm
Theme: Italian Wine and Cuisine
Estimated Meal Cost (open menu) with Tax/Gratuity ($75) due and payable to server at dinners conclusion.
Additionally, you are required to order a bottle of sparkling, white or red wine from Tulia Italian Steak’s wine menu with market value of $75-$150 and be prepared to talk about the wine, its region, winery or other wine details about why you selected the wine.
*Prefer to bring your own bottle of wine from your wine cellar collection? Please email Jason to confirm.
Cheers, Dames!
damesofwinesnobbery@exceptional-wine-experiences.com
mobile/text: 310-497-3332
Exceptional Wine Experiences Group
Jason Michael Pate - Chief Wine Snob/Sommelier/WSET 3 Candidate
Upcoming events
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The Irrefutable Dames of Wine Snobbery - Open Gathering for Interested Dames
Tulia Italian Steak, 365 Fifth Ave South, Naples, FL, USSorry Gentlemen, this is a wine appreciation group for women who enjoy, collect and or study elevated wines. Each month the group meets at local Naples wine bars, hotels and restaurants to enjoy and discuss the finer wines the world has to offer.
Introducing…
The Irrefutable Dames of Wine Snobbery – Naples
After the successful debut of The Extraordinary League of Gentlemen Wine Snobs in January 2025, the question has been raised time and again:
“What about the ladies?”
Well, here it is. A new kind of wine group — refined, unapologetically selective, and passionately dedicated to the finest wines in the world.
If you’re a serious wine lover and or a collector, or just have enough wine knowledge to be dangerous:), The Irrefutable Dames of Wine Snobbery is for you. This is a group for women who seek depth in the glass and excellence in every sip.What to Expect:
- Monthly tastings, wine dinners, and private cellar experiences
- Exploration and discussion of the world’s most iconic and rare wines
- Conversations and camaraderie with like-minded women
- Exclusive gatherings at Wine Spectator Award–winning restaurants and member-hosted private venues
- All gatherings curated and attended by a certified wine professional and sommelier
- Nominal Annual Member Dues after trial ($99)
Whether you’re building your cellar, expanding your palate, or simply enjoying the social side of fine wine, this group offers something special — a place to uncork, unwind, and elevate your wine journey.
Let’s raise a glass to curiosity, connection, and the uncompromising pursuit of great wine.Where: Tulia Italian Steak Naples Downtown 365 Fifth Ave South, Naples, FL 34102
When: May 28th, 2026
Time: 5:30pm
Theme: Italian Wine and Cuisine
Estimated Meal Cost (open menu) with Tax/Gratuity ($75) due and payable to server at dinners conclusion.
Additionally, you are required to order a bottle of sparkling, white or red wine from Tulia Italian Steak’s wine menu with market value of $75-$150 and be prepared to talk about the wine, its region, winery or other wine details about why you selected the wine.
*Prefer to bring your own bottle of wine from your wine cellar collection? Please email Jason to confirm.Cheers, Dames!
damesofwinesnobbery@exceptional-wine-experiences.com
mobile/text: 310-497-3332
Exceptional Wine Experiences Group
Jason Michael Pate - Chief Wine Snob/Sommelier/WSET 3 Candidate4 attendees
Past events
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